Yes, I do just get a feeling sometimes. Sometimes that feeling tells me to walk away sometimes not. I've been right more often than not.

My vibe used to be way off.  I was a wide eyed optimist and would see what looked like a hot body with a blurred face and jump.  Now I have started to pick up on the more subtle hints (stomach covered likely means at least a small spare tire; soft focus can indicate bad skin; professional pics almost always have some photoshopping, etc.).  Once I started discounting for some of these variables, my vibe has become more in line with my reality.  

But there are always the outliers. The really hot pics that have been way over touched (the reviews will sometimes sift those if you can find an honest review), and my favorite.  The one that undersells and over-performs.  I don't mind at all when my vibe is wrong in that situation.

I peruse all that there is to offer on that purchase. A home, a vehicle...hell I remember doing taste research on Tequilla brands before landing on a regular choice. Course you have to come upon someone who will allow you to do that lol

My point obviously is that I usually don't buy a stick of gum without weighing all the options.

Now as far as your vibe m/o, go for it. There's another fellow,who uses TER frequently, who uses that very M/O. He's a happy camper.

I used to check the adds for the criteria I'm looking for, hight, body type and the menu offered.  Then check the reviews starting with the high scores down to the low ones, that was what directed  my vibe.  Had some success and some mediocre sessions.
With time started to expand the criteria after the pics got my attention
- age, always assume what is stated is some times as high as 7 + years older.  Checking older reviews will guide to actuall age.
- as mentioned above, the glam pictures are always touched up, so I perfer the candid pics as much as possible
Also realized what the different posses hide or highlight and if the surprise is worth the plunge
- wording of the adds reflects the woman's intellect and smarts and that is actually a plus in my book.  Checking if they partake in different board discussions also gives you an idea about their attuite and intellect.  That pretty much gives me great vibes and interest toward a provider.
- reviews, resent and past are a good indication of the providers track record, and reviews of the reviewers along with their scores would reflect the providers actual appearance and performance of different menu offering (not that I really have high requirements and the reviewed preference for looks.
- lately was checking if the provider actually studies their clients reviews, and then cater to their likings.  That sends the message that there is somewhat of an interest on their behalf before meeting them.  
- if all the above is satisfied, proper and promt communication would give me the most vibe, that really shows if the provider is on top of her game and focusing her attention to her business, and I don't mean chatting communication, which is fine, but confirmation prior to the appointment and just before or changes with ample notification, and that also can be found on their reviews too.

It's been working great so far




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truly listen to the person on the other end of the phone. Most of the time, it wasn't their words that made me say 'yes' or 'no' to them. Although many are ignorant enough to say the wrong things, it was usually something in their tone that either set off my alarms or kept them quiet. Dangerous ones heard a dial-tone before they said much, idiots and jerks got a polite 'no thanks', and silly or ignorant ones got a lesson in what to say and what to avoid saying, but didn't get an appointment.

Those that passed all my 'spidey senses' and life-experiences generally turned out to be wonderful clients. A few ended up being uniques, but the rest turned into regulars for awhile.

...is 50/50. You just never know. I had a not so good experience with one of NYC's most raved about providers. Not only is she all over the boards, guys are all over the boards constantly raving about her. My experience basically sucked. The vibe was bad the moment I walked in the door but like most of us in that situation I was in denial, horny and incapable of walking out.

scientists use it to calibrate their instruments.

Fucking bullshit...

When a lady gets a PM, email, WTF ever from mrfisher, said lady's panties are soaking wet and has the trembling going on with her legs.

Ladies, am I wrong?

Re: How accurate are your vibes?.....

It's called The Law of Attraction ...
And, yes, it works!

Sunshine Smiles ~
Lacie O
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