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princedd 8 Reviews 2430 reads
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1 / 40
Providers seeing their periods

Hey ladies and gents! Perhaps some of you have had this experience. It happened to me twice. Booked providers ahead of time(a day prior) and on the morning of the appt they texted that they felt they were having their period and for me to reschedule. But then a few hours later or almost immediately the same providers are posting! I personally do not believe this and think this is a common lie  used by providers who are looking for a legitimate reason to back out of an appt. But my question is what could trigger this kind of action? In my case it just happened out of the blue.
Am I being too hard on the providers? You know when we were growing up that was what girls used to say when they didn't want to see you intimately. Thoughts please.

FatVern 835 reads
posted
2 / 40
I wonder if any men have gotten so fed up with women on their period

... that they switched to men?

Posted By: princedd
Hey ladies and gents! Perhaps some of you have had this experience. It happened to me twice. Booked providers ahead of time(a day prior) and on the morning of the appt they texted that they felt they were having their period and for me to reschedule. But then a few hours later or almost immediately the same providers are posting! I personally do not believe this and think this is a common lie  used by providers who are looking for a legitimate reason to back out of an appt. But my question is what could trigger this kind of action? In my case it just happened out of the blue.  
 Am I being too hard on the providers? You know when we were growing up that was what girls used to say when they didn't want to see you intimately. Thoughts please.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 445 reads
posted
3 / 40
no ooooh... Drink MILF eom


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1256849 25 Reviews 679 reads
posted
4 / 40
Period OR not...

Whether like they started their period or not you will not know. Nothing you can do about it.

I understand that sometimes ladies cancel day of or last minute because they realize they b just can't go through with an appointment.  It happens.  Despite ant amount of money they stand to earn or not earn, this business or work is hard at times.  In the moment they need to back out.

does it suck? Yes, you never know who has a legitimate reason for backing out and who is just flaking out.

If they seem to have a great reputation,  give them another chance. If they have a sketchy reputation or history of cancelling, you may want to just move on.

that being said, I had one if my favs announce, while she was in full CG mode that she thought she just started her period. We were fully covered of course, but what was I to do then?  

 
Posted By: princedd
Hey ladies and gents! Perhaps some of you have had this experience. It happened to me twice. Booked providers ahead of time(a day prior) and on the morning of the appt they texted that they felt they were having their period and for me to reschedule. But then a few hours later or almost immediately the same providers are posting! I personally do not believe this and think this is a common lie  used by providers who are looking for a legitimate reason to back out of an appt. But my question is what could trigger this kind of action? In my case it just happened out of the blue.  
 Am I being too hard on the providers? You know when we were growing up that was what girls used to say when they didn't want to see you intimately. Thoughts please.

NoYellowEnvelope 513 reads
posted
5 / 40
Not sure I follow you...

Are you implying that a woman on her period should be so incapacitated that she's unable to post on the boards?  Just what are you trying to say?

I've seen many posts over time complaining that providers don't warn clients about it being that time of month, and what happened is the menu is limited.  Would you rather that a provider go ahead with their appointment with you and you find out when you get there that she has her period?

FatVern 442 reads
posted
6 / 40
There should be a disclaimer on the ladies website.

On the front page of course.  

Saying that she reserves the right to cancel last minute.

GaGambler 543 reads
posted
7 / 40
If your last question was a serious one, the answer is simple

and yes it's happened to me where a woman started her flow mid, or just before coitus.  

Just lay down a towel, that's what I do. A little blood won't hurt you. It will ruin a set of sheets, and the mattress pad underneath it however without taking the precaution of a towel. Make sure you take a long shower afterwards to get your junk clean or you will end up ruing a pair of underwear to boot. lol

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 485 reads
posted
8 / 40
Professionals should give clients heads up on female monthly.

Posted By: princedd
Hey ladies and gents! Perhaps some of you have had this experience. It happened to me twice. Booked providers ahead of time(a day prior) and on the morning of the appt they texted that they felt they were having their period and for me to reschedule. But then a few hours later or almost immediately the same providers are posting! I personally do not believe this and think this is a common lie  used by providers who are looking for a legitimate reason to back out of an appt. But my question is what could trigger this kind of action? In my case it just happened out of the blue.  
 Am I being too hard on the providers? You know when we were growing up that was what girls used to say when they didn't want to see you intimately. Thoughts please.
I'm glad I don't have monthly no more.Shower fun is fun during monthly..Professionals should give clients heads up when scheduling pay session. Merry christmas!
Related Link: http://twitter.com/888fancy

1736687 15 Reviews 397 reads
posted
9 / 40
They can advertise..

That's for future appointments.. I don't get your problem.. I have seen a few girls during their time of the month.. One was by accident.. she said she thought she was done.. but wasn't (yeah right.. I was covered so no biggie and she really smelled that day so no DATY anyway).. the other with disclosure.. what a mess.. small head.. with regrets..

Sidney Starr See my TER Reviews 626 reads
posted
10 / 40
We can still post, walk, talk and even drive while on our periods!

Lol sorry just teasing you.  When you said they were posting, meaning posting for work on that very same day? Or maybe trying to book future appointments? Periods can last 3-7 days and on that first day it can be awful!! I won't go into detail but sometimes the date our monthly visitor comes can change and surprise us! It's not always exact same time every month.  

  I don't work on mine, especially not on the first day.

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lopaw 29 Reviews 479 reads
posted
11 / 40
Periods often happen unexpectedly....

...I got mine very unexpectedly on the morning of a very anticipated playdate. I didn't mention it until I got to the providers hotel. Then I told her about it and gave her the full donation and said maybe we could just fool around a bit or cuddle, but not have her perform any DATY. She insisted on giving me a full and wild session anyway. That's why she's my ATF :)

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 476 reads
posted
12 / 40
No biggie

Other than taking DATY off the table, everything else can proceed with a little extra caution to prevent flinging it around the room. It's never stopped me in civil life. Hasn't yet been an issue in this endeavor.

1192967 45 Reviews 319 reads
posted
13 / 40
Hmmmmmmm...

Posted By: NoYellowEnvelope
Are you implying that a woman on her period should be so incapacitated that she's unable to post on the boards?  Just what are you trying to say?  
   
I was wondering the same thing. Because she is on her period she can't type?

mrfisher 115 Reviews 471 reads
posted
14 / 40
I have had the same experience a few times...

Each time I told the gal it was not a problem for me because I enjoy lots of other things besides intercourse, and each time they were caught off-guard mumbling something about not feeling right about it.

More than likely I lost out to some better deal that they had, or perhaps they had an opportunity to do something more interesting, etc.

We'll never know for sure.

Part of this life that we call the hobby.  You have to roll with the punches

mrfisher 115 Reviews 275 reads
posted
15 / 40
I presume he meant that she was advertising for immediate availability. eom


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Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 530 reads
posted
16 / 40
Paying customers should be able make decison to about dealing with peroid

Posted By: princedd
Hey ladies and gents! Perhaps some of you have had this experience. It happened to me twice. Booked providers ahead of time(a day prior) and on the morning of the appt they texted that they felt they were having their period and for me to reschedule. But then a few hours later or almost immediately the same providers are posting! I personally do not believe this and think this is a common lie  used by providers who are looking for a legitimate reason to back out of an appt. But my question is what could trigger this kind of action? In my case it just happened out of the blue.  
 Am I being too hard on the providers? You know when we were growing up that was what girls used to say when they didn't want to see you intimately.  Professionals wouldn't have business without customers. Professionals shouldn't be only ones making decision.

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Related Link: http://twitter.com/888fancy

Dr. joe 32 Reviews 539 reads
posted
17 / 40
If I had made arrangements to see a provider,

reserved three hours, say, and was looking forward to it.
And then woke up the morning of the "big day" with fever-chills-etc; I would, of course, cancel.  
I know a period is not an illness, but for someone who --like me-- loves DATY, it interferes with a date as much as a case of the flu.
 

Posted By: princedd
Hey ladies and gents! Perhaps some of you have had this experience. It happened to me twice. Booked providers ahead of time(a day prior) and on the morning of the appt they texted that they felt they were having their period and for me to reschedule. But then a few hours later or almost immediately the same providers are posting! I personally do not believe this and think this is a common lie  used by providers who are looking for a legitimate reason to back out of an appt. But my question is what could trigger this kind of action? In my case it just happened out of the blue.  
 Am I being too hard on the providers? You know when we were growing up that was what girls used to say when they didn't want to see you intimately. Thoughts please.

rembrnad0284 12 Reviews 452 reads
posted
18 / 40
My new approach to cancellations

Periods. Airport delays. Food poisoning the night before. I'm just not into it tonight... I have heard them all.
At first it made me quite frustrated as spare time does not come easily to me.  

Then one day it struck me: trying to figure out why a provider cancels is like trying to broker peace in the Middle East - it ain't gonna happen.  

I've had enough kind feedback over time to know it's likely not anything about me that's causing this cancellation - esp with someone I haven't seen... so I just look at cancellations now as if someone gave me a totally unexpected gift of between $400 and $1000 I take that cash and treat myself to something that will last a whole lot longer than a couple of O's. I should start naming them after the provider lol: the XXX laptop; the YYY suit...

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 491 reads
posted
19 / 40
She maybe got a better offer, or a regular called her last minute.

And then her "booker" posted the ad without the lady knowing...that's my take.

donbecker54 19 Reviews 439 reads
posted
20 / 40
+1 -eom-



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ROGM 687 reads
posted
21 / 40
Provider's Monthly Cycle.

It's happened to me. She tells me she can't do Full Service. But a BJ is fine. I went and saw her. If I'm in the mood for Full Service and a provider is on her monthly cycle I'll call another one I know. Not all providers are on their monthly cycle at the same time.

702touch See my TER Reviews 448 reads
posted
22 / 40
Re: Professionals should give clients heads up on female monthly.

totally agree...no reason why not to tell ahead of time...unless you have a medical problem that makes it totally unpredictable...but for the most of us we can guesstimate...i have an app on my phone that keeps track and can tell me a predictable time for my next cycle...that is the first calendar i look at before my availability calendar

LadyCazzKaria 435 reads
posted
23 / 40
providers on their period

For the first time recently I had to back out of an appointment with a client last minute because of my period- Normally I don't, because my services are a little "alternative" & I don't do full service, but I provide something separate from my usual for this client and I cum so hard with this guy I was worried the menstrual cup would bust out.

   FYI, btw: most providers use a menstrual cup & just provide services anyways, and the client rarely knows.

   So....either these girls don't use a cup, or, like in my personal case, liked you enough that they were worried about making a mess.

   It is an honest concern you have, especially about the posting right after, I wouldn't believe it either if I was you.

   But what a lot of clients don't realize, is (at least in my experience) is you have to continually post wether you are working or not to stay relevant and in peoples minds. When I post today, I don't expect to get a legitimate client from today (it is rare) as I have a work schedule and 24hr notice and I screen, plus just because a client contacts me doesn't mean I will see him, if I don't think we are compatible it's a no go.

   So when I post today, it is for a client for next week.  

   Some girls are like me, but not all. Maybe those girls lied, it is possible, but in my experience most providers work on their period anyways, and will try not to mention it (it breaks the fantasy) unless they have to
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FatVern 521 reads
posted
24 / 40
There's an app for that!

Is there a postpone cycle button you can push, if you need to do something that day?

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 382 reads
posted
25 / 40
That's what I was confused about too.

Seems to me like posting ads or contributing to discussion boards would be a good way to kill some time when you're unable to work. Unless she's advertising immediate availability, I don't really understand what the OP's problem is.  

Posted By: NoYellowEnvelope
Are you implying that a woman on her period should be so incapacitated that she's unable to post on the boards?  Just what are you trying to say?  
   
 I've seen many posts over time complaining that providers don't warn clients about it being that time of month, and what happened is the menu is limited.  Would you rather that a provider go ahead with their appointment with you and you find out when you get there that she has her period?

eastside70 47 Reviews 444 reads
posted
26 / 40
If I'm going to DATY, I definitely want to know. I've had it happen ...

twice on me with same provider. First time was after FIV. She was my second provider ever, so it killed the mood for me even though it had happen to me many times in civie life. The second time was after CFS and noticed it as I was cleaning up in the bathroom. It wasn't a lot so I didn't mention it to her (didn't want to embarrass her) and we continued the visit with another great round. I just didn't do DATY. I mentioned it to her in a text afterwards. She apologized and said she thought it was close.  I told her things happen.

I'd rather be told upfront, so that we can reschedule. If it happens during the visit, I'd play it by ear.

wrps07 405 reads
posted
27 / 40
What is the price range of the providers doing this ?

Where they on BP ?  

Your lucky that they had the decency to cancel on you. It is possible that they were seeing guys who don't mind seeing providers on their periods.

ponyman49 15 Reviews 464 reads
posted
28 / 40
Re: Period OR not...

Just be thankful she wasn't sitting on your face with your tongue deep in her when she started

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 417 reads
posted
29 / 40
I'd have to say that was the best comeback of 2016. E


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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 595 reads
posted
30 / 40
Most of the work is the advertising. Probably just getting admin out of the way while they're off

I advertise and post but most of my dates are scheduled 3 weeks to months in advance. Every so often it's a same week appointment.  

It's a monthly thing that can last 3-7 days. They most likely are telling you the truth. OR they may really have gas, diarrhea, or cramps.  

When I'm cramping I don't go out. I can barely walk if I don't pop a few Advil before the pain starts.  

If it's too stressful for you, and it'll get to you, just move on.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 278 reads
posted
31 / 40
I wouldn't dwell on it There are ...

several reasons she cancels on you after being screened, many  "legitimate". It would depend on how hot I was for her or how she responded in my subsequent attempt to book with her. I find reliable escorts appreciate your understanding more than you may realize. Most don't turn away good business without a good reason.  

Even if you're getting blown off, it's almost impossible to prove. I too dislikeirresponsibility. I don't think you mention seeing her before or being a regular, but that might provide some context to speculate.

If it's difficult to get out to see a provider (married/SO) the more important it might be to have a backup plan. Agencies help a lot
in this regard as they often have another lady available to help.  

I'd wager more than one ATF was discovered this way.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 326 reads
posted
32 / 40
And never never never ...

rinse off the rubber for future use. That's a bit unsafe.

RachaelLee See my TER Reviews 477 reads
posted
33 / 40
Re:

I've never had to cancel a date before due to my period, but I can understand why some providers feel the need to.... Between being cranky, bloating, cramping, and well bleeding (duh! lol), you really aren't in a position to entertain another person.

mongo19621954 23 Reviews 386 reads
posted
34 / 40
I take it at face value.

Really and truly.    

It is just so much simpler to assume that she's being straight with me, send her a nice email/text that I regret that it didn't work out this time and....  book someone else.  It's just not that hard.  Move on..

princedd 8 Reviews 574 reads
posted
35 / 40
Re: Not sure I follow you...

I meant posting an ad of being available.

princedd 8 Reviews 331 reads
posted
36 / 40
Re: I presume he meant that she was advertising for immediate availability. eom

thank you mrfisher!!

princedd 8 Reviews 455 reads
posted
37 / 40
Re: They can advertise..

I don't really have a problem with cancelling the appointment but I just wanted to know what folks think about it. I just thought that girls should be able to gestimate and schedule with that time period.

princedd 8 Reviews 459 reads
posted
38 / 40
THANKS MUCH GUYS!!

Thanks everyone for your contributions and thoughts. What great perspectives you've given me. I appreciate it.
Happy holidays!

NoYellowEnvelope 499 reads
posted
39 / 40
You could have said so in the first place...

... as it would have made your OP a lot clearer.  

If you're sure she was advertising for IMMEDIATE availability, then the mystery is, why cancel a confirmed appointment and take a chance on getting another one?  It just doesn't make sense.  I suspect we're not getting the full story here.

breannabreeze See my TER Reviews 565 reads
posted
40 / 40
Re: Professionals should give clients heads up on female monthly.

My periods are unpredictable so I stopped trying to time them a long time ago.  There are ways to work on your period without the client knowing and I've never had any issues.

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