Do most guys cum in the first 10 minutes?  It seems as of late the providers I have been with seem to have trouble hiding their annoyment when I don't pop in the first 10 minutes.  This just seems to compound the problem.  Then you read all the reviews, and it seems guys are popping 2-3 times an hour.  Is there something wrong with me?

Girls just seem to be trying to do less and less work. Why just the other day we had a hooker drone on and on here about a guy that wanted more than one pop in an hour.  

and no.  If you have a problem with her, just see someone else.

They get stars and shit in kindergarten and elementary and medals and crap for doing absolutely nothing worthwhile in middle and high school.  

Should have said--no, and maybe.

Lol, really enjoyed typing "I pop when I pop" because I know how annoyed some folks are about "pop" for "cum".

I guess that is what I am looking for, but seem to have trouble finding a provider who doesn't mind spending the extra time.  Mind you it doesn't have to be balls to the wall the whole time, but it would be nice to find a provider that doesn't act like it is a race to the finish.

I love 80 minute - 2 hour sessions with 1 pop.  6-7 edges.  Lots of pre ooze.  How you get there is the real journey not how many you have.

That's not that long at all.  

...I've never been hurried. I usually do 1 hour appointments and orgasm about 30/40 minutes in. Don't know why you're having this happen. The first thing I thought though was were you checking reviews and looking for providers that don't rush. Also look for more mature ladies none of the ones I've seen were ever in a hurry.

I mention it in an email a day or so before our meeting.  Single pop, lots of teasing and exploring, for both of us.  It really hasn't been a problem.  

Ten minutes? That's premature ejaculation time I would think. I be had providers ask me,  "do you want to go for two or for a slower one?" I'm in no rush and would rather have one fantastic, have to pull the sheets out of my ass, pop, than two quick ones. To each his own.

younger providers (20-25 yo) tend to try to get guys to pop quickly.  Ladies in their 30's and 40's tend to make it more of a journey than a sprint to the finish.

Had a FL gal last week gave me the best head in a real long time. Two pops in about 45 minutes. Totally unusual for me. I'm always a one shot gal. Damn she was good.................Oh and she relished her task. Wanted to go for number three lol that wasn't going to happen. She's 28. I'll be back.  

I'm not saying this is the case, but I suspect from your posts that you may be searching on BP or something like that where it's pop and appointment is over. Those girls are motivated to get you off so they can leave. If you search ladies in here you'll find that they are with you for the amount of time you book, so their motivation is different. I very rarely do less than 2 hours, and I've had very few disappointing sessions.

In my twenties and thirties three times within and hour was a regular occurrence. In my forty's it dropped to twice within the hour and I still could do that into my mid fifty's. For the last ten years mostly one good one and done, but there are times with the right girl that she coaches a second one out of me. I'm surprised but most thankful of her abilities.

You can cum when you want to or don't come at all.  The Provider has no say in this AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

With someone new?  If you can last 10 minutes of actual action, on the first go-round, they're totally messing up the build-up.
Maybe try to slow them down on getting started...?

Variety is the spice of life.  Some men pop in first 10 minutes then that leaves us lots of time to get him up and running for a 2nd pop

I don't keep a log on every voyage, but I cannot remember a session where I've encountered a woman who was impatient about getting me off quickly.

...but if a guy can't control himself for ten minutes, or conversely feels that a 20-minute or so journey to the first (maybe only) cup is not enough, then that's probably more on him than the woman.

When the door opens, the woman will want to be as seductive as possible. It's natural and honest to comment on how beautiful she is, to pay her that small compliment, to express your pleasure. But don't. If you don't say anything at all about her visual presentation, and just go through the preliminaries, the chitchat, the DFK, whatever, the lovemaking will last much longer. I'm not going to try to explain why, maybe it's just magic, doesn't matter. Maybe it only works for me, and wouldn't work for anyone else. But I'm pretty sure that whether you're concerned about "premature" ejaculation, or just want it to last a few minutes longer than it already does, it would work for others. Try it sometime and let me know if it feels like it made a difference.

Deep down inside, we know that it's only a business transaction.  Whatever chemistry/connection happens, it only lasts until the session is over (of course, there are exceptions, but they're rare).

I like to play a little game with providers, it's called the first one to cum wins, and I'm undefeated. I'm like Speedy Gonzales in a session.

BJ's too probably. Ladies, you have the clinical data - what say you

Couldnt have said it better myself.  Totally agree

1. Condoms can be challenging, especially if you're not providing your own.
2. The last time you nutted. 10 days before the session or right before the session.
3. Is she sexier than her pics or do you start out a little disappointed?
4. Does she act like she enjoying herself or just going through the motions?
5. You find out she's not offering you all of the services you read about or received the last time you saw her.
6. Does it not feel like you're alone? Is someone lurking in the other room?

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IMHO

You a nice massage then flip when they think it's time. But time, especially for massage with HE, can be tough to time.

What's QV? Quick visit? Or...Quality Voyage? Of...what? Remember, some of us live very sheltered lives and aren't up on the street language and such.

It took me a while to figure that out too, when people would request them. I was like huh? What's that?

Many bp providers tell me that many of the younger guys they see pop in 5 to 6  minutes. How old is she ?  

Over the years, I have found that if I add one minutes for each year, it gives a good approximation of how long I could last.

The good news is that when I was in my twenties, I could recharge in about ten minutes; but the bad news is that back then, 90% of gals were of the "one and done" school of business, and also I didn't have the $ to pay for more pops back then.

The way I eventually worked around this was to jerk off about 30 minutes before a session so that when I got there I could last maybe 5 minutes and maintain a shred of dignity to say nothing of enjoyment of the session.

Now I can afford long leisurely sessions with gals who allow MSOG, but of course the recharge time is up over 2 hours these days.

It's all an example of the balance of ying and yang in the world.

Let the ladies know when you first contact them that you are looking for something slow with some teasing and breaks in the action - or whatever it is that really creams your coffee!  I mean, you don't order a steak and expect the chef to know how you like it served, do you?  Also, if a lady isn't fond of nice slow action, she can opt out and you can move on to a more compatible playmate.

Of course it's ok for you to only expect one pop from a gal when you paid for two hours. We'd expect no less from you and your lame butt.  

1. I want the client to leave happy.  
2. I do not want to feel like a cum dumpster.  
3. I will do my level best to accommodate.  
4. When my body has reached it's limit, I am done.  

It's lame for a man to need to focus on putting it off.  Control himself?  Total waste of mental energy.  I say get all that tension out, then plenty of time for more sensual play and/or round two