I know I'm going out on a limb here, but I tend to be more worried about the girl's deranged/jealous boyfriend or husband busting in the door after following the girl to the incall.  Some people tend to shoot, then ask questions these days.

it's time to find a different hobby.

Are you also afraid to leave your home?

Do you wear rubber gloves when putting out the garbage?

Is the fictional TV character "Monk" your hero?

  Sorry if I seem like a smart-ass but GET A GRIP!

     Cm.

...unless your holding a lightning rod on a mountain top during a thunder boomer.

Although seeing the coming attraction of that new disaster flick on global warming heading our way...YIPES...especially,the sight of that tidal wave over the Statue of liberty...scarey!

I read somewhere that NASA was going to issue some sort of announcement to ease the general publics concern about the possibility of this ever happening.

Ask her if she does outcall? It might cost you a little extra, but then you won't have the fear of someone coming home, as you mentioned.

Hugs,
Ciara

The only time anything close to this has happened to me was with the ex of a "civilian" I was dating.  I would guess that this happens much more in normal dating situations than with providers.

most of the girls I know who are dating or are married are honest with their SO.
~CarleeofArizona

I'm the only person with a key to my incall apartment, and in the worst case scenerio, a jealous stalker client could only pound on the (locked) door.

But if a gentleman wanted complete peace of mind, he could always get a hotel room and we would make it outcall--more costly, but it may be worth every cent.

I was just posing a possibility and wanted to hear opinions on it.  The thought of it does cross my mind, but I'm not that worried about it.

...experience.  I had a wonderful provider cancel 30' before our appt, in tears, saying that someone that had a restraining order has assaulted her.  Yep, old boyfriend.  When we met a few days later, I was spooked, thinking that he was doing surveillence, just waiting to pounce, etc.  She reassured me by saying he was locked up (as if that were reassuring!) and didn't know where the incall was....I was still worried.  Even more alarmed when I saw her bruises!  Anyway, she was wonderful, and calming, and exciting in the right way....but I did finish faster and didn't linger!  

Seattle does have a coupla crazed boyfriends out there....one that brought down my favorite agency, and one that's evidently harassing a FBSM babe.  Are there other examples out there?

there is some relationship to science, which is more than you can say for a lot of Hollywood films. See link.

There aren't a lot of reviews available yet since the film won't open until May 28 but here is a link to the Rotten Tomatoes page which will contain links to reviews when they become available ( http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/TheDayAfterTomorrow-1132625/preview.php ). Among a bunch of other stuff the page does contain a link to the New York Times article regarding NASA and the film.

Unless the reviews are terrible (which I don't expect) I will certainly go see it.


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I believe if you could you'll find that the risk of this is much, much higher, about two or three orders of magnitude higher.

Compare this against marriage, and the risk of coming and catching your ostensibly monogamous SO in the act.  Very common that is.  Or even better, though less prevalent, have her plan with newguy to bump you off.

It's impossible for a guy to get to SO status with a provider if he has jealousy issues to begin with.  The only way the situation you describe can happen is if has had a aneurism or drug problem that has made a Jekyll  -Hyde personality change in him, or if she's deceiving him, pretending to be monogamous, while clandestinely cheating on him by being a provider.  Both can happen.  Both are more rare than a lightning strike or a winning lottery ticket.  And the chances that you're going to be the guy to get the unlucky draw when such a thing blows up lowers the risk still further.        

I suggest you quit looking for the hand of natural justice to give the hobby it's comeuppance.  There is none.  The only reason why society sanctions and favors SO relationships while it condems provider/client ones is that society is insane.

/Zin

That's right a jealous ex-girlfriend can be a pretty scary experience.
I was in this predicament once. A client I have know for a while invited me to his house.
While I was having fun with him in the bedroom. I didn't know what happened,  it happened --so fast. Someone came running into the bedroom while we were having fun and and threw the lamp by the bed right on to the floor than ran out. My client ran to see who this was, turns out it was his ex-girlfriend who still had the key. But could you imagine if she had a gun??.