Ladies, in regards to using hot or cold on the gentleman you are with as well as what you prefer he uses on you.......when given the choice do you prefer using something hot such as oil that becomes warmer and warmer the more you rub it in or cold such as ice chips in the areas of your choice?

Men, what do you like to use on the lady you are with? Something like the example above or ?????? and what do you like to have her use on you?

Personally, the most intense orgasm I have ever had while receiving oral sex was while she went very slow and kept a mouthful of chopped ice in her mouth while performing. It is the one and only way it is possible for me to have three orgasms while never going soft. The ice makes sure it takes much longer and at the same time intensifies the orgasm. It is difficult to explain without you experiencing it for yourself. I have never experienced it in this world, only in the real world. But if you can find a beautiful lady in this world to agree you will experience the most incredible orgasm(s) in your life.  

I have never done anything out of the ordinary with heat or ice on the giving side of things. Just the normal giving massages with creams and oils that heat up the more your give a massage and rubbing ice on her nipples while kissing and roaming her body.

I am anxious to hear thoughts from both sides, hopefully many things we can all try for ourselves.

My old civvie flng the  tattoo artist who started the wings .He did ice cube thing to me. He put it in mouth. Allowing a tiny tiny portion cube to touch my kin. With his lips wrapped around cube. Ten kissedmy entire body head to toe. I agree its amazing.I would like to say as a licensed massage therapist and cosmetologist.you dont want to put oil poured directly onto the skin. Always pour into palm hand first. Rub togethermake frictiin to warm before you touch them. I want to turn over and knock you out when you take lotion oil and just carelessly. Unmindfully splash it all over me and it is rude careless slobby way. The point is to relax. Not jump from shop of cold blobs of lotion .  Also always want to go slow and rythmic.   Would u like it some roughly fastly massage you. That doesnt fee good. And dont everever put pressureon spine.
If your going to seriuosly massage. Take a weekend intensive they are inexpensive. Pressure on spine is very serious.  
I like a massage too. But they suck at it so bad I juzt say ok ok enough tortore. Go lay down I will massage you.I d be umpressed and turned on if more hobbyist would learn how to correcty do even a ten min basic fbsm before. I know I d performm better with the relaxing and arousing effect massage has on me. I groped a male massage therapist once. I made him kiss me and I rubbed his hard on. I was like an animal . I am horny now remembering. I like risky scenerios.where it was in public spa....he was so scared to get in trouble. And so young...

I'm only surprised this question was not asked by the Troll Escalade or the Dung.

was my last visit to a massage provider. She got a large cup of hot water and put some in her mouth and took turns sucking my cock and balls. It was f#@king AMAZING!

it sounds interesting and I'd love to experiment with it.

I wonder if a combination of ice and something hot like a heated knife or other slim steel instrument could provide some very erotic results.

Just to clarify:  I'm not into branding, or anything like that.

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I think it is a fair question/scenario. It is something I have experienced and wanted to know thoughts from others. I guess it wasn't to your liking, and that is okay.

I never hear that one but would love to have it tried on me.

I am hoping to hear from the ladies on what they like done to them and what they like doing in regards to hot and cold....

"Knife play" is pretty common and has to do with trust more than pain. Nobody practicing this would ever dream of actually cutting so it is perfectly safe as long as both parties know what they are doing.

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Hot / cold is nice when you're  trying to create  varied sensations and should be introduced slowly.  Angel Exotic where did you train to be an LMT? Just curious.

I can say that altoids make for a nice tingling sensation if the hot \ cold play is not your thing.Try it all and see what works best for you.

Lol! Fair enough. Isn't the variety of experiences here amazing?

I have heard of all kinds of BDSM play- including knives and needles, nails and hammers, etc. (a few of my RL freinds are pro-dommes), but for whatever reason my mind did not go there upon reading Mr. F's post. It just went, "Yikes!" But I do keep reading about what a freak he is.

xo

A really great way of getting the effect of a knife's edge without the danger is to use a butter knife that has been in the freezer for a while. The body interprets the extreme cold as a feeling of being cut. A metrocard also works really well. The bottom needs to be blindfolded or unable to see what's going on for the mind fuck to work.  

Pussy hot
Beer cold

 
Thank you  
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