...can you afford potential blackmail or divorce? Legit? How can you be 1000% sure? Remember, it takes only one BSC provider. Moreover, for $0.99, google yourself with your name and number to find out how easily your personal details can be had.
How do married guys approach screening/verification? Do you give your real name and info to agencies or to independents? So far (5 years into the hobby) I have avoided giving out my real name (thanks to P411 and a couple of good provider references). But now I want to branch out and I fear the screening forms-- am I worrying needlessly? Should I just bite the bullet and provide my info to providers or agencies that seem legit?
Stick with P411. Don't mess with giving personal information. Just my two cents.
Go with agencies that take P411 if that's what your want to expand or try Seeking for the SB route. Not worth the risk of turning your personal info to someone who is really a low level lawbreaker.
I only see P411 women for the most part and that's good enough for me. The few non-P411 providers I've seen have just needed references and that's it.
I'd feel uncomfortable providing RWI unless a lady had an outstanding reputation.
...can you afford potential blackmail or divorce? Legit? How can you be 1000% sure? Remember, it takes only one BSC provider. Moreover, for $0.99, google yourself with your name and number to find out how easily your personal details can be had.
Mine had my in-laws, her cousins, her best friend's college roommate, along with my family members. But I don't give a shit in my case.
There are soooooo many gorgeous women of all shapes and sizes available on P411 that why go anywhere else?
Been enjoying P4P for decades. Number of times I’ve given out personal data = number of times paid a deposit = 0! (out of ~ 300)
I can’t dictate your risk appetite, but given the level of honeys I’ve banged over the years, I just can’t imagine I would have done better by taking the risk of giving out personal information.
Every lady needs to do whatever makes her feel safe and comfortable.
Many ladies disagree with you and accept P411 alone for screening. That's up to them obviously. No one is right or wrong in how they screen.
I'm not saying you are making statements to the contrary, just pointing out what I've seen in my experiences.
If a provider needs your personal information, there are hundreds who don't need it.
Like I've stated before, the Independent providers have lost their way IMHO.
I now deal with Agencies more then independents.
If they want personal information or money up front, do yourself a favor and run in the other direction.
So many other lovely choices out there to risk your livelyhood for some pu**y!
They can have my ID, if I can have theirs.
I don't have a problem with someone asking for personal info, but if they want it in addition to references that's what's I draw the line. Then they get upset because I don't want to give personal info and they call me a time waster. Like they would ever give out their personal info.
I recently booked an appointment with someone through p411. She responded asking for personal info. I said I don't give it because that's why I got p411. She said she didn't need it then because I have p411. I asked then why she wanted it. She said she always asks in case people will volunteer it. I told her I don't think we would be compatible and I cancelled the date.
screening requirements. How about do you want to see the providers who require real world info vs just P411?
Majority of my clients are married and provide real info. Every so often someone will reach out with fake name and references whom I know and as far as I can tell do not have an online history as being reputable. These guys I cannot see
I accept P411 members as long as they have recent okays. The only time I ask for additional info from a P411 member if his okays is 4+yrs I will ask for additional info.
I have been encountering guys who provide their member ID P411 but the membership has expired. Have had to explain to more than one that in this case I would need real info as I cannot even verify if he was a member and I only accept active P411 members. One guy argued with me he had no issue with his expired member id being accepted by other providers. I find that hard to believe.
I will not accept just references from a non-p411 members and a fake name and app#. Have had bad experiences in the past.
Why even deal with Providers who screen & verify you when you can have a provider like me !!! I don't Screen/Verify hobbyists. Because If I go down then so do you. That's how I do business.
If you don't have my information, how will you take me down with you? Unless we were busted in the actual act, in which case, the id didn't matter anyways.
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