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Hookers got survive -Gotta eat.No reason to be ashamed working adult business
ashliestyles See my TER Reviews 5026 reads
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I mean I really do I'm not ashamed of who I am I love sex and I'm great at it and  I'm single I think it's better me being protected and getting paid to do what I love to do since I haven't found a man to keep up with me yet I mean don't think I'm just trying to turn you on I'm being geniue  and would love your opinions

micktoz 43 Reviews 125 reads
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2 / 53

.... hence my moral compass isn't ruled by controlling bullshit.  
I follow the rule for myself that if it is appropriate, it doesn't harm myself or others, and I enjoy it,  then it's the right thing for me.  

What's good for me doesn't have to be good for anyone else.  

Same goes for you.  Keep enjoying till you don't. Then change. That's been the way I live.

Skyfyre 107 reads
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3 / 53

It would be wrong if you do NOT love being an escort. This is a highly personalized service profession that demands the highest standard of customer service. That is because in return you are rewarded with one of the best financial earning there is.

If you do NOT love it you're best find another line of work -which is something that can be said for a lot of escort wannabes.

Bravo to you for sincerely loving being an escort.

JJLLRRKK1971 6 Reviews 97 reads
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5 / 53

I have been in the hobby for a year just about real close. I love sex as well as many other on here do. You have the right attitude because I am not ashamed or feel guilty for what I love. After so many years with civilian girls once I went to my first provider after that I was like heck with civilian girls. I have gotten treated better buy providers and even ended up in a dating one of my providers I had seen for 6 months. I was not expecting it at all and it just happened. I don't go in expecting just so everyone knows. I go in just to have fun and make it as much fun as possible and if the chemistry is just right I will repeat and after 2 more repeats is when it happened for me. I am not one to tell a provider to stop because I love girls and having sex with them. I get to have my fantasies fulfilled and have meet some really great ladies as well. You keep rocking girl the city your in or travel to. I like how honest and upfront you were with your question.

mrfisher 112 Reviews 97 reads
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6 / 53

I consider you gals to be goddesses, and I get very religious when I'm around you.

AznWhtTailHntr 15 Reviews 92 reads
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7 / 53
Seductivekelly See my TER Reviews 103 reads
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8 / 53

Im a worker who enjoys my what i do and also have a healthu attitude in relation to my job.I mean why not?Why not pursue something you enjoy?as long as your able to look yourself in the mirror and know not only are you putting your best forward but that your also happy with it.Part of our work is to talk with clients which is an important part . Clients might discuss their relationships or any problems they are experiencing. Clients tell us that they don't have time or the desire to invest in a personal relationship and/or they want some no strings attached interactions.Far as im concerned we should be

BuffetBoy 3 Reviews 134 reads
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10 / 53

I believe loving something will show and one wont feel like it is just a business transaction when one is in your presence.

Sheila Starr See my TER Reviews 87 reads
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11 / 53

Enjoy yourself, Make lots of Money, and Live , & Love, make lots of friends, xoxo

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 102 reads
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12 / 53

a real circle-jerk.  A kumbaya moment if ever I saw one.  Congrats ladies.  

 
Now, how about an entertaining cat-fight?  Who wants to start?

eroticspirit 27 Reviews 102 reads
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13 / 53

Living an unhappy, repressed life in order to satisfy some bullshit moral code or societal standard that does nothing but generate misery!! My motto---i'll let my all-time favorite passage from literature speak for me:

"The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars." (Jack Kerouac)

mrfisher 112 Reviews 118 reads
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16 / 53
JakeFromStateFarm 98 reads
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17 / 53

There is a threAD above this one (though not as blatant) which was obviously started AFTER this one -- cuz it's above it.
The other most recent threAD OP was two days ago.  I thought it was clear I am NOT talking about threAD posts, but OPs. I thought that was clear from the words I used.
In fact, I don't even consider the OP linked below to be a true threAD because it's not as blatant as this one, though that's at least debatable.  

-- Modified on 8/12/2017 8:42:32 AM

-- Modified on 8/12/2017 9:29:54 AM

eroticspirit 27 Reviews 111 reads
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18 / 53

As opposed to being a miserable teetotaling virginal prude!

Greenbacks2 30 Reviews 94 reads
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19 / 53

hear from a provider that started out loving it, and has been in the business for a decade or two. And hear how her life has been and how she feels now ?   Would she do it over ? Or take another road in life? Just asking ?

VincenzoG91 5 Reviews 101 reads
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20 / 53

The OP's first review was in 2009. Is that close enough to a decade for you?

EvaFantasy See my TER Reviews 100 reads
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21 / 53

I also love it as well, so there is nothing at all wrong with loving what you do. What we do is pretty interesting and we meet a lot of wonderful people along the way.

souls_harbor 90 reads
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22 / 53

Well, I only want to visit providers who are comfortable in the role.  While there is no way of knowing, I would hate to be the client of someone who hated the profession or hated men in general.

I don't mind if they only do it for the money and would rather retire or have a better job -- heck, many of us are wage slaves.  But that's different than actually loathing your job.

Adrienne Baptiste See my TER Reviews 79 reads
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23 / 53

This, this . . . all of this!  

I've been in the business for 7 years and I can testify that this is a lonely profession despite all the men that come around in our lives.
Posted By: AlliLux
Re: An honest response
To the OP, I am extremely happy you're happy!  
   
 I have been in the biz for about 8 years now with a year break in between.  
   
 Overall I absolutely love it. Making people happy, good income, and sex. What's not to love?  
   
 The only down side is it can be incrediably lonely at times. For me it has been close to impossible to date. I have tried but being open to a potential suitor is not an option due to societal shame etc. Hiding this part of my life from someone I am in a committed relationship isn't an option for me either and would be pretty much impossible. I honestly feel that the only way for me to date successfully would be with someone related to our hobby. Another aspect of the loneliness is having to lie to friends/family and being upable to communicate freely about our lives. What does help tremendously with this loneliness is the genuine friendships that I have built with a few clients and a few local providers. They've almost become my "hobby family".  
   
 Much love to all!  
   
 Alli

SamanthaKillington See my TER Reviews 101 reads
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24 / 53

"Every Woman's an Escort; We just give Wives the Legal Title."

sexisnatural 87 reads
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25 / 53

That is a brilliant title!! Spot-on!! (Kudos to you for coming up with that--well done!!)

russbbj 89 Reviews 113 reads
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26 / 53

Although, I am not an alcoholic, I am admittedly a drunk, I don't go to those damn meetings.

I've got to read some of Jack Kerouac's work.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 90 reads
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27 / 53

First of all I know what a threAD is. Duh.

The "blondes or brunettes" thread was started a mere 16 hours before this one. The last one before the "blondes or brunettes" was 5 hours earlier. That's at least 3 within a 24 hour period. Do you want me to go back further?

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 94 reads
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29 / 53

It was before midnight yesterday morning, therefore it was "2 days ago" in new TER. If it was before midnight this morning, it will say "yesterday."  Things were much easier when there was actual time stamps in old TER. However, there are still ways to find the time stamp.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 101 reads
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30 / 53

and check it at 12:01 am, it will say posted "yesterday."

impposter 49 Reviews 110 reads
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33 / 53

AND on the boards AND I wish TER would return to the expanded time stamps.

Posted By: perfectstorm
Re: In fact, if you post something at 11:59 pm,  
and check it at 12:01 am, it will say posted "yesterday."
We now return to your regularly scheduled program.

Oldtimemonger 107 reads
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34 / 53

Posted By: perfectstorm

  Things were much easier when there was actual time stamps in old TER. However, there are still ways to find the time stamp.
Would you mind telling us the ways to find time stamps?

Greenbacks2 30 Reviews 94 reads
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Posted By: souls_harbor
Re: only  
Well, I only want to visit providers who are comfortable in the role.  While there is no way of knowing, I would hate to be the client of someone who hated the profession or hated men in general.  
   
 I don't mind if they only do it for the money and would rather retire or have a better job -- heck, many of us are wage slaves.  But that's different than actually loathing your job.

impposter 49 Reviews 112 reads
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Posted By: Oldtimemonger

Posted By: perfectstorm
 
   Things were much easier when there was actual time stamps in old TER. However, there are still ways to find the time stamp.
Would you mind telling us the ways to find time stamps?

I've been complaining about this since the beta release. TER told me that if I hover the mouse over something -- doesn't matter what because I've tried everything and it doesn't work.  
Hover over "yesterday" and you're supposed to see the expanded time stamp.  
Or maybe it's hover over poster's name ...
Or hover over the subject line ...
Or switch mode and do the same thing again ...
Or hover yourself over the fuming crater of Mauna Loa ...
It doesn't matter what you try, because the expanded time stamps never show up.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 117 reads
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37 / 53

The only way I know how to find the time stamps is by searching posts.  
For example, if I oook at your post above that I am replying to, it says "5 hours ago." However if I go to the top of the page and hit search and type in "old" as author, I can find this post and it timestamps as "8/12/2017  12:45:41 PM"  (Hawaii time, which is set under my account)  

There is not an easy method that I know of. The hover method impposter mentioned  never worked for me either. I wish they would just bring back the timestamps.

JustMyPOV 116 reads
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38 / 53

Implants and CIM will make you a Rock Star!

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 99 reads
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impposter 49 Reviews 137 reads
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Good observation! However, I think most of the people complaining about the abbreviated (and misleading) time stamps want to be able to read the boards more efficiently and more quickly. We just don't want to check an occasional post to find out when it went up.  
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More clicks, scroll up, page back, hover hover hover (nothing happens), ... it's disruptive, distracting and slows things down.
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TER should just make expanded time stamps the default, as it was in all prior versions of the software.

2648667 31 Reviews 126 reads
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Well, yeah! I'm not gonna disagree with any of that. During beta I asked admin about time stamps. They responded with the hover bull shit. I told them it doesn't work on the browser I use. They said nothing. Of course they should just have real time stamps! I bitched about that and gave up a long time ago.

Not to get too far off topic, but yes everything you said is right. There are a myriad of ways they've made the boards more difficult. I can't fix any of them. We're talking about work arounds here. PS said he didn't know an easy way to find the time stamp. I'm looking at a post, I'm curious what time it went up, I click reply, there it is, I click back and I'm right where I was. IMHO, that's a helluva lot easier than searching up the post by author like he said he's been doing. Is it ideal? No. But I've given up on that.

ashliestyles See my TER Reviews 75 reads
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45 / 53

You are so right it does get lonely and it is impossible to date I just got bashed by my x for loving to  be a escort and running back after we split

ashliestyles See my TER Reviews 98 reads
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46 / 53

I'm a well know  provider I quit the industry for sometime but started back like a year ago read my reviews

sexisnatural 56 reads
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47 / 53

All the things you said are why I believe polyamory is the healthiest way to go. (Although that would probably kill business LOL!!)  

Seriously--why do we restrict the capacity to love intimately to just one person? Who the hell made up that rule?? (If you tell me the white bearded God in the sky then you deserve all the misery that comes with that childish, repressive view. )  

The power structures don't want you to believe in a communal, polyamorous society--because that would involve sharing and a recognition of inter-connectedness between all living things. (Which are concepts that Buddhism emphasizes.) A society that encourages community would weaken the vice-like grip of the power structure---they will do ANYTHING to hold onto that power and keep you confused and ignorant.

ElTorro 15 Reviews 111 reads
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And those who don't like it can always go fuck themselves. You don't owe an explanation to anyone. Everyone always talks about sovereignty of state, but not sovereignty of the individual. For that matter, it makes most people uncomfortable because then they can't shame you into existing only as a reflection of their thoughts and attitudes without having your own thoughts, feeling and experiences. As a MGTOW, I have rejected traditional gender roles, and now I'm just out here doing my own thing, but most recently, I have been seduced by the idea of sovereignty of the individual on a whole, which means that I've also rejected government and religion in favor of anarchism and secularism. I still recognize that the state exists, I just don't recognize them as my lord and master, and instead have proclaimed my complete ownership of self, thus acting independently within the state. But the real question here is; why do you feel the need to defend your career choice? Is someone you know trying to make you feel ashamed? If so, tell them it's not their place to disagree because it's not their life, and maybe it wouldn't bother them so much if they would just mind their fucking business. Most of us on both sides of this hobby are here as a means of feeling empowered and exercising our rights to self-sovereignty. Men want to get laid without getting married, and women want to get paid without getting married, and we should be free to do so without meddlesome relatives, friends and religious zealots trying to make us feel guilty about doing so. You should also arm yourself with the power of secrecy, the less people who knows is the less interference you're likely to get.

jenniferxj6 See my TER Reviews 106 reads
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49 / 53

Nice!  I am also love being a escort.

Alex_Lombardi See my TER Reviews 97 reads
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51 / 53

I still love the biz after all this time Ms. Ashlie. What's not to love? I make my own hours, crave sex while enjoying our great nation. Enough said...

Cheers...

herbtcat 6 Reviews 92 reads
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I think it was Will Rogers who said:  

"Love what you do and you'll never work a day in your life."  

You love sex.  You love getting paid to spend time with clients.  

Sounds like you are living the American Dream.  Congratulations.

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