During intercourse I climax way too quickly. How long do most last? Anything I can do to make it last longer?

Thing about some things that are "not hot" to you. Dunno if they work but look for creams that delay climax in men. And another thing that might help is to just slow down your pace whenever you feel close or take breaks to last longer.

Using a condom I normally can hold off for a long time, almost indefinately as I usually have to remove the condom and get off by other means other than intercourse.  I guess being in my fifties has something to do with that.

Here is what I recommend:  Lots of foreplay.  I always find that when the moment of intercourse is put off for fifteen to twenty minutes, the time I can enjoy the plateau state of sex is much longer.

Try a long makeout session or massage or some combination of both and see if that improves performance.

Experienced women know what to do.  MrFisher is right.  Lots of foreplay.  

Also, If you're younger or very lucky, you should be able to recover quickly for another round.  If you're older a second rising can take longer, but should last quite a bit longer.  

Try some keggles (stop mid-stream while urinating) this strengthens the muscle that controls your ejaculation as well.

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practice more...

Teasing and training. Timing and self control.. Much like training for marathons.. building strength and stamina..

Find a good woman who is patient.

when I had the same problem.  Shoot, at 18 years old I could reload about five times a day.  Now days, things are different.  It takes me FOREVER to have an orgasm and most ladies like that.

Sounds to me like the other posters have given good advice.  I'd watch it with the delay creams though, they also deaden the woman's sensation so you have to be sure she doesn't get any of it.

Keggles (however you spell it) are good. Deer exercise is better. You can google it. Are you in shape generally? A good level of overall physical fitness is helpful too.

thanks for all the info

"....I climax way too quickly." Well, it all depends on what you mean by "way too quickly." If it's with a provider, and it's doesn't get in the way of the pleasure you're after, then it's not really a problem. However, if you are getting that feedback from your SO, or other women, in civie relationships, then, even though you've received some very good suggestions here already, you could get some more help by posting this on the Erotic Highway, and have the Love Goddess take a whack at it; well, not at it, but your question.

it's just that once I get there I'd like to stay awhile

if you post this question on the Erotic Highway.

Double bag your member to lessen the sensation.

At least a couple of minutes. Depends on the position. With Doggie, I'm done! CG or mish will have me last linger, usually. Again, depending on the actual position.

I like to get round one over and done to allow for a more leisurely round 2, or 3, but thats me.

I'm eye-balling 50.