I've only been in the hobby for a couple of months, but have made really good connections with 4-5 ladies, several of whom I've already repeated with several times.  But, I still have a pretty full bucket list of others I'd like to try.

So, my dilemma: I want to see some of my "already-friends" again and again, but I want to try some newer ones, too.  The hobby piggy bank won't allow me to do this forever, though.  I'm thinking of simply stopping with reading any new reviews, and finishing with my current bucket list while still seeing some of my "already-friends."

I'd be interested in hearing how many "regulars" others keep up with.

Thanks.

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but then there are about another 12 traveling gals who I try to see once or twice a year when they come to my town, or I go to theirs.

I feel you man, and been in that same situation. You know that your ATF is good, reliable, and you can skip on the drama of seeing a new 1. But, from my experience, its always better to see more and different providers, and call your ATF down the road when you can't hook-up with any1.

My experience with ATF's, after you have seen them so many times, their service lacks, don't ask my why, its just the way it is (there was a thread about this a few days back). See your regulars about 3 times, then move to expand your ingredients. If you stick with the same ol ingredients, you will never know what other exotic and better ingredients are out there. Remember, you ain't obligated to see any1, don't feel pressure to see your ATF cause its comfortable. You can't keep eating the same food, its unhealthy, you need variety in your diet to keep you happy.

And I do both.  I just saw my ATF again yesterday for the fifth time, and have a list of others I've seen that I definitely want to keep seeing.  I also have a bucket list of gals I want to see but haven't yet.  I will mix it up with both, but really have a yen for new experiences that usually wins out over seeing anyone I've seen before.

I've seen my ATF a coupla dozen times the last 3 months and it just keeps gettin better, actually. Might have somethin to do with us getting real comfortable with each other, and she's got me setup at a deal I'm pretty sure won't be beat. Or could be the little perks I get now that are friggin schweeet. Either way I ain't goin nowhere cause this youngin fits my azz perfect. Not to say I won't get out and taste a little somethin else on occasion. d;^)
That said, a couple of other girls I've seen a few times start to get annoying with their little foibles and such that don't really show in that first visit.

Luckily, they're like Doritos.. They'll make more.. d:^)  Schneeks..

Years ago I had as many as 8 or 9 regular ladies that I rotated with seeing each one about once a month.  As I hobbied longer and got a better handle on the kind of women I really had the most fun with I cut back and got more selective. I now have an ATF, a second reg that I see five or six times a year, and I will see two or three other visiting gals who may catch my eye or when Im on the road for work.

This may happen to you or it may not. We are all looking for different things from this hobby.