I get rather grumpy if I go more than about two days without getting laid.

I also don't have an SO, and P4P accounts for about 80% of my sex.

If you are really that interested (which I doubt), you can do the math for yourself. lol

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Now that I have kicked the hobby habit due to lack or resources, I can look back over the past year of the hobby and remember it foundly.  2 to 3 visits per month was what I could manage.  2 to 3 times a year is more the reality for the furture, if at all.  Ladies and genetlemen it has been discussed many times before but how often do you indulge?

How often do I indulge?

My wife limits my hobbying, but I limit it more. I hobby between zero to four times a month. I am allowed by my wife to play weekly and can afford to play more than that, but don't feel the need or desire. My needs are met at home.  I have had 22 sessions with 14 different ladies in the little under eight months I have been hobbying. Two of the sessions did not involve sexual contact though.

I am on a voluntary vacation from the hobby right now as things are a bit overwhelming in my life and the hobby is in the center of many of the complications in my life. I will probably start back up in a few months as my wife wants me to indulge. I can take it or leave it.

Just asking because you guys sound like you'd be a lot of fun in a group setting.

and finances allow.  Sometimes once or twice a month, once in a while once a week or even sometimes, zero times in a 4-week period.

She is fully bi, not just bi-curious. We do couples sessions about once a month. She is very fun in a group setting but I am a stick in the mud and have to many rules. She is much more adventurous than me.

Sometimes I think of maximizing my savings for retirement, but sometimes you just gotta enjoy the moment.

One  was book because I needed information on escorting because I found out my wife came out of retirement and I need answers to my questions. I didn't trust my wife to answer honestly so I paid for the information.

The other time I booked a week ahead of time planing on fucking her but my monthly STD screening came back an hour before the appointment with the fact that I had chlamydia. I don't cancel at the last minute if I can show and I was not going to endanger her heath so I paid for her to talk with me for an hour. I am 100% cured of chlamydia so no worries there.

I know paying an escort not to fuck me makes me a mangina so poke away. The first date was a platonic provider-client relationship from the planning and the other turned out that way.

"So, did the first provider answer all the questions that you had?"

No, I had too many questions. I knew very little about this world. My wife taught me how to screen ladies for offerings, safety, and legitimacy. She also taught me what a lady was looking for in a client but little about what it was like for the lady. After she told me about her providing and her deceptions hiding it, I didn't trust her but needed to understand her. That lady was the best $800 I ever spent. She saved my marriage that day.

Let's just say it's addictive, and that's no one person because I don't generally repeat - just the variety is addictive, even the looking through ads and checking reviews. Maybe that will get old, but effectively thumbing through a very personal catalog seems remarkably enjoyable.