As with anything in life there is a positive and negative aspect however it all depends on the woman herself. Now for the guy in question who got a peer in her inner world he was a boyfriend who not only caught his girlfriend cheating on him but also probably became insecure with her hidden profession so he of course would judge it from a negative aspect. He is not a woman nor is he a companion therefore he has no clue as to what it can do for one's social, psychological, sexual or physical health. All he can do is judge from a boyfriend point of view so my advise would be for him to go wash dishes and cleanse his negative burden.
After meeting many different women over the years, I have been witness to the long term effects on many of them, and I believe it has more to do with who she truly is when she begins, the type of foundation she has within herself, that determines some of it.
I have met with women who have commited suicide who could not take the constant isolation that this business is for many, but who is to say that they would have not done so in any other occupation?
I have seen warm, lovely, giving women, turn to cold hard stone because they lost who they were along the way from always having to be someone else for everyone else but never themselves, then add to it the abuse many of these ladies endure emotionally with reviews and jabs, and the outcome is only a sad one.
I have seen women with real screws loose who could only do this for work because in the real world they would be deemed off their ever lovin' rocker by the rest of the world, who thrive financially in this world and are held high in the ranks of the best because they are already missing a few screws and they eat up the accolades of adoration, feeding their narcisstic views of themselves.
I have met women who have been around for years, and who have thrived emotionally from it, as well as financially because they have a sense of balance of what is real and what is not in life. For the most part, I have found that those are the women who are not board addicts, and not relying solely on the constant compliments and ego strokes from complete strangers, but more so on their real life relationships that they have with friends and family and outside interest.
I will say that unless a woman is planning on doing this long term, as a career that it has higher consequneces for those that are only doing it for a few years, as they must find ways to explain lapse in employment, or what they were doing during that time to potential mates.
I read something somewhere once where a woman explained that she charges what she charges because basically she was being paid for the fact that she chose this life instead of one of marriage, that since she was not married she was exchanging the financial security of marriage with the financial security of her own earnings in this hobby, and the personal cost of having a so called normal life. I would have to tend to agree to a point. The cost is high, but many find a way in which they can balance it and are quite happy with their choices, but I do think, in the end, more ladies than not, find that the cost for being an escort came at to high of a price.
