When I first started escorting I worked hotel bars. I love it and when bored I still work hotel bars in DC and other cities I visit. It's not a guarantee, but it's more about chemistry and attraction at a bar than it is online where guys are often too worried about alphabet soup, reviews, etc. About 1/2 of my VIP and regular clients I met offline.
Anyway, I wonder how many guys if at a bar you run across a well dressed, attractive and interesting lady would be brave enough to invite her to your room for a little P4P time if you knew it was possible?
Anyway, I wonder how many guys if at a bar you run across a well dressed, attractive and interesting lady would be brave enough to invite her to your room for a little P4P time if you knew it was possible?
Although I get where you are coming from for me it's not about bravery but about risk.
I don't want to risk:
1) That it's LE trolling for marks 2) That it's a escort B&S deal 3) That in fact she is NOT an escort!
I can totally understand a provider doing this, because your only risk is LE and that's probably a low risk if you have good instincts.
From the hobbyist side, to have such a vastly powerful source of information like TER to lead you to a great experience wherever you may be and then to cast it aside and not make use of it, seems kind of insane!
For someone who doesn't mind perhaps getting tagged by LE or care if they are spending time with an escort or not, I'm sure the thrill of the unexpected would be fun... but I would think many on TER are here because they are specifically seeking paid providers with generally some level of safety and expectations of encounters without potential ties.
I prefer the internet to cruising a bar-their are too many gals to sort thru for P4P that aren't selling it in the conventional way and the internet totally simplify's the process-I would not want to have to go back to the bar deal-however-when I see a gal I am particularly attracted to I am not opposed to reverting to the bar scene and you never know when you might hit upon a freebee from a gal that is just there-which is highly unlikely and too much like dating with no assurance of a positive outcome-so when totally in search of hooking up for sex-I love the internet!
Posted By: Vanica
When I first started escorting I worked hotel bars. I love it and when bored I still work hotel bars in DC and other cities I visit. It's not a guarantee, but it's more about chemistry and attraction at a bar than it is online where guys are often too worried about alphabet soup, reviews, etc. About 1/2 of my VIP and regular clients I met offline.
Anyway, I wonder how many guys if at a bar you run across a well dressed, attractive and interesting lady would be brave enough to invite her to your room for a little P4P time if you knew it was possible?
I usually set up a date at least a week ahead, often more. I have two arranged for January, including one near the end of the month. My schedule is usually very crowded when I travel and it is much easier for me to carve out some time and protect it if I do so before the rest of my evenings get filled with work.
Having said that, I would not be adverse to approaching such a well dressed, attractive and interesting lady. The difficult part would be knowing P4P was available, and that she was not already waiting for someone.
On a side note: Vanica, I did see you in a DC bar once, and in your case I probably would have approached you but you were already talking with someone else. My loss.
I do know what you are talking about. There's a certain thrill of the chase and adrenaline pumping when siddling up to a stranger and wondering where it will all end up.
Too bad (or maybe it's a good thing) that I'm too much of a marshmellow to go for that kind of thing now.
once when traveling i was feeling particularly adventurous and horny. after checking in to my hotel i got on the elevator which was was already inhabited by only a very attractive lady, dressed in a sexy and sophisticated manner. (think Tricia Helfer but with more, not too much more, of a caboose.)
since i only had a few floors to go i quickly went to work and secured an agreement to meet her in the bar. i think i remember using a typical cliche ad line to reassure her of my generosity and gentility. anyway she agreed to meet me in the bar in a half hour. we arrived at an understanding over a couple of glasses of wine and i had a very nice time with her.
never could find an ad to review her. since then i've decided to not review when traveling: too many breadcrumbs....
and yes i still have both kidneys. but i wouldn't likely do this again.
I was in Las Vegas and after my pre-arranged date cancelled at the last minute I was walking through the casino when I ran into an extremely attractive girl who offered to solve my P4P cancellation problem. I was the worst experience of my hobby career. She was horrible and if I could have written a review for her she would have received a 9/3.
You are absolutely right about the importance of chemistry and when an attractive women tells you that you can take her to bed very ealy in the conversation the big head stops working and the small head takes over and the next thing you know you and handing her $ and begging her to just leave. If it had been a purely civilian encounter where I took some time to get to know here I would not have taken her to my room....There was no chemistry and it was a train wreck.
It is possible that on my next trip somewhere that if I meet an attractive P4P woman in the bar I might say Yes ...but the memory of "Horrible Natalie" will probably stop me.
Hi, I'm Paul and I see you blowing me tonight. If I'm wrong, please let me know now so I don't waste my night buying you drinks. He even carried business cards with Paul's name on them. I can only imagine the calls that his coworker (Paul) got in the following days. He said it worked about one time in three.
The last non-sting related bust I read about in Boston involved two bored escorts who decided to hit their hotel bar try and drum up some business.
No thanks...
I spent many years cruising the track and picking up street walkers in Boston's now defunct Combat Zone. Looking back, I'm amazed at how little caution I exercised. Things were different then. it was either the street, the back pages of the free papers or the yellow pages. Now we have the internet. While I'm not opposed to rolling the dice on a gal without reviews once in a while I do need a bit more of a comfort zone than simply offering girls in hotel bars money for sex.
You offer them dick. If they are into P4P, they will mention the money.
There are two huge positives to this approach. Number one, sometimes you end up with free civvie pussy. Number two, there is nothing illegal about picking up (or attempting to pick up) a girl at the bar. So you haven't broken any laws and the worst you can get is a slap in the face. lol
Last time, struck up a conversation with this lady there for some convention. Had a wingman too, btw.
Anyway, we had some drinks, she was laughing at our jokeing around and told her 'I kiss you it's all over. You know that right?' She said 'Oh yeah?' 'Yep'. So I did. She said I was right then I flat said 'You wanna go upstairs and fuck?' She said yes and I think you know the rest.
i find that if i just make an offer out of the blue that is some variant on "do you wanna screw?" that the acceptance rate is only about 10%: 5% need a gift 5% will do it anyway. i don't have Mikey's charm or youth. out of the 90% failures it breaks down roughly 20% i need to duck or dodge, 35% i get verbally abused and 35% she waks or runs away.
OTOH if i soften it a bit: "hi, my name is Gian, i'm a kind and generous gentleman who would like to buy you a drink. what's your name? are you here for business, pleasure or both?" the odds change dramatically: 60% success with 55% requiring a gift and 5% still willing to get together for free. the 40% failures break out: still need to duck or dodge 20%, only 5% verbaly abuse and 15% flee.
not that i do that any more... mind you. but those are the rough stats when i retired from the bar game. i'm sure Mikey does better.
i don't really do bars, but when traveling solo i will dine at a bar in a restaurant.
last time there was an interesting opportunity, i passed. she was hot! i'm not.... but there was an amusing conversation that got to the point where she was describing how the plumbing at her place was rather eleborate.... "as if it had been designed for a porno shower orgy scene".
for some reason i felt that it was a set up and excused myself after i finished my after dinner coffee......
I couldn't pick up a lady at a bar if she was laying on the floor with a handle attached to her
Posted By: Vanica
When I first started escorting I worked hotel bars. I love it and when bored I still work hotel bars in DC and other cities I visit. It's not a guarantee, but it's more about chemistry and attraction at a bar than it is online where guys are often too worried about alphabet soup, reviews, etc. About 1/2 of my VIP and regular clients I met offline.
Anyway, I wonder how many guys if at a bar you run across a well dressed, attractive and interesting lady would be brave enough to invite her to your room for a little P4P time if you knew it was possible?
If it weren't for the hobby and their old fat wives, I think these same guys only release for the rest of their lives would be jacking off to porn.
Doesn't anybody remember how to pick up chicks at a bar? Please tell me that someone besides MP67 and me have been laid without paying or marrying the woman involved. It's not that fucking hard.
I am well over fifty, so I would hardly call myself a "young fella" but yeah, compared to some of these old farts, I guess I am still young, and unlike some others around here, I also have my balls intact.
I know of guys in their 60's and 70's who still "have game" and there are plenty who never had it and never will.
to lift their dick is a young fellow in my book! You're probably right again about having game, you goddam smart-aleck card shark, craps throwing, whisky drinking good for godknowswhat moderating fool. in fact, let me out of here before i lose what little game i have left hanging around these beached whales.
I'm gonna pick up a 28 year old in a party dress and give her the ragging of her life! And if she's p for p, she can have my last cnote for all i care, if she smells good.
I don't pick them up in bars, but have had several civee fucks since my divorce, 6 yrs ago. Lady friends, who are now divorced, a couple of dating site girls, etc. ( it's not that hard to get laid ) I just p4p when i have some extra cash and want young model material. ( well, i always want it, but can't afford it, lol )
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