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Disappointing session but not provider's fault - how would you rate?
Scaramanga 2312 reads
posted
1 / 17

Booked a session in advance.  Was looking forward to it.  Very hot girl.

So at the session, it must have been that I was tired from the night before and/or my state of mind as I may have been overthinking things, but it was an extremely off night for me to the point where I just couldn't perform well.  And it was no way the fault of the provider.  She was a sweet, hot, sexy girl and if I was on the top of my game, I would have ravished her.   She did everything right.   It was one of the more disappointing sessions but I take 100% of the blame.

I'm debating whether I should do a review or not.  I don't want to give her a low score on my account because she did everything right.  Should I give her a score on what I perceived it would have been if it wasn't an "off" night for me?

GaGambler 648 reads
posted
2 / 17

I am sure she already has several good or great reviews or you most likely would not have booked with her in the first place.

If you score her on "what might have been" you aren't really being honest, or adding anything of value to the review database as "what might have been" never happened.

I think you should go by your first instinct and simply skip writing a review at all.

BTW, do you plan on trying it with her again? If so, you could simply wait until after the next session to write your review.

MarkusKetterman 150 Reviews 601 reads
posted
4 / 17

because no matter how you try to give her credit some others may wonder if there was something about her that put you off or wonder if they would not do well with her either - it just does not reflect well on her from a business standpoint, even though you and I both know that  sometimes you are just not as up for it as you want to be, or sometimes it's really just a lack of chemistry that is neither party's fault.  Best to leave it lay, so to speak......

PhilAnderz 22 Reviews 662 reads
posted
5 / 17

I've had my share of such disappointments and have nevertheless posted reviews about them —including two with two of the most adorable ladies I've ever met anywhere, under any circumstances.

Note that the number rating system, for all its flaws, does have guidelines that, if followed, make it possible to review a provider fairly under the circumstances.

First, a provider's appearance is not at all dependent on one's own performance.

Second, note that the guidelines for assigning a numerical value to a provider's performance are fairly specific and, again, don't necessarily depend on one's own performance.

Third, the "Juicy Details" section allows for plenty of commentary on the session.  The OP's posting outlines what his review could state in that section.  All that he would need to do to comply with the rules for the that portion of a review would be to add some description of specific acts.

And presumably there were some acts.  "She did everything right," he writes.

Recall the old National Enquirer catchphrase: "Enquiring minds want to know."  Take it from there.

Finally, when I read a review, I'm interested in learning about the provider and the experience of her in as many ways as possible in order to help decide if I want to see her.  This doesn't require a heroic, Henry Milleresque essay boasting of some other guy's own feats in the bedroom.  I want to be able to insert myself, so to speak, in the picture

Dr Who revived 639 reads
posted
6 / 17

I just ask..

What would Rod do?

Seems like the answer is obvious.
Posted By: GaGambler
I am sure she already has several good or great reviews or you most likely would not have booked with her in the first place.

If you score her on "what might have been" you aren't really being honest, or adding anything of value to the review database as "what might have been" never happened.

I think you should go by your first instinct and simply skip writing a review at all.  

BTW, do you plan on trying it with her again? If so, you could simply wait until after the next session to write your review.

hammerhead896 50 Reviews 541 reads
posted
7 / 17

I thought it unfair to do so if I could not write a unbiased one which would unfairly drop the girls service. score.

nevertell 484 reads
posted
8 / 17

why make your negative experience hers?

2labman 26 Reviews 452 reads
posted
9 / 17
hiddenhills 143 Reviews 533 reads
posted
10 / 17

What's the point. You pay for VIP, correct ?

Posted By: Scaramanga
Booked a session in advance.  Was looking forward to it.  Very hot girl.  
   
 So at the session, it must have been that I was tired from the night before and/or my state of mind as I may have been overthinking things, but it was an extremely off night for me to the point where I just couldn't perform well.  And it was no way the fault of the provider.  She was a sweet, hot, sexy girl and if I was on the top of my game, I would have ravished her.   She did everything right.   It was one of the more disappointing sessions but I take 100% of the blame.  
   
 I'm debating whether I should do a review or not.  I don't want to give her a low score on my account because she did everything right.  Should I give her a score on what I perceived it would have been if it wasn't an "off" night for me?

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 518 reads
posted
11 / 17

Is he at the Nats game?

Posted By: ChgoCPA
I just ask..  
   
 What would Rod do?  
   
 Seems like the answer is obvious.  
   
Posted By: GaGambler
I am sure she already has several good or great reviews or you most likely would not have booked with her in the first place.  
   
 If you score her on "what might have been" you aren't really being honest, or adding anything of value to the review database as "what might have been" never happened.  
   
 I think you should go by your first instinct and simply skip writing a review at all.  
   
 BTW, do you plan on trying it with her again? If so, you could simply wait until after the next session to write your review.

washdc1 60 Reviews 423 reads
posted
12 / 17

I don't review every provider I see.  In addition, if a down experience is not her fault at all (i.e. body is not my type, we don't click at all even though she tries), I don't let my bad turn into her bad.  On the other hand, if her 'faults' are something she has control over, and many others would be put off  then  think about letting her know at the end of the session or writing the review

bonordonor 399 reads
posted
13 / 17
Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 451 reads
posted
14 / 17
perfectstorm 19 Reviews 570 reads
posted
15 / 17

Because there is no other reason to write THAT review. I write reviews to benefit the lady and/or to inform fellow hobbyists of good or bad experiences. Yours does neither.  
Pay for your VIP or write some problem reports. (or find another girl to review, or see this one again)

Scaramanga 478 reads
posted
16 / 17

... and the minimal douchery.  Borderline minimal.

I decided not to write the review.  If I did, it would have been a 10/8.  !0 for appearance because she could have been a model.  8 for performance because of what it could have been.  The review wouldn't have dropped her score but yeah, it would have raised more questions and would not add true value to the reviews.  I'm already paying for VIP so I'm not doing it for free days.  Honestly I would've wrote the review strictly for her benefit because, like I said, she did everything right and was a sweetheart about it.  No other ulterior motive.   She is someone I would try again if she'd have me back, and if so, the next review would be more value because I know I'd be back on my game..

Heavenly_Sky 402 reads
posted
17 / 17

Posted By: GaGambler
I am sure she already has several good or great reviews or you most likely would not have booked with her in the first place.

If you score her on "what might have been" you aren't really being honest, or adding anything of value to the review database as "what might have been" never happened.

I think you should go by your first instinct and simply skip writing a review at all.  

BTW, do you plan on trying it with her again? If so, you could simply wait until after the next session to write your review.
Just don't write a review at all.

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