for providers to share verification information with each other.
I was recently with a provider who received a message from her friend asking her to verify if some documentation submitted to the friend by a monger was authentic. That made me think as to how common is it for providers to forward such information to each other. Further, is it acceptable practice?If you give a provider as a reference to another provider, they will almost always respond to a verification request, whether they know the other provider or not. Its all based on the customer identifying the reference provider first. I never heard of a provider contacting other providers randomly to share info for an appointment request. The exception on random contacts are the cases where there is a problem with the customer and they want to warn other local ladies to watch out for the guy. These most often happen if they guy is a stiff, short, flake, diseased, stalker or abusive.
Seems that there is some confusion. So let me try again...
Provider 1 contacts a friend - Provider 2 - and shares info/documents that a Monger sent to Provider 1 to get verified. Provider 1 wants to know if document is legit/authentic. Provider 2 was Not a reference here.
If that was a reference then I'd understand. But this was a friend sharing monger info with another friend.
How did Provider 1 know to contact provider 2 about this particular guy, or did she just make a lucky guess that he had seen her too? I still don't think girls just contact other girls randomly unless the customer has given her the second girl's name. Maybe you were not in the loop during that part. Is it possible that you were not privy to the entire dialogue between the two providers? There may have been emails that you didn't get to see that tell a more complete story about what was going on. Its dangerous to make assumptions if there is a chance you might be missing some of the information.
here is a snippet from the OP...
"who received a message from her friend "
What did you not understand about the providers being friends?
what did you give her that needs authenticating, a driver's license, check stub, or passport?
If any of the above, or anything close to that, you're crazy. There are plenty of provides who don't need to go that personal.
If you're a pro athlete or celebrity and you gave her an autographed souvenir, then of course she should ask another hooker friend to verify that it's authentic.
sort of on topic: one thing I'd do over/differently if just starting out in the hobby would be to get a really good fake ID and establish a fake online presence that would pass muster with most screenings. Early on, I was far too careless with my real ID.
if you see my OP, I was with a provider who got the text and some pics of some documents that was submitted by a monger.
When I asked, all she mentioned was that one of her friends had forwarded her pics of documents and was asking for her opinion if they looked all right.
I was kind of surprised that - someone sent some material as reference, and that one provider passes that along to another..
LOL, I thought of the same thing recently. A underage college student relative of mine recently got an amazingly good fake ID from overseas -- it even scans with his name and fake age. I was thinking that I should get one also, but for a different reason. LOL
Mostly, they simply say, "Yes, I saw him and he's OK." That doesn't mean some don't share more, but I don't think it's the norm. But if you're concerned, just don't give out sensitive information to anyone. You'll still get laid.
Another scenario is that the provider who was asked, doesn't answer or gives false information to cock block.
Seen a lot of that going on lately.
Or calls the client to suggest or bully him to not see the other one.
Or as CDL said, it all goes smoothly.
I have heard that a few providers are cock blocking very good clients. Similar to what Mick is saying. Not giving a reference or even saying something negative yet still trying to schedule with said client.
Please do see my clarification, there seems to be some confusion.
Not to say that what you guys are stating is not correct. They are not particularly relevant in this case.
Lets say two apartment managers are friends and one gets a job reference on a lease application that looks a little hinky and forwards it to her friend who is in the same business and who might have some insight for her opinion. If you were in the office with the friend who received the document in her email would you all of a sudden start wondering if filling out lease applications were safe?
I have to agree with the consensus here, hookers share info with each other, if you are afraid of anything you send being viewed by anyone else the answer is simple, DON'T send it in the first place. Personally I can't imagine what kind of "document" a potential john might be sending to a hooker in the first place, but people do stupid shit all the time, no reason for you to be one of them. In the words of Nancy Reagan, "just say no" lol
it's not I who sent anything to anyone. Know enough from these forums that this is something that one doesn't do. Am sure my older posts might also illustrate that as well
I blame the earlier poster (john laroche) who jumped the gun and now everyone is just following blindly thinking that it is I who shared my PII.
Having said that, I think this business is a bit different than others, am not sure if we can make such comparisons.
Even if a monger is stupid enough to send some document, I'm not sure forwarding that document to another by emailing/texting was proper... am sure people share the information on their phones/laptops but forwarding a verification document sent by a monger, eh?
Honestly, I have gone through a lot of screening over the many, many years I have been doing this, but I have never been asked for anything that could be considered a "document" It might be helpful if you'd tell us just what kind of document you are talking about.
Also, I can only speak for myself when I say "you" shouldn't send sensitive informations to strangers, I mean the generic "you" not you in particular. No need to get defensive as I know, and I suspect everyone else here who knows how to read (ok, maybe you do have a point. lol) knows that YOU are not the person who sent a "screening document'
Now to repeat my point, it's not unreasonable to assume that a provider who was uncertain about the veracity of a particular piece of screening information would not ask a trusted friend her opinion about said "document" that was sent to her. Who better to ask than a fellow hooker who might have insight or experience in the matter? The only part of this I might find disturbing is that the hooker it was sent to shared any of the information with a client like you.
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Was your standard NASA Astonaut Application Form, which, along with a gym membership, is often used for identification purposes by some guys.
In this thread earlier, I posted:
"if you see my OP, I was with a provider who got the text and some pics of some documents that was submitted by a monger.
When I asked, all she mentioned was that one of her friends had forwarded her pics of documents and was asking for her opinion if they looked all right.
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So, no I have no idea the content of the text except it was a pic of something, some verification document. Provider did NOT share that information with me. I was just told what happened, not the exact content of the text.
So, another instance that suggests that no-one should share their personal info because a provider can share that information with 1 or more providers etc. and then the information is everywhere...
It's never impacted me or how I play, so why would I. What I concern myself with these days is finding reliable, hot, and accommodating women. 😎
Yes it is acceptable to me! We need to Help each other to stay Safe!
the statement that many ladies claim when asking for PII:
"Your information is safe with me
Your information will not be shared,
Your information will be destroyed after verification" etc. etc.
and now we know that they Share and Share and Share.
No wonder guys have been advised against providing PII, better to go 411 or other such route.
Not only this, I was with a provider in DC (seen her multiple times) and she mentioned that she asks for Govt issued IDs/LinkedIn profiles/Facebook etc.
I just shook my head at the people who are willing to share such information.
Water has been found to be wet. lmao
Maybe "now you know" but most of the rest of us have known this for years. My advice is the same as it has always been, "only give the information you are comfortable giving" If the information you provide to a hooker could ruin your life if it were to get out, DON'T DO IT!!!
As GaG. I long ago determined there are more hookers than I will ever get to see in my lifetime, so there is no need for me to obsess over seeing a particular one. As GaG suggests, I give the info that I am comfortable giving (info that will NOT ruin my life if discovered), and it that's not good enough, I draw a line through her name and go to the next hooker on my wish list. For me, it seems like the only way to preserve my safety AND my sanity. (Even though the little head has all the fun, the big head still makes the decisions.)
I am often amused by guys that whine about jumping through hoops to see a particular hooker. After giving in to her screening demands, when their big head said don't do it, then whining about it afterward, especially to other mongers on the boards, just makes them look weak on multiple levels.
Well not for you or me, but "some people" just seem to have more problems paying for pussy than the rest of us have getting it for free. I pay for pussy because it's EASY, I find a hot young thing on the internet, I chat with her briefly either online or on the phone and it a few hours I am balls deep inside of her for the price of a decent nights bar tab. What's not to like?
I swear that some of these clueless wonders spend more time dealing with hookers "trying" to get laid that I ever did trying to score civvies at bars back in my youth. How people can take something so fucking easy and make it so fucking hard is beyond me. Is it really so hard to "just say no" and move onto the next woman when a hooker starts making unreasonable demands? and yes, I DO reserve the right to make my own judgment as to what is reasonable and what is not. As you just said there are more hookers in any decent sized city than even a guy with my appetite could ever fuck in several lifetimes, getting all hung up on what is not only weak, but stupid.
to duct tape my license to my cock for screening.
Another reason to keep your equipment shaved! 