A 30 min meeting with a client ends extremely fast. Like within a minute or 2. They do not want to go again. What do you do?. Also as a client, what would you expect, if anything

If he paid for 30 minutes, he is entitled to thirty minutes. Unless of course he just wants to "blow and go" in that case it's on him. As a provider IMO you are obligated to do what you can in the remaining 28 minutes to make him happy, whether that be cuddling, giving him a massage, or what ever you can do to please him other than sex if he so chooses.

I would expect that many guys only booking a 30 minute session to begin with would simply get dressed and leave after blowing their load, but that's on them, not you.

If you are hinting that some guys expect a refund, I won't say no. I would say HELL NO. Their stamina or lack thereof is their problem, not yours.

Great we agree on something and that's how I saw it.  

I just feel like sometimes the mood gets akward, maybe a comment about how easy or fast he is and then........long pause (where I assume he might be implying a partial refund)

Or as I am walking them out and I say " it was very nice to meeting you" and you get a sarcastic " yeah, for you

If he can go again (no way I could recover in 30) but cuddling, shower, chat or what ever.  He might be disappointed but it's not you that cut the session short.  Maybe he should book enough time to recover for a second go.    
I'm not usually quick but Favs who know me could probably take me there very quick since they know which buttons to push...  but since they know I'm a one shot guy, the Fav's will use tease & denial to keep me going with exquisit torture.  
The question is...  on a first date...  how are you to know?  Answer is you can't.  It's up to him to say something.  So I'll ask  "How would you tell a gal to take her time?"

Seriously, we do whatever. Usually massage and some talking.

I've never had a 30 minute session so I don't know, but he's paid for the time so I think a massage or back rub is the correct answer. Two minutes! Wow!

I just had another thought after reading this. You may want to introduce him to edging since he has a hair trigger.

The other thing about guys like that is most often they are embarrassed and a bit mad at themselves for being so fast on the draw. Keep in mind most guys still believe that women want a man who can "go all night" as much as it's the exact opposite of what most hookers want.

All you can do is be as pleasant, understanding as helpful as possible and don't be surprised or feel guilty if he leaves without a smile on his face. Remember, you are a hooker not a sex therapist. No woman charges enough for a thirty minute session to have to deal with a guys psychological crap.

I'm only slightly off topic, but is the OP a Provider or a client asking from the Provider's perspective?  Doesn't matter.  

Many Provider's are known (see reviews and profiles) to offer SSOG (single shot on goal? Is that a allowed FLA - four letter acronym?). BUT, they should fulfill the time commitment if requested: chat, cuddle, talk, etc. And 30 min is not a lot of time for two anyway.  

Many Provider's are known to offer MSOG and I find it amazing and pleasant when I know it ain't gonna happen and she knows it ain't gonna happen but she still makes the effort. Even with only 10-15 minutes left in the hour, when she says, "Let's try," it's a huge ego boost and it makes me feel so good. I usually stop her knowing that I don't want to take advantage of the time. GUYS: How often do you actually get off a second shot in an hour, even when she's willing to try. 10% of us? 20%?  

(Edit added: The MSOG ladies who nastily say, "No way, honey. There's only 20 minutes left so forget about it." are in a whole other world from my perspective. Even some rub and tug and a sympathetic "I think he's too tired!" is SOMETHING to appreciate and remember for the next time. Yep: the next time. "Ain't happening, bub!" means there won't be a next time.)  

So, even if SSOG and a short visit, you can send a strong positive message by providing warm, friendly companionship for the full hh (minus a few minutes to get dressed and leave).

 

 

 


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Some are new to the hobby and don't know what to expect. Maybe they've held off on masturbation for a week or so, just in case, but it wasn't needed. Others are just very sensitive or don't realize they are brief.  
It doesn't just happen with short appointments. I used to have a client book an all day (13-14 hours) for a NASCAR race, a meal, a bath,  and then 2 minute sex. I would have gladly skipped the races (those events are surprisingly fatiguing) and gone for a marathon fuckfest.  Lol

END OF MESSAGE

"Hey sweetie you still got some time left. Would you like to cuddle for a few minutes?"

1. That gives him a chance to take you up on your offer or saying "That's OK, I'm good. Gotta go."

2. Also giving you a chance to appear caring and generous and not opportunistic.

3. So that you don't have to second-guess yourself what he might have expected or what you might have done.

As for if I was the client I wouldn't be able to answer your question what to expect. Its because I would never ever embarrass myself to be a "two pump chump". Years and years of experience in the hobby have trained myself well on how to time it perfectly when exactly I want to finish.

PS: Guys here's a trick of the trade: Viagra can make you rock hard and go on and on without cumming! Pretty sure girls hate to hear that...

ikes. How could he possibly fuck after drinking himself into the kind of stupor NASCAR races require. Two minutes. He was lucky he got it up at all.

 I think GaGambler is on the money with his comment about all you need to do is be pleasant (i.e., professional). I would also add don't make someone else's problems your problem. Let them be as sarcastic as they want (and perhaps note who they are to avoid in the future). But as the guy says in the movie The Transporter, the deal is the deal. The client pays for X amount of time and it's up to them how much they want to use and (within the providers rules) what they do with it.

I'd also go along with being sensitive about the situation -- as mentioned they may have been nervous or embarrassed and people do lash out when they really are blaming themselves.

I think there's been a lot of good comments and I'm all for making the interaction as fulfilling as possible. That said, if someone is booking 30 minutes exactly how much of a GFE experience is he really expecting?

I've never booked less the the full hour. Sometimes more but when I do it's really about the girl and the (largely fantasy) relationship the is created so MSOG is not really the primary driver of the choice. If I were to book 30  minutes I would really be expecting a quicky/wham, bam thank you ma'am that would really only work well if I know the girl fairly well. I don't think I'd get much satisfaction if it were the first meeting. That might just be me but I have to wonder just what the hobbyist that opt for the 30 minute session are looking for. Is it a quick fix to satisfy or is this a budget issue and they are looking for the GFE experience?

Juggle lol

That's pretty entertaining for 28 minutes lol