So in a recent session, we were chatting about reviews and some of the more popular cliche phrases which are often used.  I mentioned a common closing statement is "treat her right, guys" to which he replied, "you know what the means, right?"  And, well... no, I don't.  

and in NO case was I trying to imply you can pay for BB.

I never took that cliche to mean anything other then to just "Treat her nice". In my opinion I always thought of it as a kinda corny thing to say, like duh, no shit...lol
You mentioning it now is the first time I've heard that.
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Ok, I'm just kidding about the White Knight reference, hold the hate-mail and flame-throwers.

I have NEVER heard it used as a code for BBFS.

What is there to understand?
“Treat her nice “ means just that— for some of you so you can understand it simply means “ Don’t be an asshole”
“ Deb is a great provider - treat her right!”should mean nothing more
To many have left because of the actions of a few .

And I have written more than a few in my day across multiple sites. In fact, I tend to discount reviews where guys say that because I take it to mean he has an agenda and the review is not objective, but largely biased.  Like someone else said, he likes the girl and is doing a little shilling.  

Lol. I always interpreted it as a fake (by the provider) or shill/WK review.

I agree with everything cdl just said.

Interesting to read all the interpretations of the phrase, "Treat her right".  I take it as nothing other than be polite. But, after a while, its like guys preaching on this board about various things, like being clean. If you're on this board, in general, you know how to get good service; clean, little cologne if any, mouthwash, etc. Saying anything else is just preaching to the choir. Guys who are going to be assholes, well, will still be asshold and not care what you write on this board or say in person. So, it is a useless tagline.  

I get annoyed more than anything when I read "treat her right" on the reviews.  

For me, it never meant anything to do with BBFS.  At worst it was just a throw away phrase that didn’t mean much, and at best it was an acknowledgement that the reviewer had a good time, liked the provider and was suggesting to other mongers to be nice to the girl rather than act callous or treat her poorly because doing so might encourage her to leave the hobby.

I never associated it with BBFS. I take it to mean that if you (as a client) are respectful, clean, considerate, etc. then you will get to see the lady at her best and have the best time possible with her.

IMO has always meant show up clean, freshly showered, not drunk/high, not being an asshole, not overstaying your time, not haggling her price, etc.  Especially for a touring provider, it can be the difference between her choosing to come back to the area in the future.  

It allows any idiot to interpret them in any fashion they choose.

bbfs think your on client is making a big leap judgement thinking it means that.
Not a fan of the treat her right at the end of the reviews I feel like if a gent books a provider he should be respectful and treat her the way he would want to be treated. I know that doesn't always happen and some people are assholes.
He could be missing out on some lovely ladies  all because of a reviewer she had no control over decided to write treat her right.
Just my .02

I agree 💯. I never took it to mean that bbfs or anything else was on the menu. Rather, I always took it to mean that the reviewer was endorsing the lady as a good provider and a nice person.

...of it as any kind of quid pro quo, not even YMMV.  It just seems to be a quaint way for a lot of reviewers to wrap up a review.  

I always took “treat her right” to mean just that, that the hobbyist wants other hobbyists to treat the model “right” aka respectfully. I think it’s a corny phrase to include in a review, and one that’s redundant to boot, but otherwise it’s just a harmless piece of fluff wording as far as I know.  

that someone seems to think that you will mistreat her unless HE tells you not to?  Its the height of arrogance, IMO.

Too many people find everything offensive. I’m here to fuck, not to get offended over a corny phrase.

I think it is well intentioned, but can see how it comes across badly. Kind of like 'man-splaining'. It's also not aimed at the 'nice guys'. It is aimed at the assholes. And as mentioned before the assholes will just ignore it. Just giving you my perspective CDL, not saying it is right or wrong. It is a perspective and how a phrase like that can have different interpretations. It can be seen as condescending or polite, depending on the person giving and receiving it.

Probably the best statement on this thread.

I’ve use that phrase to signal to mongers that they should be on their best behavior because this particular provider is not one that is taking advantage of people and is a genuinely good person. The reality is that some providers are not there with the best of intentions, treat this endeavor as a ATM without putting any effort into providing good service, and deserve to be treated the way they treat others like an object. In other words ”treat her nice” is something you reserve for the highest quality providers so that she does not become jaded due to bad behavior from clients.
But to answer Debra‘s question, it is not a signal for BBFS.  

Nothing more that I can add or differs from what has been posted above.

... I never really put that much thought into it.  To me it's just like a million platitudes and cliches people use everyday.

I have both observed and had direct experiences where “treat her well” has backfired. Because of this, I try to avoid it.

Agree 💯

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.  "Treat her right" can certainly mean whatever you want it to mean, like obtaining extra services by giving extra tips.  But the way I interpret it is pretty literal.  It means: "Treat her with human decency, and respect her rules.  She's great at what she does, so don't do anything to make her bitter and jaded.  We don't want to lose a skilled member of our community."

Offensive is probably an automatic stand in for insulting.   We can take offense at being insulted, but we don't have to.  There are people on this very forum who's sole purpose in life seems to be to find ways to insult other members.  But they are such ridiculous creatures, it is hard to actually be offended.

Not only in this business, but in all aspects of life, some folks will draw a conclusion with which almost NO ONE agrees.... but they're still certain their opinion is the correct one.   This guys seems to be one of those.  

Always thought it just meant the guy really liked the girl.

be intended to mean "wash your hands when you use the bathroom because you're too stupid to figure it out for yourself."  

Well, yes, but in this case treating a woman right is always right and correct. I was trying to think of a good truism. It is implied that we are going to treat women right.

To me when someone say "Treat her right!" That means do not treat the female/Sex Worker like a piece of shit "Trash".  If the people who are seeking sex from those who are know as "Sex Workers", then Sex Workers wouldn't be here. We (The Sex Workers are just as much of a person as anyone else. That's what it means.  

Yeah, guys like that are really going to be swayed by some random comment at the end of a review about how good a fuck she is.  

I mean, if the words of another hobbyist aren't going to sway him, what would??  

You are disputing the effectiveness of the message, but not necessarily its intent.

If you wanna talk about intent, let me ask you the following:

You're asking me to read minds.  In fact this whole thread is speculation on what someone meant.
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I am merely saying that ineffectiveness of advice does not itself determine intent.

Fair, but my point is redundancy of advice makes it so it's irrelevant.