Since escorts age with the rest of us, I wonder what their useful "shelf life" is.
Since they are selling both merchandise and service it seems that the aging process would take them through many phases.
In their 20's , a high demand product and service should be enough to get them through their youthful years.
In their 30's, the looks are fading but many step up their service and game and some can make more than the 20 something's.
In their 40's to 45, like aging athletes: a mere shadow of their former selves. Still some hang on with guile and lots of Botox and various plastic surgeries.
In their mid 40's and 50's, it's all over but the tears. Usually it means lowering their price, offering discounts and going into FBSM or BDSM.
In their 60's, I guess they can remove their dentures to give blow jobs.
Many providers I have sat down and talked to at some point put a target on when they expected to exit the profession. I have known many mid 20's escorts that put a career exit at 30. By the age of 30 they felt they would have saved enough money and be in a position financially to exit escorting. I know several of these same girls today at 38 who are still escorting because things did not work out as planned.
The ones I knew in their 30's said they would definitely be out by 40. And yet they hang in there hoping to get out someday. The "someday" never seems to come.
How many phases can these girls go through and remain escorts? Is these a limited useful shelf life? Should there be a mandatory retirement age? How old is too old?
ince escorts age with the rest of us, I wonder what their useful "shelf life" is.
Since they are selling both merchandise and service it seems that the aging process would take them through many phases.
In their 20's , a high demand product and service should be enough to get them through their youthful years.
In their 30's, the looks are fading but many step up their service and game and some can make more than the 20 something's.
In their 40's to 45, like aging athletes: a mere shadow of their former selves. Still some hang on with guile and lots of Botox and various plastic surgeries.
In their mid 40's and 50's, it's all over but the tears. Usually it means lowering their price, offering discounts and going into FBSM or BDSM.
In their 60's, I guess they can remove their dentures to give blow jobs.
Many providers I have sat down and talked to at some point put a target on when they expected to exit the profession. I have known many mid 20's escorts that put a career exit at 30. By the age of 30 they felt they would have saved enough money and be in a position financially to exit escorting. I know several of these same girls today at 38 who are still escorting because things did not work out as planned.
The ones I knew in their 30's said they would definitely be out by 40. And yet they hang in there hoping to get out someday. The "someday" never seems to come.
How many phases can these girls go through and remain escorts? Is these a limited useful shelf life? Should there be a mandatory retirement age? How old is too old
I'm in my late 50's. I started hobbying about 4 years ago. I started seeing younger women because there more of them and likely fit my budget. Over time I realized most couldn't speak to me on my level, life experience wise, and also, while most were really hot the service level most often did not include any connection.
Providers in their mid 30's and older are much more likely to have skills the younger women just do not. There is also more likelihood of a connection and as long as the lady hasn't been beaten with an ugly stick, I prefer the experience and connection more than the flawless skin of youth.
So, it depends. As the providers get older, we do too as you said.
I started in a small part time way to fund backpacking at 23 and never for a minute thought I'd still be escorting at 30. 30 came and went and if anything I was working more. It helped me fund my child's education and my masters degree and allowed me as a single mum to work in a flexible way. Once I hit 35 again I thought I'd stop but although I like my current day job it's exhausting and nowhere near as much fun or as flexible as escorting. What other job allows me to travel and make a living while I choose where to go next? If anything I'm busier now because at 23 I was inexperienced sexually and with men in general whereas life and travel and a Psych degree and age have made me wiser, kinder, more tolerant of guys, better company, more comfortable with my body etc. I understand that at 38 I'm not what every man is looking for but my client base has changed as I've got older and frankly the gents who are attracted to me now are more polite, better conversationalists, less into showing off their prowess with jack rabbit sex, and looking for a different connection that just a fuck fest session so I like the work far more than ever. Is there too old? I met a lady in NYC who charges $300 an hour MORE than me at 68 to see guys who've seen her in gilf porn online!!! Different strokes for different folks )
Well brilliant one, I didn't even start being a hooker until I was 30. I'm also busier than I've ever imagined. I am very low volume but book out a month in advance most of the time. Im sorry but I dont offer discounts either. I haven't had the first rate decrease. In fact they've been raised over time because I'm just that good at fucking now lol and provide an incall that is pretty fucking awesome too...for the GENTLEMEN I see. I have always loved bdsm but I dont really "advertise" for it. Goodness!! Lmao!! I've been providing for 15 years, loving it more than ever! Oh, I'm 45 btw. Lol! PS Shelf life? Lol!! No offense but you're not the sharpest tool in the shed. I'd still fuck circles around you dear lol!! TL
I believe you when you say, you could fuck circles around me. And I would enjoy it.
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Well brilliant one, I didn't even start being a hooker until I was 30. I'm also busier than I've ever imagined. I am very low volume but book out a month in advance most of the time. Im sorry but I dont offer discounts either. I haven't had the first rate decrease. In fact they've been raised over time because I'm just that good at fucking now lol and provide an incall that is pretty fucking awesome too...for the GENTLEMEN I see. I have always loved bdsm but I dont really "advertise" for it. Goodness!! Lmao!! I've been providing for 15 years, loving it more than ever! Oh, I'm 45 btw. Lol! PS Shelf life? Lol!! No offense but you're not the sharpest tool in the shed. I'd still fuck circles around you dear lol!! TL
Well, after that, I just had to check out your website...I could see you fucking me senseless. I'm IN!
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Well brilliant one, I didn't even start being a hooker until I was 30. I'm also busier than I've ever imagined. I am very low volume but book out a month in advance most of the time. Im sorry but I dont offer discounts either. I haven't had the first rate decrease. In fact they've been raised over time because I'm just that good at fucking now lol and provide an incall that is pretty fucking awesome too...for the GENTLEMEN I see. I have always loved bdsm but I dont really "advertise" for it. Goodness!! Lmao!! I've been providing for 15 years, loving it more than ever! Oh, I'm 45 btw. Lol! PS Shelf life? Lol!! No offense but you're not the sharpest tool in the shed. I'd still fuck circles around you dear lol!! TL
even asking this question? From your handle, sounds like you have been around a while. Could you be proof that advanced age and wisdom are mutually exclusive? Or has Alzheimer's set in already?
To begin with, the premise of your post, that you are asking a question, is preposterous. Sounds like you have come to some pretty concrete, disrespectful conclusions on your own. Bravo, at least you can do something on your own, does your home health care provider help you urinate and make sure you get a sponge bath once a month?
As a true admirer of women, it may shock you, but I have found amazing women in every category you listed in your post, and yes they WERE providers. But even if that were not the case, you can bet I would not be remotely disrespectful about any conclusions I may have arrived at regardless of their age.
even asking this question? From your handle, sounds like you have been around a while. Could you be proof that advanced age and wisdom are mutually exclusive? Or has Alzheimer's set in already?
Shame on you, grandpa!
I'm in my late 50's and not a Grandpa. Is there a LPOTY award around here? I know Gambler handles these awards but you are in the running for Lapdog Poster Of The Year.
Like it or not sex work is a young girl's game. Go to strip clubs. What girls are the most popular? It's not the 40-65 year old's. There a shelf life for everything sex worker related.
Sex work is only a younger woman's game? Women or sex worker's don't have a shelf life. We are not bread lol I'm going to keep fucking and making money on my pussy until I just don't like it anymore. Maybe your old tired ass has a shelf life. I guess there's just no fixing stupid. I vote you for SPOTY
Sex work is only a younger woman's game? Women or sex worker's don't have a shelf life. We are not bread lol I'm going to keep fucking and making money on my pussy until I just don't like it anymore. Maybe your old tired ass has a shelf life. I guess there's just no fixing stupid. I vote you for SPOTY
So you honestly believe you and every other girl will be able to attract the same amount of money at ANY age? So people will be forking over 5 bills an hour to 70 year olds?
Just STFU while you can. I don't do stupid and can't even explain It to you anymore. You just don't get it do you? No worries, I'd still say you're my favorite SPOTY LOVE, T
accept that as a compliment. At least one of us understands the importance of being gentlemanly and respectful, no matter the endeavor.
Sign me up, for any opportunity to deflect disrespect or a lack of gratitude providers may receive. They clearly make the world a safer place for a variety of reasons which I have consistently pointed out in my posts.
I was eating in a little small-town diner the other day. An elderly couple at the next table were talking loudly (perhaps bc of some hearing loss?).
He said "Do you remember the first time we made love?)
"Of course I do", she replied. "It was 50 years ago, right behind this very restaurant. You nailed me up against the fence. It was great then, and its been great ever since."
"You wanna have another go for old times sake."
She smiled. "I'd love to."
Now ... I know I'm perverted, but I thought ... I've just gotta see this. So, I quickly paid my bill and got out back to a discrete observation post just in time to see her hitch up her skirt and him unzip his trousers.
They leaned up against the fence and just exploded!
I mean thrashing and screaming. Shaking, jerking, and moaning. It went on and on and on until they both collapsed in a heap.
Again ...I knew I should have just slipped away quietly - but I had to congratulate them. So I waited while they gathered themselves.
As they walked past I said "You two are amazing. There has to be a secret for how you are able to do that at your age. Can you share it with me?"
She still couldn't talk. In a rather shaky voice, he mumbled "Yeah ... 50 years ago that damn fence wasn't electrified".
Moral of the story - "As long as there's a will - there's always a way".
So if an older provider is not on your (limitted) menu, do not pursue meeting one, but to presume that your experience and desire are universal only reflects immaturity of the soul. Meditation helps to open the spirit. When I started in the hobby, I also wondered if men would find me attractive...if I coukd find you attractive enough to offer a quality experience. What I found was that everyone was different. There are men older and younger who find older open women very sensual. They are not looking for the perfect 10 body. They are more involved in the age play or the real person that is inside that body with the sexy and sensual mind offerred. Without any doubt, at my current place in life's transition, I am more open, more sexual, and more adventurous without the complications of insecurity and even lack of personal self understanding than when I was younger. Getting to know me is something that Increases with each day...hope I continue to grow and seek personal peace until the last breath of my being.
The reason providers keep providing instead of retiring is the same reason the Koch brothers want more money: GREED.
But, hey; they're entitled to it. They're not screwing anyone over, so I'm fine with their greed. The only time I have a "problem" is if their donation is too much for my pocketbook. I solve that problem by finding someone else who's in my price range.
Shelf life? You need to be whacked over the head with your fucking cane, Grandpa. I expect your kids are getting antsy about their inheritance that you're pissing away. Maybe you have a shelf life?
Since escorts age with the rest of us, I wonder what their useful "shelf life" is.
Since they are selling both merchandise and service it seems that the aging process would take them through many phases.
In their 20's , a high demand product and service should be enough to get them through their youthful years.
In their 30's, the looks are fading but many step up their service and game and some can make more than the 20 something's.
In their 40's to 45, like aging athletes: a mere shadow of their former selves. Still some hang on with guile and lots of Botox and various plastic surgeries.
In their mid 40's and 50's, it's all over but the tears. Usually it means lowering their price, offering discounts and going into FBSM or BDSM.
In their 60's, I guess they can remove their dentures to give blow jobs.
Many providers I have sat down and talked to at some point put a target on when they expected to exit the profession. I have known many mid 20's escorts that put a career exit at 30. By the age of 30 they felt they would have saved enough money and be in a position financially to exit escorting. I know several of these same girls today at 38 who are still escorting because things did not work out as planned.
The ones I knew in their 30's said they would definitely be out by 40. And yet they hang in there hoping to get out someday. The "someday" never seems to come.
How many phases can these girls go through and remain escorts? Is these a limited useful shelf life? Should there be a mandatory retirement age? How old is too old?
To some , "someday" never comes. Because it was doing without a sense of purpose or direction. Whether there's a shelf life to youth or body, maybe setting a shelf life to hobby to achieve goals and dreams. I do notice although it is nice to afford better lifestyle and things, most make more but spend more. What if one keeps the lifestyle the same as if making only ten-15 bucks an hour? Get that career or professional degree. Maybe we don't need another Christian Louboutin or clothes item or overpriced lingerie. Maybe 1-10 are enough of La Perla or Agent Provocateur. Maybe 2-3 Prada, Gucci, LV purses one own are more than enough. Or hold off on that vacation package unless you travel for work or it's paid for. Reaping benefits along the way. Always gain and never lose. Maybe we don't need a website that costs thousand of dollars or if we do, give it a budget point and once you have your biz top notch...some minor tailoring but not keep finding things to pay for. Don't keep finding things to pay for. Have sushi once a month. Cook at home. Budget wisely. Unless you really enjoy adding colors to your everyday mundane life. Then I"m sure the shelf life will be as long as you want it to be having the freedom to stop when you want to.
To some , "someday" never comes. Because it was doing without a sense of purpose or direction. Whether there's a shelf life to youth or body, maybe setting a shelf life to hobby to achieve goals and dreams. I do notice although it is nice to afford better lifestyle and things, most make more but spend more. What if one keeps the lifestyle the same as if making only ten-15 bucks an hour? Get that career or professional degree. Maybe we don't need another Christian Louboutin or clothes item or overpriced lingerie. Maybe 1-10 are enough of La Perla or Agent Provocateur. Maybe 2-3 Prada, Gucci, LV purses one own are more than enough. Or hold off on that vacation package unless you travel for work or it's paid for. Reaping benefits along the way. Always gain and never lose. Maybe we don't need a website that costs thousand of dollars or if we do, give it a budget point and once you have your biz top notch...some minor tailoring but not keep finding things to pay for. Don't keep finding things to pay for. Have sushi once a month. Cook at home. Budget wisely. Unless you really enjoy adding colors to your everyday mundane life. Then I"m sure the shelf life will be as long as you want it to be having the freedom to stop when you want to.
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Thank you for the well reasoned response. I have followed the "career" of sex workers since I was doing business with the owners of the MBOT back in the late 80's.
Typically girls get into this at a young age due to poverty. Others have an undergrad degree and left a job that paid maybe 45K a year because there was more fast (tax free) cash in this. One day they wake up at 30-35 and they have no resume. It's almost impossible to get a job above entry level when you have large gaps in employment and no experience in the field.
Most squander all their money on the things you mentioned above. Few will have the ability to get a job above entry level if they wanted to leave.
At some point there will come a day when they either have to offer more services or lower their price to be a full time escort. My figures were just guesses but the guesses were based on what I've seen over the years.
At some point they are simply too old to be a regular escort. That's when many become "rub and tug/blowjob" FBSM type escorts.
In the pre-internet era you would sometimes see 40+ women walking the streets since they were too old for the agencies.
I think this is like the Hotel California. They can check in but they can never leave.
I totally agreed with you. I'm not sure how others view it but am sure many realize it's not gonna last as long as you want it to last. It's better to have a plan and act on it as soon as possible. Know where you're heading with it. Some do have degrees and couldn't make the same as this offers but perhaps pull a full time for couple years but not more. Or put a timeline on it. Stick with a job and suck it up to get the experience or knowledge needed. Put in the effort and work. As things out there aren't gonna pay for itself or minimal work as this considered to be. Even though this takes a lot of work sometimes like anything but still sort of an easy way out in my opinion. If the regular job doesn't pay much , perhaps adjust your lifestyle to match it or get that higher education to get better pay.
I realized this truth after 2 years out of 3 years since started very part time. I now don't buy any of the things mentioned above. I go to Outlet malls for sweaters that cost $11/each. I have more than enough clothes to wear for all occasions. High end or very elegant wardrobe at a discounted price. I have 4 pairs of Christian Loubotin and I'm about to sell 2 of them on eBay. With no future intentions of getting more. Perhaps, maybe 1 in few years when all the priorities have well been taken care of. But if you're truly beautiful , accessories are just bonuses. If attitude and character and personality are your wardrobe, it does not matter what one wears. Although this work thrives on how beautiful & youthful you are along with other qualities so you just put in at least some effort to be well-groomed, fresh, and clean. But it does not call for keep spending on things to keep up with the work itself. One would still be beautiful in a $50 pair of shoes. I only have one brand name purse that I wear over and over for most occasions. I drive a car that's most economical as possible on value, gas/mileage. My daily purses are valued under $50. My wardrobe and everything I own are all classy and good material at a very discounted price or outlet mall. Everything is budget to the micro details. Even the work aspect of this such as hotel/flight and eating out. As I can see the future or finish line, ending of this career like you said I am now a woman with a plan !
Of course, there are some who enjoy every aspect of this work and not being financial dependent on it. You are well-educated with a high professional degree and having full capability to make a good living without this work. That would be the best. From a place of choices rather than because you have to.
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Posted By: ScarlettYou
To some , "someday" never comes. Because it was doing without a sense of purpose or direction. Whether there's a shelf life to youth or body, maybe setting a shelf life to hobby to achieve goals and dreams. I do notice although it is nice to afford better lifestyle and things, most make more but spend more. What if one keeps the lifestyle the same as if making only ten-15 bucks an hour? Get that career or professional degree. Maybe we don't need another Christian Louboutin or clothes item or overpriced lingerie. Maybe 1-10 are enough of La Perla or Agent Provocateur. Maybe 2-3 Prada, Gucci, LV purses one own are more than enough. Or hold off on that vacation package unless you travel for work or it's paid for. Reaping benefits along the way. Always gain and never lose. Maybe we don't need a website that costs thousand of dollars or if we do, give it a budget point and once you have your biz top notch...some minor tailoring but not keep finding things to pay for. Don't keep finding things to pay for. Have sushi once a month. Cook at home. Budget wisely. Unless you really enjoy adding colors to your everyday mundane life. Then I"m sure the shelf life will be as long as you want it to be having the freedom to stop when you want to.
- Modified on 3/18/2016 1:37:41 PM
Thank you for the well reasoned response. I have followed the "career" of sex workers since I was doing business with the owners of the MBOT back in the late 80's.
Typically girls get into this at a young age due to poverty. Others have an undergrad degree and left a job that paid maybe 45K a year because there was more fast (tax free) cash in this. One day they wake up at 30-35 and they have no resume. It's almost impossible to get a job above entry level when you have large gaps in employment and no experience in the field.
Most squander all their money on the things you mentioned above. Few will have the ability to get a job above entry level if they wanted to leave.
At some point there will come a day when they either have to offer more services or lower their price to be a full time escort. My figures were just guesses but the guesses were based on what I've seen over the years.
At some point they are simply too old to be a regular escort. That's when many become "rub and tug/blowjob" FBSM type escorts.
In the pre-internet era you would sometimes see 40+ women walking the streets since they were too old for the agencies.
I think this is like the Hotel California. They can check in but they can never leave.
> a 51 year old spinner who has a killer body that could pass for a fit 25 year old and will wear out just about anyone. > a 45 year old with a great body and insatiable sexual appetite who was arguably the most popular provider in my area before she got married and moved on. > a 50-something provider with a killer body whom I met today. She said she had a few extra pounds on her because of a recent back injury so her six pack wasn't as defined as much as normal. It was hard for me to imagine what "normal" would be like, she was so fit and sexy.
The is no such thing as "too old." Women like these are examples of how age is largely a thing of the mind, and by taking care of our bodies we can be fit and sexy into our 40s, 50s, and even 60s and beyond.
If you don't want to see providers over 40--and from your post that appears to be the case--that's your prerogative. Just as well that that you leave them to the guys and gals who can appreciate them.
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, accessories are just bonuses. If attitude and character and personality are your wardrobe, it does not matter what one wears. Although this work thrives on how beautiful & youthful you are along with other qualities so you just put in at least some effort to be well-groomed, fresh, and clean. But it does not call for keep spending on things to keep up with the work itself. One would still be beautiful in a $50 pair of shoes. I only have one brand name purse that I wear over and over for most occasions. I drive a car that's most economical as possible on value, gas/mileage. My daily purses are valued under $50. My wardrobe and everything I own are all classy and good material at a very discounted price or outlet mall. Everything is budget to the micro details. Even the work aspect of this such as hotel/flight and eating out. As I can see the future or finish line, ending of this career like you said