OK so this was the second time I saw this provider the first time everything went great. she stayed well past the apointed time with out my request or fee I tipped accordingly I usually like to put the donation in a book cover and hand it to the provider as I excuse myself so she can count it or what ever. My thinking is If LE ever shows up having money in a book is common to hide cash having c notes on the bathroom vanity is not as common.
On our second date (out call again) I put the donation in the same place. all goes well she stays a little over again I tip her walk her to the car all smiles and all exchanged a few texts with her on her drive home all is good.
Next day I am checking out of the room and I check the little information book where I had placed both donations and the donation is still there????? I call her before I hit the road but she doesn't pick up, so I leave a message and try to call a few more times.
When she calls me back I tell her she forgot but she says she tried to tell me???? WTF Oh well I want to get the money to here but I am a few hundred miles away and running behind I am stressed out and this is adding to it it takes a few days of texts to get her to open a paypal account and now she wants an additional hour for the time we went over I say yes I am fine with that I am not but hey for three hundred bucks it I cam make her happy whatever its not like she didn't earn it,she had spent the time with me the first time and the second time. In the future I will be a clock watcher to stay with in my budget.
My job is so stress filled as it is Girls please how could you explain leaving with out your donation? and what would you do if the guy said tuff crap you forgot it not my problem? why should I have to stress out?
If she already has a greendot account it is easy. If not, Tell her to go to CVS/Walgreens/Walmart, and buy a greendot card. They are about 4.95, and you can load it with any amount up to 500. She can just put ten bucks on it, just so she has the account. Then she registers the card online. Meanwhile you go to CVS/Walgreens/WalMart and buy a greendot moneypak (the moneypak is different than the regular card.) Put the amount that you owe her on it. If it is over 500 get two moneypaks. Scratch off the numbers on the card and text her the numbers. She uses that to load her greendot card. It is fast, simple, and remains anonymous.
To avoid this kind of stuff in the future, why dont you pay like everyone else? What is with slipping it into some information book?? Unless you are gifting her a real book and put the money in there,and she is taking the book with her, it makes no sense to slip the money into some hotel book and expect her to find it! Most ladies actually expect payment upfront also, not at the end of the session. Stick it in an envelope (or no envelope--that has been discussed to death) and leave it on the counter or table!
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I work in the field and can not leave location so it was not possible to green dot. So pay pal seemed like a good option to me. Thanks for the tips on how to pay. A lot of providers put on their website how they would like the donation handled.
I don't think LE will ever show up but if they ever did I don't want to answer the question what is this $400 on the counter for.
I see that green dot would be better as Pay Pal does not have the anonymity.
Greendot is used by many providers.
As for LE seeing money on a counter, since when is it illegal to have money on a counter? (and if LE is in your room you are busted anyway!)
You say most providers say on their website how they want the donation handled. That is true, and most of them say leave it on the counter ... at the beginning of the session! I have never seen one that said to leave it in an information book!
If you insist on putting it in a book, then buy her a damn book that she might want to read and hand her the book.
Plus you didn't request the extra hour anyway.
And I wouldn't use paypal either. You are leaving a paper trail that way, and I think she can even get your real name, address, and phone number that way.
If you want to send money anonymously, maybe just send it western union from your nearest corner store, and where it asks you your name on the form, write Santa Clause or something.
It seems odd to me that a woman like that wouldn't take the money, then claim that she tried to tell you, and then demand more of it from you after the fact. Normal people don't do this. Nigerian scammers do this. I don't know what the scam is, but it certainly looks like some kind of scam to me.
You beat me to the punch...
Also to further add, PayPal will suspend your account if they smell that you are sending the money for illegal activity. If your account gets suspended, any money that is in the system will be confiscated by PayPal. Never ever use PayPal
You are right and I see your point I just didn't want to end up on some do not see black list from hell and wonder why no one would see me I was not trying so hard to get her the money because I am a saint. If pay pal suspends my account fuckum my dog will open one I just hope he doesn't use it to go hunting.
burst your bubble..Any provider can put anyone on BL for any reason..Most sensible girls know not to read too much into that crap.
Of course there are some legitimate stalkers and dangerous people that need to be reported, but I saw this guy being reported to BL because he was fat and it was too hard for the hooker to service him.. If you piss her off some other way, she will put you on a few BLs or someone else will..
Just don't do anything stupid like stalking and shit like that, and as long as you got decent references, most girls will see you..
For those who don't... "Fuck 'em" They weren't worth your time anyway and were probably a horrible lay...
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Good to know thanks.
I live in a remote town no big citys in my State so when at home i am left to ris the BP girls
after the of them in a row flake out on getting back to you you start to wonder if that one that knew you didn' like her posted some BS on a black list I saw a girl that was not a pleasure to say the least after five min of her begging me to cum I quit and left with out a pop it was so not fun she started into me as I was leaving how rude it was. another time paid for two girls
no kissing no touching pussy and after on pop it they where done I said that i wanted the other girl she said you don't get to fuck us both. I should get MSOG I paid for two girls for two hours she said that doesn't mean you get to fuck us for two hours. I figured they would put me on a black list in a heat beat so I got out of there instead of telling them what was really on my mind.
You guys in the big cities have know Idea how lucky you are.
Honestly, black lists don't mean shit. You are using an online alias, a nick name, and a Trac phone anyway, aren't you? What are they going to do, warn everybody not to see Mickey Mouse who stays in this particular hotel room when he is here on business?
Just do the right thing and send her what you owe her, I don't know about the extra hour that was not requested though. Honestly, having someone request that afterwards is more sleazy than being upsold before hand.
I mean if an auto mechanic quotes you $400 to fix your brakes and you make a verbal contract for him to do exactly that, then you pick up your car and he suddenly wants $800 because he was kicking your tires for an extended time, you would at least argue with him about the bill, wouldn't you? If he wants to put you on his own black list, then fuck him anyway.
Being a saint is one thing, having people walk all over you is another thing.
to the girl, BL doesn't mean shit..
One thing the OP doesn't say is whether she has his real info or not?
For the same reason, I never give out my real name....
Nobody knows my real name either. Okay, maybe one girl does, but that is only because I happen to also know her outside the "hobby" because she does my work advertising. I always knew what she did on the side 
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to the girl, BL doesn't mean shit..
One thing the OP doesn't say is whether she has his real info or not?
For the same reason, I never give out my real name....
They ask for ID of the sender and receiver, and he will have to know the provider's real name. (which most providers understandably do not give out)
Western Union also has expensive service charges.
To top that all off the OP claims he "can not leave his location" to buy a moneypak, so obviously he can't go to a WU either.
I'm even persona non grata with them. (It's a long story.)
you previously posting something about impounding money and legal action. :
just to get my money back.
And it still cost me about $500 for the lawyer to get it the deal done.
The reason they impounded the money folks is that they claimed it was being sent for illegal purposes viz. prostitution!
Who.....me?
so I can use your ruling to get my money back if they take it.
There was a few hours when I was driving to location I could have stopped at a wallmart and used western union she did not want to after I got to location I was there for a week.in the middle of no where. since I used pay pal we now both know each others real names bad deal but she has nothing to worry about. I may be too transparent for this kind of shit.
most things worth doing involve some risk. however it seems logical that those involved in one form of unlawful activity
may be involved in others. That being said I Like to think they are not.
I wouldn't look where you are placing the donation either and it appears to be putting her in awkward situation. She stated she told you but, she was probably doing it in such a manner her communication is not getting thru to you.
You kind of made the donation into an Easter egg hunt. You say you didn't notice it was still there until checking out, just as she walked out you could have checked.
OK but I had seen her before and had the donation in the book and handed it to here and said here look at this and excused my self to the rest room so she could count it not in front of me. I just took it for granted that she would remember I won't
make the same mistake again. so I am getting that it is part my fault but wow I still can't believe she left with ouut it.
Putting it in the book is just a very odd thing to do. Completely your fault. Your reasoning behind it is also completely off.
She didn't remember one of your idiosyncratic gestures.
She's the one that left and didnt take the donation when she left she's the one that neglected to leave on time that's on her that's herend of story overstaying doesn't mean that you agreed to more time that's on her
Move on after the fact too many fish in the sea recast your net.
Just put the money in an envelope or hand it to her or leave it out where she can't miss it. LE isn't going to bust down your door or even come into the room unless it's a sting and if it's a sting you are going down town no matter where the cash is.
Do the green dot thing as others have suggested but don't give her a dime over the original donation. After that I suggest you move on. Your relationship with this particular provider is already more complicated than it should be.
You are creating your own stress here.
Seriously????
WHO puts the money IN A BOOK? That is the stupidest thing I've ever heard of. On top of that, it is an asshole move toward the provider. Put the money on a table, in an envelope if she prefers, in plain site; walk away and don't say a word.
You 'work in the field'... 'LE can trace'... 'I gave it to her in a book before' ... 'LE this, LE that, la la la' . You are full of excuses and bad rationale. She tried to tell you and you didn't get it??? There is your clue, sparky. You are living inside your head way too much.
Stop thinking, listen to what others are telling you. Make it right, and don't be stupid again.
Peace, Love, Dope
when you said "who the hell puts money in a book"
lol
It reminded me of a very well known high dollar provider from the Bay Area who was arrested a few years ago.
When they searched her house, they found a law book with $2500 in it. She had tossed it in the garbage or something.
I could not wrap my head around that back then, and still can not! I mean who does that???
lol
