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Posted By: funhunterbp
So after a few months or years at being a provider, what are things about being a provider that are different or a surprise you, than the way you thought it would be befre you started?
When I entered this biz I sent pics to an agency and asked her, "do you think I may have a chance?".  She said, "sure you do".  I started at 30 and I am not a bbw nor am I a spinner.  I am just a standard run of the mill woman who had to find a way to make this work for me.  And I did.  I've learned how to turn people on and push others away just by making rounds on local boards and displaying a unique perspective on the hobby.  I advocate the hobby and work it my way.  I tend to be opinionated and rock boats and people become curious about me.  I find that being more of a companion/mistress rather than an incall hourly provider is what works best and I still work very hard to try to convey that idea to potential new friends.  I still haven't figured out how to be less of a lurker on TER but I try.

So after a few months or years at being a provider, what are things about being a provider that are different or a surprise you, than the way you thought it would be befre you started?

IRwiley534 reads

How about the number of times a provider gets asked, "so how does my cock compare?"

You mean some reviews embellish the truth a bit? Say it isnt so! I am sure EVERY woman I have ever been with O's every 5 sec .... I just know it!!!!!!

this, but I never knew how much I would LOVE it!! It's been many years now, and it gets better each year. I keep thinking, NOW I am at my sexual peak. But I keep peaking higher and higher... heavens, may it long continue! :) I actually cream my panties now when I see older and distinguished gentlemen with gray or white hair. Who knew??

Damn, mark one up for the "silver foxes".....u just made my day!! :)

Posted By: funhunterbp
So after a few months or years at being a provider, what are things about being a provider that are different or a surprise you, than the way you thought it would be befre you started?
When I entered this biz I sent pics to an agency and asked her, "do you think I may have a chance?".  She said, "sure you do".  I started at 30 and I am not a bbw nor am I a spinner.  I am just a standard run of the mill woman who had to find a way to make this work for me.  And I did.  I've learned how to turn people on and push others away just by making rounds on local boards and displaying a unique perspective on the hobby.  I advocate the hobby and work it my way.  I tend to be opinionated and rock boats and people become curious about me.  I find that being more of a companion/mistress rather than an incall hourly provider is what works best and I still work very hard to try to convey that idea to potential new friends.  I still haven't figured out how to be less of a lurker on TER but I try.

It's the long term friends you find who really do like you for more than the sex. I have grown much through the years and so has the list of very close friends who started as a client. I don't think anyone ever expects to meet people who will last more than just one date but to be friends for years is quite a different view than I had to start with. A very wonderful addition to all the other pluses this type of relationship has given me

Kisses Haley

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I have been here for 10 years, on and off, and I have never regretted my decision to become a companion. I have never had a bad experience.

It, this providership, if you will, has afforded me the opportunity to meet highly interesting individuals, all with their own story to tell. I love it when I spend an evening with a gentleman with taste, discernment and a great sense of humour. I have been more places and seen more things than any of my peers, and this is all due to my place in this world.

I did 6 months of research before I ever entered into this world and made the conscious decision that companionship and I would work well together. That is something I think many people fail to do. I remember my first time :) What a great guy and we are still in touch.

What is surprising and different is that, before, I didn't think I would enjoy this, but I certainly did and do! I love this lifestyle.

Soon, it will change, but I have never, ever had a single regret. Sometimes I wish I would have started 10 years earlier, but looking back, at 18, I did not have the maturity to handle the "business" aspect of it (screening, scheduling, etc.). That would have been a lost cause for sure. I came into this world when I was meant to do so :)

Boy, this Captcha shite is a real mofo! One word you can read and the other is totally effed up. Jeebus!

so many of you when I can't post on the boards. It is like a little club where we have each other's back even when we disagree amongst ourselves. When the stalkers, trolls, and outsiders come in, we take up for one another. I never expected to find true friends for life here, but I have.

crazyshit225 reads

I appreciate the posts and the exchange of information and even a bit of "friendship," as you call it.  (Though truthfully, a friend is someone who will lend you money when you need it, in my book.)

But as far as having each others' back...I don't buy that brand.

But I'm glad you really enjoy the board.  You put a lot into it, and I think you get back what you put in.

crazyshit187 reads

I do think you're pretty cool, but I get anyone's back if he/she is talking nonsense.

Even at work...I don't play politics.  I guess I don't have to, because I run the place.

Posted By: funhunterbp
So after a few months or years at being a provider, what are things about being a provider that are different or a surprise you, than the way you thought it would be befre you started?

Holy crap was that an eventful thread.  I have to chime in on the side of LR and SS, crazyshit.  Seems pretty clear.  I don't like to paint myself into being just a straight out provider and I do have "friends" like you crazy but it certainly HAS to be about the $, or it just can't be no matter how well the chemistry is or any other aspect.

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