It's like opening a present.

Most gals are OK with that, but a few don't like it.  You can always ask.

I also like it when they undress me.

One of the great things about the hobby world is that both parties know exactly what they want, and so usually, after some brief preliminaries, they get right down to business.  In my experience, this includes the provider immediately dropping her robe to reveal a gorgeous body in its full, undraped glory, or greeting me when I come out of the bathroom buck naked on the bed.

While I appreciate their readiness to be available to me in this way, sometimes I would like to move a little more slowly, including being able to undress her myself--and her me.  To me, it's incredibly erotic to simulate the real-world experience of slowing working your way around first base, second base, third base, and, finally, to home plate!

So, how can I suggest this in a diplomatic way that doesn't break the mood of the fantasy we are playing out?  Any thoughts?

I like to go Get laid and leave.  I don't want to talk to them about life (that's why I don't want a girl friend).  I want them to get naked and lets FUCK!

Undressing her reminds me of high school where you had to work at it.  Alias used just because they piss you off.

I'm there to fuck, not have a fashion show, or striptease. If I want a striptease I'll got to a strip club.

Bring some Flowers or a little gift, wrap up, with a card.
I make me feel  special setting the moment for romance sexy rhythms , if you get my drift.
my girlfriend GB feels the same way about it.

I love what you said... It's   fun for some of us ladies too you know.  The sex will happen

 Humans---  we want to see, even more what we can't see. We use our imgination, right?

When I was in a relationship, yrs ago. My X would say to me " You don't need sexy cloths, Hmmmm?
He loved to undress me after being out on the town, or after a nice dinner, show.

I remember he enjoyed taking off my cloths.  As I did the same!
It was so neat when he would  take off my bra with just 2 fingers.

Back to the subject>
Being an H.H.P
I get my share of naked bodies on the massage table.

What really turns me on, is a Well dressed man.  Slacks and a nice button down Shirt!  It allows me to enjoy him also...  I love watching a man's look, as I'm taking off his shirt ( there is something sexy )about this here.

If you haven't been with a romantic provider,  Or a lady that has done this to you.  I think you have been cheating yourself  from this experience ;o(

Another reason, I enjoy the business men that  Visit San Diego on business...

have fun guys!
Besos
Vivianna Love

You're just not that attractive or don't have th body for the provider to be wanting to strip your clothes off slowly...... HINT HINT

That can mean alot of things in a mans mind,  Silly

Females & men should  allow the seduction, and passion to take place.   To Be the one to assist the other person with their cloths.... See what lies ahead.
Never know, until you try.

I don't know much.  What i do know, is, how to be grateful. As I get to share my passion.


Best of luck people
oxo
Vivianna Love

That was funn!    But I think  you missed his point.... Look up the word Suduction.

Ok, so we know, why your here.  Good to know.

Not all men think the way you do... hehehe, while Im sure some love what you said...

What makes certain providers,  perfect for some men ;o)

Thank God my reviews- attract gents.  

That you like to take it slow

There are times when I want to take it slow and unwrap the package, so to speak.

I haved tried "you look incredible, leave that on for a while." Or "Oh, leave those on!" in the case of of a sexy pair of panties.

Or I have been very deliberate about slipping the straps of a woman's bra down over her arms, while making sure to keep her breasts covered by the cups.

In other words, try to combine being deliberate about your intentions with being natural and in the moment.

Excellent post, HZ.  Thanks for taking my question seriously. -- og