I am wondering how girls that do incall screen.... on the phone, what do they ask in person, where do they meet the guy, and what do they ask....
I used to do it a certain way that worked for me but that was about 4 years ago and I would like to share and hear what other providers are doing now... I dont worry about LE as much as I just worry about fake customers who want to show up and goof around, but have no intention of paying. I dont like the idea of getting all dressed up and going to a coffee place when I dont know for sure if they will just look and leave or just chicken out. I normally have follow thru's, but nowadays there is so much more goofballs.
I would recommend viewing the ladies boards, or e-mailing ladies for advice directly.
Many of us do not want our screening info so open (or someone can "prepare" to pass a screening!), and some of us change the criteria on a regular basis.
There are many various 'ladies' boards in existence, though offhand, I can only think of a couple I'm even somewhat familiar with I used to belong to the one on Naughty Escort so you could contact them at [email protected] . I have been out of touch in this area, so I apologize I can't offer more. There is also www.pleasureportal.net/forum/ and perhaps you could contact them. The best website I've ever encountered is no longer available, but it had the best screening information possible on there. Sad that I will never know what became of the site.
Before I would ever personally assist a Provider in answering screening questions, I would want to be very sure of whom I'm 'speaking' with, so be prepared to validate yourself.
To email the ladies that invited you to do so, if they didn't give you their email, you'd have to find their TER profile and get their email address from there. Thankfully, the wonderful Staff created a way for it to be linked to our posts, providing we post under our Username, and you can do the same by emailing Admin with the info so he can do that (note mine).
If you are a VIP member, and you know that the person offering to help you, say Carlee as example, is a VIP member, you can also PM her as long as you are certain of her username. If there is an envelope next to the posting author's name, that is their handle, as it appears.
oh thanks a bunch, i will check those boards out , I was unsure how a female would become a VIP and I did send a question to the admin and waiting on the answer. I saw where its free if one reviews...but as a provider...who is not intending to visit and then review...do the females/providers just pay the fee or what.
sorry, this is just all SO different from when i was providing. There are so many more situations, cell phone useage and just everything is completely different it seems like.
one gal on here gave me her email but did not put the @...with it...so I really dont know how that works but I also seem to have received mail, which i guess i cannot look at until i figure out the vip stuff.... J
I always give my name,phone number and were I work if asked; I have nothing to hide. I also send a very polite e-mail just like I would on a regular dating site with a little about me. What I will not give up is very personal info; and I always refuse to give references of other providers, I feel they should not be bothered with my personal business. I live in Seattle and it is super common practice here. that's why I do the hobby in Vancouver B.C. They are just as safe up there as anyplace else.
I dont ever meet for "coffee" unless its a client I already know..only because as you said they try to waste your time because I've had people book overnights then want to meet briefly before the long apt..and they try to get a free apt saying "oh add this hour to the overnight fee" knowing they will cancel before the big apt....the things I do for incall really seem to work but its so long for me to type it..I will PM you..but you definately need to check in with someone..I keep my security at the elevator on the floor I am on..he acts like a hotel guest getting on the elevator..waiting for my client to pass him in the hall..that way he can call if the guy looks weird or a bunch of security get off the elevator or anything is not right..and never give your room info to the client before they actually arrive at the hotel 5mins before the apt.. bexcause they may show up early when you are with another client or if they dont show..its a stranger that now has info he should not..hope that helps
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