Well now I am completely kicking myself for even trying to get back into this lifestyle. Here I am asking for advice on this gorgeous new girl because of a few bad reviews and it happens with a different girl instead!!!
I was too wary of trying the new girl so I decided to call a provider that I saw right before I left the scene. We had talked several times since then and also had lunch once - but never a session. I was in the mood so I called her up and she was free. She said I can pick her up and we'll go from there...She came to the car and asked if she could get $30 to take back in to her friend. I only had $23 on me so I gave it to her without hesitation. About 10 minutes later a girl comes out and asks if I'm waiting for "X". She then apologizes and says that "X" took off out the back door. Matter of fact, her exact words were, "that b*tch ran out the back door with my diabetes needles!". Ummm, ok, I'm outta here!
I'm just still amazed at not only the irony of this, but at the fact that she ran with $23 when she would've had much more within 2 hours! This shit's silly.
Bad reviews that is...
I've had an eye on a few providers for a little bit now; one in particular. She's had 6 reviews so far. The first 3 were good, as was the 5th. However, the 4th and 6th reviews were bad. And by bad I mean she took the money and ran. I understand that YMMV as far as performance goes, but this is different. I guess my question is how many bad reviews does it take to cancel out multiple good ones?
everyone has their own level of tolerance for disappointment. What about you?
that's enough for me to move on. Were those 2 reviews by veterans? If you just have to see this escort, just keep an eye on her reviews, you might want to pm some of the reviewers to find out what's going on. Inconsistancy is one thing, straight out rob is another.
Maybe provide us with a link to her reviews?
My opinion? More than one bad review per page of review links is too many. If she only has 6 reviews, then she already has more than one bad review and it would be time for me to move on.
BTW, by page I mean she has a FULL PAGE of reviews to include the ONE bad one for that page.
Is the glass half full or half empty.
I would think the odds were not great that there would much in the glass to drink from.
put on a great acting role, to get the first 3 good ones, to draw men in and then start showing her true colors. I can understand one bad review, some people just DO NOT click, but 3 in a row? That is a pattern.
I would not even bother unless you start seeing a huge turn around in reviews by respected reviewers/hobbyists.
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after the first 3 good ones, there are 2 bad reviews with a good one in the middle. i'm not a vip so i can't IM the reviewers to clarify the stories. i plan on keepin an eye on the reviews just in case she pissed someone off and they gave a false review...twice. she is brand new to the biz she says (less than 3 months) and is the most attractive provider i've seen an ad for in this area, so she may have a hater or two. but me still being pretty new to this, i wanted to get opinions on how to approach it. or how some of you may have handled something similar.
Fork over the $ and get yourself VIP.
Dear Hiddenhills:
That is why long ago, I proposed the idea of local hobbyist societies and associations. I put the idea out there because just like the woman have sites where they can see bad dates on we can have sites that would have information on woman that have a propensity to bilk and abscond money from customers with out rendering a service. After we would develop these vehicles of information to keep us aware, then others would be more well equipped to address this and eventually she will be boycotted from the hobby by all self respecting and informed hobbyist. In fact they should have a saying with respect to research that would say "know your hoe before you spend your dough". That would save people a lot of time and heartache with cozen woman who could and will eventually end up dead. Also their should be another saying as well,"get an education before paying for ejaculation". This is critical to keep larcenous woman from prospering to far.
That is why long ago, I proposed the idea of local hobbyist societies and associations. I put the idea out there because just like the woman have sites where they can see bad dates on we can have sites that would have information on woman that have a propensity to bilk and abscond money from customers with out rendering a service. After we would develop these vehicles of information to keep us aware, then others would be more well equipped to address this and eventually she will be boycotted from the hobby by all self respecting and informed hobbyist. In fact they should have a saying with respect to research that would say "know your hoe before you spend your dough". That would save people a lot of time and heartache with cozen woman who could and will eventually end up dead. Also their should be another saying as well,"get an education before paying for ejaculation". This is critical to keep larcenous woman from prospering to far.
If she had 5 good reviews, and one review claiming she dashed, then it would be reasonable to suspect the rip off review may be an attempt by someone (maybe a guy who didn't pass screening, or a jealous provider) to hurt her business. But two reviews claiming she ripped them off deserves to be taken more seriously. Two different men making the same claim provides far more validity than one lone report of a ripoff among numerous positive reviews. I'd say the other responses have it right - give her a pass.
At the very least, I'd suggest keeping her in your favorites, and continue to watch new reviews. If she accumulates more positive reviews, with no further claims of rip off, then she may be worth taking a chance on.
So you might want to check them out on tineye.
Realizing that every pairing is unique, SCAMS are not acceptable under ANY circumstances. If you have more experience you might be able to prevent a grab & run... but it is risky. You can not lawfully detain someone against their will, taking you money & refusing to perform an illegal act doesn't give you any grounds. ($$$ is not worth a kidnapping charge.)
I will not necessarily pass on a provider with one low review PER PAGE of acceptable reviews. I will read a low review as well as the others with great care when sellecting a new partner. You really NEED VIP at this stage to read complete reviews. You need to check the reviewing history of those few reviewers. How many reviews have each of them done (more than 10 say, makes them experienced reviewers)
VIP costs less than even ONE spoiled date. You don't need VIP continously. I pick out a "to do list" which covers me for a couple of months.
Given the limited information you have provided, I'd pass. I might keep her on my list to check further when I research next time.
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Well now I am completely kicking myself for even trying to get back into this lifestyle. Here I am asking for advice on this gorgeous new girl because of a few bad reviews and it happens with a different girl instead!!!
I was too wary of trying the new girl so I decided to call a provider that I saw right before I left the scene. We had talked several times since then and also had lunch once - but never a session. I was in the mood so I called her up and she was free. She said I can pick her up and we'll go from there...She came to the car and asked if she could get $30 to take back in to her friend. I only had $23 on me so I gave it to her without hesitation. About 10 minutes later a girl comes out and asks if I'm waiting for "X". She then apologizes and says that "X" took off out the back door. Matter of fact, her exact words were, "that b*tch ran out the back door with my diabetes needles!". Ummm, ok, I'm outta here!
I'm just still amazed at not only the irony of this, but at the fact that she ran with $23 when she would've had much more within 2 hours! This shit's silly.
That situation could have actually ended much, MUCH worse! It is time to completely re-assess how you are selecting prospective ladies. Getting robbed by girls who are desperate to buy a few bags of heroin is something most rational guys would do everything in their power to avoid. This site can be a valuable resource- but only if you actually use it!
Good luck.
Ah, I get it now. You are shopping at the bottom of the barrel, and baffled as to why things aren't working out as you'd like.