Yesterday's (8/22/04) NY Times Style section printed an article about how wives found out that their husbands were Gay by reviewing their web browser history.  We all might take a lesson and be careful to edit our own browsing histories.  (The article pointed out that deleting the entire history was a "dead giveaway".)  In Internet Explorer you can right-click on individual items and delete them.

..now, I can understand guys not wanting their wives to know they surf porn, look up escorts, etc. but not wanting their wives to know they are GAY???

Talk about a communication problem in marriage!

Look at the NJ governor scenario (although his wife may have known...who knows?).  

Did you ever see the movie "Far From Heaven"?  Same issue.

that doesn't mean there isn't a communication problem.