If the service is good how do you give a tip? Ya never know or do you keep the a gift in the car and offer to bring it up after? What is the protocal?
James

Dude the last thing a lady wants is to have her callers making multiple runs to their vehicle.
If you wish to carry a tip incase the service was extraordinary Just keep it seperate from the envelope and take care of it after the session.

gifts from returning guys should be brought up but I don't get what you are saying?  A gift is just that a gift, a TIP is CASH!

Gifts are gifts cash is a tip ladies can _buy_ their own gifts, something they will actually like in many cases.  Unless you read the website and they post their preferances, so what, are you going to return it to the store if she fails to meet your expectations??? Or pass it off at the Xmas party at work?


If it isd a gift why leave it in the car are we talking over $100?  Seems cheesey and cheap and rude like a leftover office party bonus gift?  MLots of guys  give gifts up front and then also a cash tip.   Would you tip your server or waitress with a gift?

Tips are not rmandatory for most girls  but gifts are _gifts_ and appreciated when done in advance it breaks the ice and it is flatterring.  It can help the YMMV.  

I think you may be the type who probably negotiates the acts & price ahead of time too though.  But I could be wrong-I hope!

never pet a burning dog

My thoughts...I always bring a gift.  It is always appreciated and is a gentlemanly thing to do.  Check their web site and they may give you some suggestions as to what they like.  Flowers, lotions and candles are always nice.

Re:  tips.  They are at your discretion.  It is up to you.  A tip is also appreciated and could be given for an extra nice time.

and watch them blow up to the size of baseballs while they caramelize inside.  Just as they pop, take them out and throw a scoop of ice cream on and watch them sizzle.  Then get back on the couch, turn on the game, chill out and get fat.

ellewoods
I am asking because I like to do things the proper way & I would say your remark was out of left field. You have me mixed up with someone you know.  So please when someone asks a question on how the proper way something is done; information is welcome. Whereas judgement is just rude. I don't know you. You do not know me. If you would ever be lucky enough to have a meeting with me I am sure it would be enlightening.
The best to you. My hope for you is that more of your clients try to be more informed about proper etiquette not only this but in all aspects of life.

AnotherInaneNubeeQuestion
 Makes sense about the trip thing. Thank You.

Hueyfan
Is that like in helicopter or Baby?
  The gift would be something to give because you want to, kind of like an introduction thing or glad to see you again. Tip is because she blew the top of your head off.
Thanks for the suggestions
James