I am,of course, a newbie. I'm deciding tonight which provider to call and when we make contact what is the normal amount and type of information to provide. It makes me a little nervous that it might come back to haunt me. Also, what does DATY etc. stand for?Lastly, I'm going to be in the Oklahoma City area and I have not found a provider there.How do I do that?
Thanks for your help.

used.  You can use area code in VIP search or use "Other" as the city field to locate reviews.  Although some of the ladies working in less popular cities use bookers or agencies that have phone numbers with different area codes.

Just a quick check using Other in the city field, I find 3 ladies in OK.  Valerie in OK City (page 11, result 151 - 165), Blue in Tulsa (page 10, result 136 - 150) and Sarah in OK city (page 12, result 166 - 180), all of them have reviews posted in Sept.  Look further down the list, you will probably find more.  You can also check the web sites they are listed.

Good luck.