How was your day?
There are times when this job sucks...all day long I'm sorry to hear that, anything else? My 10:00am was a massive pain the ass Ouch. Anything else? My 2:00 pm tried to screw me out of some extra time. On no, umm I'm kind of horny and you look hot. Sorry, I have a headache and am going to lay down. Welcome to marriageIf you were single (and younger) with a decent income and knew about this hobby, would you still consider marriage?
And single providers, with all the gents willing to shell out $$$ for your services, would you still consider marriage
..... when I was 18-21 in Australia. Still got married, twice. Now I'm 56 and single and this is perfect for now.
So, I guess, yes I still got married knowing all about this.
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but it didn't stop me from getting married, but only once.
I am about your age, soon to be 58, and marriage looks VERY unlikely to happen to me ever again. Maybe when death is right around the corner and I want to cheat the tax man by marrying some young thing that I wanted to leave my money to, but that's the only scenario where I see myself getting married again.
If I met the right provider heck yeah I would marry her. I think I already met her with the current provider I'm seeing.
I will give you small credit for no longer calling her "My Provider"
Actually, I should give the board credit as you only quit calling her that due to being laughed at with every post you made.
Fun topic, I would totally marry one of my clients (one in particular comes to mind of course)
To answer your question yes.
And single providers, with all the gents willing to shell out $$$ for your services, would you still consider marriage?
And single providers, with all the gents willing to shell out $$$ for your services, would you still consider marriage?
I was heavy into the hobby about 15 years ago and really fell hard a few years apart,for two lovely ladies who were both pro w switches but by choice more sub than domme. If I were unattached at the tim I would have let nature take its course and see where is went. I could imagine myself married to one of them.
In NY I had a beautiful domme friend with benefits, I was married and so was she. If I had been single, I would have allowed ny self to open wider and would have certainly considered marrying her and she was unhappy enough that that night have happened.
I would not have stayed single because I like being married, I love having kids, etc.
Even now, I do meet providers who --if I were single-- I would see more often without fear of really falling for one of them understandng that none of them might fall for me (I easily handle rejection) but if the winds were right......
but I'd look into the whole pre-nup thing a bit more next time.
Alimony sucketh
I've done the traditional marriage.
My opinion: Happy marriage doesn't last.
I would like some different "Marriage"options to choose from please.
Like,,, the two year Marriage Plan or a five year Marriage Plan.
I think I would pick the Marriage where
you live in one house
and I live in another house,,,, down the street.
My opinion: Happy marriage doesn't last.
I would like some different "Marriage"options to choose from please.
Like,,, the two year Marriage Plan or a five year Marriage Plan.
I think I would pick the Marriage where
you live in one house
and I live in another house,,,, down the street.
That will be hard to find, but not impossible. I would certainly consider retiring for the right person, but ideally I would like to continue working and be in a long-term relationship.
How was your day?
There are times when this job sucks...all day long
I'm sorry to hear that, anything else?
My 10:00am was a massive pain the ass
Ouch. Anything else?
My 2:00 pm tried to screw me out of some extra time.
On no, umm I'm kind of horny and you look hot.
Sorry, I have a headache and am going to lay down.
Welcome to marriage
Others make GREAT GF's. I dated a Thai girl, she worked at an agency and by just about every definition she was "high volume" We spent about six nights a week together, we had separate residences, but spent "almost" every night together, and I can't think of a single time where she told me she was too tired to fuck. She ALWAYS had plenty of gas in the tank left over for me. It often made my wonder what would happen if she were to "retire" I am afraid she might have fucked me to death. lol
Personally, I have discovered that the more often I have sex, the more often I WANT sex. So if I were to be super low-volume, I really wouldn't have much of a sex drive outside of my clients at all.
But since I've been touring so much lately, and seeing clients almost daily, I find myself still wanting more when my work-day is done.
Good thing my toys are very packable! ![]()
Cure for Marriage,
Like they need to find a Cure for Cancer.
Both of them are shrouded in Lies,
to keep the "Machine" going.
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Is to provide for children. Marriage has nothing much to do with recreational sex. Folks who have been married a while will tell you this. So to me the answer is straightforward. If you want children get married. If not - don't.
P4P is just an outlet for recreational sex and has zero to do with marriage one way or the other.
There was a time in my life when I wanted children; so I got married. Wonderful kids. Wouldn't have traded it for anything. I don't want any more children so I won't get married again.
And single providers, with all the gents willing to shell out $$$ for your services, would you still consider marriage?
Any good attorney can rig a contract to get the kids taken care of.
What about all those children that are born out of wedlock?
The thing is
Marriage dictates what is appropriate and what is not.
People that do the "right thing" and get married to show how "good" they are
can then sit back and sling shit at the people that do the "wrong thing".
Marriage gives the OK to go ahead and judge people
The OP question assumed that there is a purpose in marriage. I meant that the only reason to get married in the first place was children. Certainly one can replicate the private obligations of marriage legally without calling it marriage. But as the LGBT community pointed out, there are a lot of benefits to marriage that are public and can't be replicated.
I am not going to judge or shame anyone. You certainly don't need a partner or partners to raise children successfully. Marriage is an answer but it is not the only answer.
What about all those children that are born out of wedlock?
The thing is
Marriage dictates what is appropriate and what is not.
People that do the "right thing" and get married to show how "good" they are
can then sit back and sling shit at the people that do the "wrong thing".
Marriage gives the OK to go ahead and judge people.
As has been stated by a few folks, marriage is about things other than sex; a partner, companionship, someone to be by your side regardless of the circumstances. So yeah, I'd definitely still consider marriage.
I guess I got lucky with mine. She's my bud, lover, pal and partner in crime. She is also very "liberal" regarding certain activities.
We had a 30 year vow renewal at Desire, lifestyle resort, in Mexico. Our internet ordained preacher, friend, closed with, "you may all share the bride." There were six couples in attendance. She had been with all six guys and two of the ladies. Someone laughed, "she already has." Had a post nuptial group grope later on.
The funny part is she could do much better on the open market if she wanted to. On her 50th I offered a painless exit path and she said she was, "looking forward to burying my mangey ass."
She rolls her eyes around the occasional p2p I do.
If you get a good one, marriage can be wonderful. So to answer the question, yes I would.
And single providers, with all the gents willing to shell out $$$ for your services, would you still consider marriage?
...what they want when it comes to love? I married twice only to find myself chasing an improbable dream in both marriages. For me, love's quest led to persistent unhappiness and I cannot think of any reason to step back up to the plate with the count 0-2. But I do indeed find myself happier than ever falling in love one hour at a time.
Most guys set their standards too high, they expect to find a happy woman ...
That is, if I were at all in the mind-frame to have a LTR these days.
I've had relationships with a few men who were cool with my providing and it was wonderful. Most, though, either expect or hope that the provider will give this up for them.
Now, if I found something else I truly enjoyed as much, that suited me as perfectly as this, AND was equal or greater income?? Sure, I'd retire in a heartbeat.
But giving up ANYTHING solely for someone else can really lead to resentments and negativity down the road.
we had a wonderful 25 yrs together before the big C took her from me. I could never find another like her. rather than trying to and failing, i decided to try p4p. so far so good !!! but never say never to anything
Start out with a probationary contract at 2 years, then you can renew your contract at the end of the 5 years with renewed vows, update the prenup, etc. of course, if no kids were involved, I'd totally be up for that.
Just like in a job. A "lifer" contract could possibly cause one or the other to coast - unless, of course, both have serious character and personal drive to be the best SO they can be no matter what.
But then - why even marry?
I do sometimes wonder who will be around when I'm old. Marriage does not guarantee that, however. We have one widow in my family who can attest to that, and plenty of divorced folks nobody thought would split up.
I have a lot of questions on marriage. I've seen them work, and I've seen some people stay in marriages and remain completely miserable, living with someone they hate.
I think it can work though, and can be really great - would I? I never knew I'd become an escort ever - in my life. So I can't say I wouldn't change my mind or go in another direction if someone was able to convince me / soften me to the point where I surrender.
There is, however, no sunset, is there...
Would love to get married and have kids still, but time is slipping by fast. Haven't hobbied for a year and a half, as I do have a beautiful girlfriend who surpases anything I would have thought possible before I had my little 3 year-or-so hobbying period in my life. The hobby gave me confidence with women and helped me to realize what I really want to get out of life. It certainly broke me out of rut. Not sure how my story will end, but as of now, I'm at least happy to be on a path that might lead to marriage, rather than just playing around (although yeah, I met some great ladies and had a lot of fun).
all i wanted at that time of my life was the picket fence...a norman rockwell family life.