I'm single..and during special occasions or the holidays, it gets a little tough always being alone. I can't help but think that throughout the year..I'm always there to help someone else feel loved and desired. But what happens when I'm the person that needs it? Guess I'm a little sappy because of Christmas..but would you be upset if a provider contacted you because she was lonely?  
I think I need to find a provider of my own..anyone interested?? Lol!

seen? You can post an ad on your regional board indicating a New Year's special. As attractive as you are, you should have guys beating down your door to get to spend time with you.

I've had one of my girls text me out of the blue that she had time if I was interested, which kind of made me feel a bit put off...but if one of my regular girls texted me that she was lonely on a holiday I'd be more likely to at least give her a call for a talk if not set a session up...nobody should be lonely at Christmas...

You're a young, hot, well reviewed, large breasted Latina.

... and it doesn't even have to be for sex, going out for some drinks, or sipping wine by the fire place can be satisfying enough. Too bad I'm so darn far away! Otherwise I'd be there for you.

Surprisingly enough..I'm actually quite shy and im scared that if I asked someone to spend time with me, that they'd say no. Idk I guess this is a personal problem.. But honestly speaking..the majority of you have families and it's obvious you can't spend that time away from them. Wish a few of you would make yourselves available for a lonely girl lol i love what i do and for the people i see consistently...it's not always about money! I know that last sentence was sacrilegious lmao but there's gotta be some kind caring there...oh boy I'm sooo sappy!!

I have the impression that some providers, especially those in their 20's, buy a dog or cat because they often feel lonely.  As a guy who has asthma, I advise against having a pet.  You will never know how many guys won't see you because they have allergies.

once she offers a special to certain people, it is weird to raise the fee back up...

i met him on sa, we cuddle and watch games of thrones and sometimes play chess...he has ED,so we don't have sex really...in return he helps with running my small civie business...

I have a hard time believing that a girl like yourself doesn't have a harem of loyal followers beating down your door and staking out your pad waiting for an opportunity.

If we go on a date and have fun behind closed doors.
Then she is always welcomed to contact me.
It's nothing wrong with saying hello etc.
If both parties are okay with it.
 

Hi there

providing is a job.  savannah (i'm guessing) doesn't necessarily want to work, it's the opposite, she wants someone to give her attention.  and laying back and saying "yeah back suck it slow" isn't necessarily the kind of attention to relieve loneliness.

Volunteering is a good suggestion as giving back can help with some of the loneliness.  If you do have regular(s), maybe set-up a "date" i.e. getting drinks, hanging out, etc.  It is up to you and your regular(s) whether this is on the clock or not.  Given that this "hobby" is more of a business relationship, it can make it difficult to get past that aspect sometimes and just hang-out without expectations.  

Quite the contrary...

...for the kind words and encouragement.. It was nice to speak to you and to take a break from my 10th episode of Melrose Place. Hopefully ill meet someone special during my time off.. Happy Holiday loves!

Come over here and do not listen advices that you need hang out with J on discounts  
There are a lot of people who can be your friends and with no sex involved  

Sometimes, all I need is someone to hold me, and tell me everything is going to be alright.

I am single again but met up with an old civie friend this year.
I kind of like being alone but knew she didn't.

Develop hobbies and interests and let them be your friends for the times no one is there for you.  

What it is like to be a beautiful provider whose job is to make others feel loved if she does not have her own support services.  Three decades or so ago I had real friendships with a number of dominant providers.  I met them when one became a patient and the others followed. I was in the midst of a difficult divorce and in need of friends.  Each of them had different approaches.  Of the five, two eventually happily married and are still happily married, one died very young of heart disease and I have lost track of the others.  At the time tho, they had each other, they allowed me and one other male (also not a client) into the group and at least three of them stayed in touch with family.  
The thing that interested me was that they touched clients in the most intimate ways and I was just tying to understand how I was to handle the fact that I was doing that too (at the time, I had many younger dying patients---now I have much older patients, many of whom end up dying) and trying to separate that from my own life and they seemed to have it all under control.  
I am convinced my fascination, and most people's fascination with providers is not about the sex  but about the intimacy you have with a large group of people, many of whom are strangers

I would not have a problem with a provider contacting me if she is lonely. I am single

I honestly don't see anyone turning you down if you needed or wanted to spend some quality time with them,especially the single fellas.

If you want to continue last nights conversation give me a call you got my number. I'm taking the day so I'm around.  I'm worried about you and I care. Zak

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We've never met but I volunteer to be the guy you can hang out with if you want. Oh, and I'm decent and a typical nice guy. I never have but wouldn't mind if a provider contacted me to hang out as I'm single

I think you hookers who sell "time for money" and not sex are partly to blame.

I am away from my family and look for a lady who is available on holidays.  They are limited.  I had an excellent encounter with a new lady on Christmas day.  Make your availability known and I'm sure you'll have ample opportunities to share your holidays.

instead of location, location, location it's communication, communication, communication...

if you're sappy so am i.  i figure, that at least with recurring visits, there has to be a little something there besides the need for $$ and sex, gotta be a real human connection on some level or other, no matter how slight.

i mentioned gigolo because i have been using the providers as actual companions as of late...that is to say, sure we have sexy fun times, but then we also have a lot of just down time talking and sharing stories and being affectionate... usually not "off the clock" but "over the clock"... time way over the allotted time, which is spent just being human beings connecting.  maybe i just lucked out meeting a few girls in a row that don't mind spending time with a lonely guy.  or maybe i'm so fricking great in bed they are all falling in love with me... but probably it's just a need to connect, and i dont' abuse their graciousness.

Some people get it and others don't

It's the most normal and natural thing in life to want to be around people who make us feel better. We've complicated life beyond belief to where this should even be a question; albeit a courageous one, albeit an unnecessarily courageous one. I'm not sure at what point our humanity and what now passes for acceptable social behavior passed each other, going in opposite directions, but that was a sad sad day for sure.  

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I enjoy her company, period...even if there were no sex involved.  Of course, it would be OTC/non-donation time, but at least she knows that I care about her enough to provide her with some company if she needs it.  It's never happened yet, although she's called me on the phone a couple times to get things off her chest.  I enjoyed talking with her.