I'm new to the hobby and assumed, from looking up info and reading things online, that most women ask questions or for references...do MOST of them?  I only ask because I made an appointment with someone and they gave me directions without asking anything but my name.  Hell, I'm fine with this, simpler for me, but is there anything to be worried about...(i.e. LE), or do many women not take the bother into doing so, or should I expect to show some sort of ID when I see her?  She's reviewed here on TER, about 3 pages, and no one mentioned any hastle of giving info. or references to her.  Is this anything to be concerned with?

It happens.  IMHO, if she's been reviewed, there's little risk of it being LE.  But also consider who she's seeing besides yourself...