Not all of the ladies who post on TER have VIP Membership.  So when you send us a Private Mail message, we are not able to read it.

with that "see my reviews" next to your name, you are able to recieve PMS. go check your mail. Thats what I think anyway. maybe I'm wrong.

If you have a TER profile you have limited VIP access. You can view full reviews of yourself, send and receive mail.

What you cannot do is post using an alias, see full reviews of other providers or full reviews of clients / potential clients.

I think anyway!

We've been like that for a while now - and you really should pay to be here- its only 20 a month

-- Modified on 4/20/2008 5:55:37 AM

Being a provider and not investing in a VIP membership is like a mechanic not investing in some basic tools.

Now I am able to access my messages. My apologies! Not sure why I was not able to in the past.  

You are right, I should become a member again and will do so immediately.

Thanks everyone for your response!  

And Mr Fisher............my birthday is not until the Fourth of July!

Elizabeth, Relax Babe.  The idiot is the person who has a question and doesn't bother to ask.  You, on the other hand, asked and received replies from several nice ladies who are willing to help.  You can PM me if you'd like.  Have a great day!

It did not used to be this way.  I'm not sure exactly when it changed....but it was not particularly well announced.

~ Naiya

indented in response to Ciara.

But what the hey, it's only two and a half months away, so happy birthday to you too.  8o)

I get messages to my email that I have a private message.
I try to retrive them and sadly cannot.
Then again I don't have any reviews here either so, what is a girl to do?

Madeline

You are totally right!

I myself just figured this out and bought the VIP access membership because of this issue.

Thanks for bringing this up

If you don't have any reviews, thus can't connect your "handle" to your review page then you don't have access to the mail system. If you are getting messages that you have mail and want to read it, I suggest buying a membership. For $20 a month you can do everything on this site including getting/sending mail, reading the entire review of any provider, and use aliases.

Once you get a review, then you can email admin and ask that you be connected to your review page which will give you limited membership. That includes access to the mail system, and reading the full review of your own reviews.

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