do it because all of us guys really like it?  I've noticed in my private life all of my SO's have eventually stopped doing it.

I have to confess, I'm not a big fan of 69. I love oral, I love giving and I love receiving, but with 69 I can't really focus on either.

In my experience, they've stopped because they feel like they are out of shape or unattractive, not because they didn't like the act itself...

but then i hate receiving oral in whatever position or fashion. but the irksome thing about 69 is that not only am i receiving oral (again, something i HATE), but i'm being prevented from giving my full attention and oral worshipping to the penis. and that just ain't right.

I must admit I am fixated on giving but love receiving as well. I don't mind doing 69 as long as you don't mind me missing a lick or two. Kind of hard to remember what your doing when you get lost in the moment. I do prefer, I do you, you do me, I do you, you do me and so on.....
   Kisses Haley

I hate, hate, hate 69, but love receiving DATY and a certainly enjoy doing oral on a gentleman. It is not because I am out of shape or unattractive by any means. It is a very awkaward position and I don't like my nose in some dude's hairy asshole. Would you?

When the guy's taller and I'm on top, the penis comes to me and I don't have to stretch.  If he's shorter, I wind up in a half-headstand and unable to get a good angle.

a challenge with tall gents since I'm only 5'3

You do me, I do you, you do me, I do you...Yeah!

It's much more rewarding engaging in mututal oral than in 69.  I do her, she does me and so on. We may end up in 69 for a few minutes but, if I am really doing it right, she is having way too much fun to concentrate on my cock...and visa versa...

But don't like 69.  It's difficult for me to have as many O's (not to mention squirting) if I am concentrating on performing oral.  Not to mention how dangerous it can be for the guys...I tend to suck REALLY HARD when I cum.....

Would rather take turns.. 1,2,3 switch. 1,2,3 switch..  LOL

Kari

For a number of reasons.

I feel a little awkward receiving oral if I'm not also giving oral. I'm as lazy as the next guy, but I want to be active during playtime.

DATY helps distract me and I last longer. If I distract her a little, it lasts longer still.

Nothing is sexier to me than a woman in orgasm. I love the view from all angles.

Often, as a lady builds towards a climax, her efforts to please me become more intense as well.

If she cums first, I win! If she cums more than once, I WIN! (yay me)

Im not a huge fan of any man going down on me, I much prefer penetration!
I really love going down on men though, its one of my most favorite things.

69 is hot.  Abso-fucking-lutley...  How is two people pleasuring each other orally NOT hot??

But honestly, it's hard for me to think about getting off when I'm also concentrating on sucking cock.  I have gotten off in 69, but the guy has to be really good at his skills so that I don't have to take away from what *I'm* doing to put in the mental effort it takes sometimes to get off with someone of lesser skills. (*edit to add-) Sometimes when a guy is getting his cock sucked, he has a hard time focusing on his technique that he otherwise might be better at, ya know??

Most of the time 69 is a warm up for something else with me.

xoM

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This is such an overrated thing with men, I think. Most of the time while doing 69, I am too worried about what I'm doing to you to concentrate on what's being done to me. It's fun but more of an appetizer. However, if a guy didn't request it at all, that's fine with me.

I think one-on-one oral is soooooo much better. You can lay back, relax and truly enjoy oral the way it's supposed to be. I think 69 is mainly for teenagers trying out new things, but hey if that's what you like then by all means I'll do it and have fun, but don't expect me to cum. Also, some of us have bad backs and being a contorsionist is fun but exhausting and painful.

Now, that's the honest truth, and don't let anyone kid you. Most of the ladies I have spoken to (civie and providers) say they could care less about 69 but will do it because the man wants it.  

Geez! Whatever happened to making love. Must everything be about a porn movie? Most women don't fuck like that. When will men ever learn?


Hugs,
Ciara







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We did this as teenagers but it's boring now. Let's make love not play Twister.

Hugs,
Ciara

You talked me into it.

I'm not a lady either but I'd much prefer to concentrate on pleasing the lady without having to worry about what's happening to me, and vice versa.  Serial oral to me is much better than 69.

about why the people who I have been with (in my experience) stopped doing this?  I've asked and that's the answer I was given, and it was a plausable answer.

Really, I'd like to know where you got your information.

You type type in the little window. "You're wrong" lol

FWIW I would expect that a provider with several years in the business might have a larger sampling of opinions on which to base her own conclusion.

For even less then $.02 I might also add that I am far from out of shape, I can still go five or six times on a good day, but I Don't particulary like 69 either.

Don't take this the wrong way but most of the people that I know that rave about 69 are people with less sexual experience, not in bad shape. It's like threesomes, I recommend everybody try it at least once, but I've done it literally dozens of times and I much prefer my sex one on one. Not that I fault people who like it, I've just been there and done that. Who needs the damn t-shirt?

Bah. To hell with them. Next time we get together, we'll make sure to spend some time proving that they are wrong.

for one I am not a teenager but love the 69 position for nothing else but the view.  You see I honestly feel a womans ass and pussy are a thing of pure beauty especially when being viewed in their entirety.  I don't necessarily have to be DATY or DATO you in that position, just laying back and enjoying that beautiful view that you and all woman have is euphoric enough for me.  I thank you and god for creating such a beautiful sight!

Second I don't regard this position as a "porn move".  I agree with your thought in "making love".  In my last session I turned to her and said "can I make passionate love to you".  Kind of felt wierd asking someone that I really didn't know and under this type of circumstance.
Thank God she said yes!

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AS a young man in the formative years I enjoyed 69 quite abit..this was pretty much a civie phenomena for me.

When I began hobbying I found that I could be more focused on giving & receiving oral pleasure if the actions were treated as seperate & stand alone. I get such enjoyment during DATY when I can not only  apply my tongue correctly but enjoy the reactions my tongue is having on my date..A lot harder to see the fruits of one's labor in the 69 position. The same applies when getting the BBBJ from the lady. I enjoy watching all that the lady is doing  as she comes before the Judge.