turn it on and off. Is it because most of your clients are ALOT older than u and what we (me) sometimes feel on our end, you never feel?? If all your clients were your age and handsome, would it be harder to shut it off? What i'm saying is, one minute it's passionate kissing, then the next minute, your out the door and on to the next one. Any insight on how u pull this off, day in and day out, would be interesting to know. Thanks.
and you are ready to leave. It isn't different for us. Generally why I don't finish up a session with a face in my lap. I like to have a little of the cool down before everyone has to leave. It is also why I normally always go over by a little to have those mins to cool down before getting cleaned up and dressed
I have to tell you though, it is not super busy out there so when we leave we are going out running errands or hanging with friends. Don't naturally assume all we have going on is this, we are human and do have other plans just as you do. By time we arrive there(unless we happen to ride a Harley) we are no longer thinking about sex hence not flooding our panties.
wasn't speaking of turning on and off the sex, i was speaking of your emotions....or, do u have none. you've have spent the past hour with a man's dick in your vagina, his tongue all over your kitty, erotic kissing, etc, etc...their has to be a way to block all of that, for it to not do anything to your emotions....doesn't their? I know, i know, sex doesn't equal love, but, do u know what i'm trying to get at? I know, i think too much, but it is why i have a brain. ( i like to know the answer to things, if their is one, and, their usually is )
I don't think it's necessarily as much about turning emotions on and off as it is not letting them come into play in the first place. Although we are performing very intimate acts, a certain emotional line has to be drawn. If I allowed my emotions to keep up with the physicality of the moment, I would be a basket case who falls in love with (almost) every client. No, sex does not equate to love. But, it can definitely equal infatuation (easily mistaken for love), which can be potentially dangerous on both sides. So, to answer your question, I think that most of us see the same value in drawing lines and remembering that we are paid to leave that you guys see in drawing lines and actually paying us to LEAVE.
Posted By: lungman
wasn't speaking of turning on and off the sex, i was speaking of your emotions....or, do u have none. you've have spent the past hour with a man's dick in your vagina, his tongue all over your kitty, erotic kissing, etc, etc...their has to be a way to block all of that, for it to not do anything to your emotions....doesn't their? I know, i know, sex doesn't equal love, but, do u know what i'm trying to get at? I know, i think too much, but it is why i have a brain. ( i like to know the answer to things, if their is one, and, their usually is )
and for me I just love sex. Emotions, sure I have them but I do not fall in love with my guests in an hour I am enjoying their bodies. And sex does not need to have more then like to happen, hell you don't even have to like someone you can even hate them and still have hot sex. So if you are asking if we get all emotional about our sessions, no. We will enjoy the hell out of what you have to offer(c*ck wise and tongue wise) and then when it is over our thoughts goto would we enjoy seeing them again. Mostly the answer is yes, sometimes no but after it is over it is what it is..... Hot ass sex, and sure I may think about you later when I am cleaning my girly bits and turning in for the night recalling how great my kit kat felt but that is all. We can miss you if you don't come to visit(mostly with regulars that you have long standing friendships with) and regularly swap emails. But hun, this is what it is and if anyone gets emotional about it then they are certainly in the wrong place! You want a real girlfriend don't come to us... We can only offer the fantasy of that for the duration
I've gotten to know a lot of providers in NYC and who visit here, and the vast majority of them say that orgasms are faked, and that it's a bit of a performance.
Does that mean they are counting the benjamins in their head as they get pounded against the headboard? Not necessarily. But the great thing about the female anatomy is that it's really easy to fake orgasms, because women, unlike men, don't always "ejaculate." I suppose as men we can also fake an orgasm while we're fucking her with a condom (and I've done that in my civvie life once or twice when the girl was disappointing and I wanted to get her out of my apartment).
I think a lot of it is just performance and a fantasy, especially for the higher-volume providers who are seeing four or more clients a day.
Put it this way...when the bottle of lube comes out for vaginal sex, I'm usually already concluding that she isn't getting off.
Well, 2 of my ATF do not fake their orgasms. How do I know this? When their cum juice comes out, that's how I know. Pretty hard to fake that.
I asked one of them about that emotional thing during the sex. She did say that there is emotion involved becaue if there isn't any... then it would be all robotic and her robotic performance would show through. She did say that it does NOT mean emotional attachment, that's a whole different ballgame there.
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Posted By: crazyshit
I've gotten to know a lot of providers in NYC and who visit here, and the vast majority of them say that orgasms are faked, and that it's a bit of a performance.
Does that mean they are counting the benjamins in their head as they get pounded against the headboard? Not necessarily. But the great thing about the female anatomy is that it's really easy to fake orgasms, because women, unlike men, don't always "ejaculate." I suppose as men we can also fake an orgasm while we're fucking her with a condom (and I've done that in my civvie life once or twice when the girl was disappointing and I wanted to get her out of my apartment).
I think a lot of it is just performance and a fantasy, especially for the higher-volume providers who are seeing four or more clients a day.
Put it this way...when the bottle of lube comes out for vaginal sex, I'm usually already concluding that she isn't getting off.
Hopefully the ones that are my ATFs aren't fakers, either.
Point is...the ones who I see as ATFs tell me they gotta do some faking to get through sessions at times, especially if they are seeing three or more guys per day.
You are quite correct. I know you are, from, um, well, first-hand experience.
Zoe, you are the most sexual of Goddesses.
Can it be mere coincidence that after seeing you a few days ago, I'm on here doing a review of our session, I rarely-almost never-check out this forum, I scroll down and the title of this particuler thread sparks my interest, I'm reading each post...and here you are.
No, I can't imagine a world without females, but I can imagine a world with just one...
I have never tossed a guy out mid orgasm if that's what you're saying, but yes I have stopped a date when it was literally 45 min. over and he was taking my time for granted. It's not about being turned on or off here, though it sure feels better when you are turned on. This is a business, and if someone does not eventually note the time, we may as well not charge at all.
He is so desirable, he does not understand how you could just walk away when the time is up. I've had similar problems because women in general love me so much. For instance, Katie Holmes comes and hangs out on my front doorstep every time cruise has the kid. Yesterday, she brought a bottle of champagne and a suitcase full of hundreds. She got into a fight out there with Ann Curry, who has been crying on my shoulder since leaving the today show. Ann it was fun while it lasted.
So I understand lung mans question. Providers follow me through the streets like love zombies. Tough way to make a living
He is so desirable, he does not understand how you could just walk away when the time is up. I've had similar problems because women in general love me so much. For instance, Katie Holmes comes and hangs out on my front doorstep every time cruise has the kid. Yesterday, she brought a bottle of champagne and a suitcase full of hundreds. She got into a fight out there with Ann Curry, who has been crying on my shoulder since leaving the today show. Ann it was fun while it lasted.
So I understand lung mans question. Providers follow me through the streets like love zombies. Tough way to make a living
A great little machine. Just set the device at the start of the appointment and at exactly sixty minutes, it projects giant 3-D images of old nuns in thongs on the walls and ceiling while blaring the bagpipe version of Iron Butterfly's "In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida" at full volume. Sends the stragglers running for the door before they're even dressed.
nope, that's not what i'm saying, but, you answered my question in a thread below....thanks. I thought i already knew the answer and now i do. I think too much, instead of just enjoying the ride....but hey, that's just me.
believe it or not, not every provider does the "fantasy" thing. when i spend time with a client, more often than not they are my actual friend, and even if not they are someone i like and respect. i would never see anyone where those conditions were not met. so because i've developed a genuine connection with someone, that began long before we ever laid eyes on each other, and that relationship continues over months and years of spending time with one another, why on earth would there be any need for pretense?
yes i'm probably different from most providers as far as the emotional depth of relationships i maintain with my clients, but i am no virgin mary either. i happen to like getting to know all different kinds of men, from all walks of life, different cultures, different experiences and knowledge to share. and yes, different needs and desires, sexual and otherwise. the connection and relationship i have with one man is unique onto itself...it will not look like the relationship i have with someone else. because it's real. it's natural. and that's the way we like it.
.. and fun times to gentleman who return the same attributes in kind!!
Posted By: lilli
believe it or not, not every provider does the "fantasy" thing. when i spend time with a client, more often than not they are my actual friend, and even if not they are someone i like and respect. i would never see anyone where those conditions were not met. so because i've developed a genuine connection with someone, that began long before we ever laid eyes on each other, and that relationship continues over months and years of spending time with one another, why on earth would there be any need for pretense?
yes i'm probably different from most providers as far as the emotional depth of relationships i maintain with my clients, but i am no virgin mary either. i happen to like getting to know all different kinds of men, from all walks of life, different cultures, different experiences and knowledge to share. and yes, different needs and desires, sexual and otherwise. the connection and relationship i have with one man is unique onto itself...it will not look like the relationship i have with someone else. because it's real. it's natural. and that's the way we like it.
Sex does not equate to emotions, which is something many people do not realize. Sex is just sex, something for personal pleasure. Emotion is only involved when both parties have a mutual understanding(aka, real relationships). Do we sometimes develop a good rapture with certain clients? Of course, but again, at the end of the day, we both recognize this for what it really is.
Posted By: lungman
turn it on and off. Is it because most of your clients are ALOT older than u and what we (me) sometimes feel on our end, you never feel?? If all your clients were your age and handsome, would it be harder to shut it off? What i'm saying is, one minute it's passionate kissing, then the next minute, your out the door and on to the next one. Any insight on how u pull this off, day in and day out, would be interesting to know. Thanks.
I have the luxury of being completely unattached (not all girls do), so I do think of my clients a lot throughout the day, but not in an emotional way. What can I do next time? What would really make them feel special? What would really surprise them and make it a once in a lifetime experience for them? This is the way I am naturally. What gets me off is knowing that I rocked their world, and did it better than anyone they've ever seen before. It's purely fun for me, and exactly what I would be doing for free, just on a larger scale and I'm actually appreciated for it.
I do have a genuine emotional connection with most of my clients, but it isn't in a "man, I wish I could BE with them" way, it's more of an I admire them as a person, or we click very well and I really enjoy the time I get to spend with them way. Nothing more, and always professional.
Can't you just leave it that when you are with us it's all about you, the great stud and not worry about what we do after you leave? Sometimes TMI ruins this careful illusion we have created and then the guys get all bent out of shape.
Bottom line it's our job and those of us that are professional, can do just that.
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