TER General Board

how about $350 vs $1500/hour
ismellturkey 2314 reads
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Is there a reason why you guys ask our donation in the email after it's been posted everywhere as the same rate? My rate is on my review page and on my website. When I tell you to check my website, please don't ask again to email the donation price to confirm the $$$ in writing. It scares me when you do this because you feel like LE and then I stop communicating with you. I don't discuss donations, rates, or money over email.  

Also, even if you have 2 or so old references it's not okay to talk about my services or anything sex-related over email. For all I know, you could be a hobbyist gone bad or a busted hobbyist who handed his account over for less criminal charges, who is going to turn me over to LE. If you have a lot of fairly recent references and you want to talk about role play this is fine. But any other question's about anything sex-related, well that's what TER's "yes" and "no's" next to the service offered is for. Please invest in vip membership!

This has happened enough these past 2 months that I feel it's highly important to mention it. Thanks for taking the time to read!

escalade1964 65 Reviews 837 reads
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2 / 35

We are always looking for a special or hoping you will give a discount to me because, well, I am "escalade"

I also feel, well, because I am "escalade" you will offer more on your menu than you do others.

Just don't tell anyone about us babe.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 856 reads
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3 / 35
ismellturkey 1013 reads
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4 / 35

But the guys aren't asking me if they could have a special rate in the email they send me. They are just wanting to confirm the rate in writing over email. I don't understand this. If it's on my website and on ter, then why are they asking me to write down a money amount in an email....even after I've told them to look at my website for all the info? It sounds like something LE would do to have it confirmed in writing.

Posted By: escalade1964
We are always looking for a special or hoping you will give a discount to me because, well, I am "escalade"  
   
 I also feel, well, because I am "escalade" you will offer more on your menu than you do others.  
   
 Just don't tell anyone about us babe.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 818 reads
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5 / 35

Ok, you could still do it anyway, but that is why they are asking to be sure. Also, so many women have wacked out rates on different sites, and no one ever knows which one is the right rate.  If you have 400 on TER, 500 on P411, and 350 on Eros (yes many women do just that lol) they want to know WHICH rate is accurate.

-- Modified on 10/22/2013 9:32:54 PM

scott45 9 Reviews 668 reads
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6 / 35

Thanks for pointing that out, LR.   It happens -diff rates on diff sites- often.   Maybe instead of looking for clarification, we should just assume the lowest rate.

HangingwithBears 693 reads
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7 / 35

Just checked out a few providers on different sites, all with different rates. One had a TER rate higher than her EROS rate and of course, the ever present P411 discount rate which was different than the other two. Pass...

In the OP's case, she told him the rate was that posted on her site so it should be good enough. I see her point but rate roulette is so prevalent, we don't always know what the donation really is without asking.

Sexy Gymnast See my TER Reviews 590 reads
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9 / 35

THEY READ NOTHING THAT WAS POSTED. They researched most likely nothing other then your picture and hopefully made sure you have reviews. Doesn't mean they read them. Guys like this who don't spend the time, to find anything out about a lady will also not take the time in person with you. Anyone who asks anything inappropriate is not taking you seriously, not following your rules..which means they have no respect for you. Which means they should be completely off limits to you. Don't reply, and spam them. Period. If you have done the work, and they choose to view you as some child that they can control..do not allow them to continue thinking that. They are a waist of your time! AND, or LE.  

Good luck! :)
xoxoox~Aerial~

P.S. And, WOW to some of the responses here...I have opened a post in the wrong neighborhood again..
Posted By: ismellturkey
Is there a reason why you guys ask our donation in the email after it's been posted everywhere as the same rate? My rate is on my review page and on my website. When I tell you to check my website, please don't ask again to email the donation price to confirm the $$$ in writing. It scares me when you do this because you feel like LE and then I stop communicating with you. I don't discuss donations, rates, or money over email.  
   
 Also, even if you have 2 or so old references it's not okay to talk about my services or anything sex-related over email. For all I know, you could be a hobbyist gone bad or a busted hobbyist who handed his account over for less criminal charges, who is going to turn me over to LE. If you have a lot of fairly recent references and you want to talk about role play this is fine. But any other question's about anything sex-related, well that's what TER's "yes" and "no's" next to the service offered is for. Please invest in vip membership!  
   
 This has happened enough these past 2 months that I feel it's highly important to mention it. Thanks for taking the time to read!
-- Modified on 10/22/2013 7:23:14 PM

SirWilliam00 16 Reviews 633 reads
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10 / 35

I try not to email about rates.  But what happens is either you cannot find the rate (unlikely) or, more likely, you are finding different rates in different places (perhaps one on the website and a different one in the ad) and just want to be sure of what the amount is.

I don't know if it holds true for everyone but as a client, I am really worried about making sure I know the right amount to put in the envelope so if there is any doubt I ask to confirm... I always thought it is OK to ask about rates as long as you mention nothing about services, since rates are public anyway.

I prefer not to ask  either so it's great when the rates are crystal clear (like perhaps repeated next to entries in a touring schedule on the website).

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 612 reads
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11 / 35

Clipping coupons is an involuntary reflex for me .  
    I have a color copy of her lowest rate ad when I show at her door .  

   It comes in handy when  she looks like I'm at the wrong Hotel    :-D
   
   If I could afford VIP ,  I wouldn't be clipping coupons !!!!!!!
 
Posted By: ismellturkey
Is there a reason why you guys ask our donation in the email after it's been posted everywhere as the same rate? My rate is on my review page and on my website. When I tell you to check my website, please don't ask again to email the donation price to confirm the $$$ in writing. It scares me when you do this because you feel like LE and then I stop communicating with you. I don't discuss donations, rates, or money over email.  
   
 Also, even if you have 2 or so old references it's not okay to talk about my services or anything sex-related over email. For all I know, you could be a hobbyist gone bad or a busted hobbyist who handed his account over for less criminal charges, who is going to turn me over to LE. If you have a lot of fairly recent references and you want to talk about role play this is fine. But any other question's about anything sex-related, well that's what TER's "yes" and "no's" next to the service offered is for. Please invest in vip membership!  
   
 This has happened enough these past 2 months that I feel it's highly important to mention it. Thanks for taking the time to read!

datytodayie 727 reads
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12 / 35

saw the lady.....all TER ads wer at the higher rate...local board was $350. Still would not be back

ismellturkey 568 reads
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13 / 35

I've had a man show up with a print out of my rate, photo, and ad before just in case he thought I would try and screw him over. I like when guys do that, it's kinda cute haha.

But with the most recent inquiry, the man claimed to have visited my website with the rate posted and he still wanted me to type out the rate. It's the exact same rate in my C-source ad, TER review page, and website. There shouldn't be any confusion at this point, ya know

Sexy Gymnast See my TER Reviews 709 reads
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14 / 35

Well, THAT could make it confusing.....I would go with what is on her website and TER profile though..and it could be possible (NO IDEA if in this particular case it would be) that the lower rate is from a site she was on a long time ago, and maybe doesn't use the site anymore and just hasn't updated/deleted...but the higher rate I would think , would always be the current rate... But, yeah...I could see the problem there...

curious_guy99 557 reads
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15 / 35

If doing something we don't usually do, like outcall in a different city, or a different amount of time, its okay to email and ask. Its much easier to email a provider I have met than access NSFW web-site(s). We don't usually have time to go around looking for an inconspicuous place to hunch over a personal laptop in an area covered by a public WiFi hotspot.

My_New_Alias 791 reads
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16 / 35

London knows us better than we know ourselves.  And do you ladies really think sending an email telling us to look at your website full of naked pictures and listing your rates will serve you any better if you get arrested than an email stating your rates directly?

OhCharlie See my TER Reviews 604 reads
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17 / 35

Where do you guys typically look, and say "ah well that's probably the right one", if you find different rates, that aren't clearly based on location or whatever? I feel like, because of my experience in another industry where websites were very important, I always assume that the girls website is up to date. I know that I've probably got some cheap ass $250 rate floating around on a random website from when I was with an agency, of some obscure website that I honestly just forgot about, but my website is always the most up to date.  

Like I said though, I'm coming from an industry where if the website wasn't up to the minute, you just didn't make money. So, if you guys see $300 on P411 or TER, and $350 on her website, which one do you put more weight in?
Posted By: ismellturkey
Is there a reason why you guys ask our donation in the email after it's been posted everywhere as the same rate? My rate is on my review page and on my website. When I tell you to check my website, please don't ask again to email the donation price to confirm the $$$ in writing. It scares me when you do this because you feel like LE and then I stop communicating with you. I don't discuss donations, rates, or money over email.  
   
 Also, even if you have 2 or so old references it's not okay to talk about my services or anything sex-related over email. For all I know, you could be a hobbyist gone bad or a busted hobbyist who handed his account over for less criminal charges, who is going to turn me over to LE. If you have a lot of fairly recent references and you want to talk about role play this is fine. But any other question's about anything sex-related, well that's what TER's "yes" and "no's" next to the service offered is for. Please invest in vip membership!  
   
 This has happened enough these past 2 months that I feel it's highly important to mention it. Thanks for taking the time to read!

My_New_Alias 528 reads
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18 / 35

Which price do you think you'd get from Best Buy if they advertised a TV for $500 but listed it at $600 on their website?  It's up to the lady to keep her advertising and website consistent, and she should honor the lowest rate she's got out there.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 530 reads
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19 / 35

Most times you can make contact thru the site(s).

I review all of hers and when she is offering a discount or a lower rate thru one of them;
that is the site in which I make contact.

I generally move on if NO rate is "posted" except for BP where they rarely are.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 552 reads
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20 / 35

Posted By: ismellturkey
I've had a man show up with a print out of my rate, photo, and ad before just in case he thought I would try and screw him over. I like when guys do that, it's kinda cute haha.  
   
 But with the most recent inquiry, the man claimed to have visited my website with the rate posted and he still wanted me to type out the rate. It's the exact same rate in my C-source ad, TER review page, and website. There shouldn't be any confusion at this point, ya know?  
 

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 614 reads
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21 / 35

Exactly right. There is nothing illegal about discussing rates lol. If you discuss rates AND what you're getting for them, well, that's another story. Once a guy has been verified, I have no problem being a bit more open, though still not X rated.  

If I don't trust him at that point not to be a cop, well duh...I am not meeting him! Seems a bit stupid to let someone in the door before you know they are legit, but I digress. Though you can't ever be 100 percent sure, you should have 99.9 percent confidence that your screening that has never failed in the past won't fail you this time, or move on

keystonekid 114 Reviews 625 reads
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22 / 35

"I am responding to your ad on Eros where you are offering an incall special. Am I correct?" I don't mention the rate specifically.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 554 reads
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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 545 reads
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24 / 35

LMAO. Well, in the case of many guys who use BP, she is correct. Not only BP either, but all over. When 'some' of you see tits and ass in an ad, you don't bother reading the rest lol. That's not a put down (not directly at you anyway ha ha) but that's a man being a fkin man. I can't tell you the number of times I place ads that go exactly like this...

"Visiting Cleveland NOVEMBER 3RD-6TH, INCALL ONLY!  

No late night, no last minute, and screening is required. See website for rates, photos, and more information. I DO NOT OFFER HOURLY VISITS PERIOD...please don't ask.  

What do I get? On November 7th, "Hey London, saw you were visiting. are you still there? Can you come to my hotel for an outcall and do you offer half hours?"  Next...

So, though most of YOU here do not do this shit, it is something that most guys do ALL THE DAMN TIME, and it's tiring. You boys are experienced and you read the boards to know how things work, but many don't, and never will.

-- Modified on 10/23/2013 8:39:52 AM

Abrakadabra72 24 Reviews 533 reads
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25 / 35

Most high-end providers I have seen wait until the end of the session to get the envelope.  I don't want any misunderstandings about the donation.  That's why I always confirm it via text/email.

Honey I just want to make sure I give you the correct donation amount.

Abrakadabra72 24 Reviews 590 reads
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27 / 35

I have paid a high-end provider using paypal before.  

I brought the receipt just in case there was a disagreement of whether or not I paid.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 688 reads
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28 / 35

...and they try to pull shit on us, saying "oh, I didn't know that was the price." Yes you did. But, I email back with the onfirmation, (if I have balls that day,) "Ok, $650/ hr (I wish), please confirm (time/date/amount) and we'll be set!"

"Ok, that's fine. See you then."

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 488 reads
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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 630 reads
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30 / 35

I flat out tell them. I require a deposit of $200 for local dates, so if they are NOT members of both TER and P411 they don't get the same discount you guys would get. I say, "Please don't forget to deduct your deposit amount from the rate, so your balance will only be 800 vs. 1000." Nothing sinister or illegal about that. I in no way admitted WHAT he was paying for, or what I would do 'for the money.

Jbone34 550 reads
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31 / 35

I agree,some providers do have different rates on different sites. Thats why I always mention the ad when calling. I'm not sure how LE would waste time emailing,but I hear it happens. Also,does it say what the donations are on your site for requests?

Tabu See my TER Reviews 542 reads
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32 / 35

Unfortunately, Sexy Gymnast has a point that virtually of all of the ladies here can attest to. So while I may not have worded it as strongly as she did, I have to acknowledge that she's right.

Obviously this doesn't apply to everyone, and certainly not to you!

yours wistfully,

Tabu

SirWilliam00 16 Reviews 539 reads
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Posted By: OhCharlie

 Like I said though, I'm coming from an industry where if the website wasn't up to the minute, you just didn't make money. So, if you guys see $300 on P411 or TER, and $350 on her website, which one do you put more weight in?
If I saw a different price between the website and P411 or an ad on TER, I would assume the price on TER or P411 was more current, as lots of people don't seem to update web sites all that frequently but a post on TER or P411 had to be done pretty recently.  Also a lower price on P411 would be kind of expected because clients from there are generally less risky.
   
Also, even if you have 2 or so old references it's not okay to talk about my services or anything sex-related over email.
I totally agree with that part, I never discuss that via email.  I just assume that a provider instantly cuts off contact when that happens, though I know that's not always the case

OhCharlie See my TER Reviews 651 reads
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Well, it depends. If the coupon offering the tv for $500 is expired, it's expired. If its not you get to use it. But I would hope that either way you would check, rather than throwing $500 on the counter and running out the door because you know you saw it on the website for $600.  

I'm not saying that is your attitude, it just came across a little like those guys who short you and say "I looked at your website this morning!", when you know damn well the rate has been the same for a year and you update your website every week.  

Ive missed some smaller websites, and $50 here or there because of a recent change isn't a big deal, though it is very frustrating when I have both a pop up that says "look at my new rates!" and a "rates" page. If I posted on city vibe a year and a half ago that my rate was $250, and that's all I got in the envelope, I would be hard pressed not to blacklist him all over gods creation, even if that was my "lowest advertised price"

My_New_Alias 650 reads
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