do you consider DATY just something guys do when they can't get it up??
In a service related transaction, isn't the guy the one to be serviced and the provider the one to do the servicing?
And if the guy turns it around and tries to "service" the lady who has seen more cocks than a Purdue Hen, isn't it really just another pathetic attempt by the guy to pay to do something he can't do in real life?
Just a few questions.
Trains leavin' the station on this one. Fo sho!
1. No
2. yes and no...no if part of his "servicing" is to service the lady
3. No
Do you actually have sexual relations with live females? And are they all paid sessions? And what do you really think about women...lord knows I have my assumptions but instead I will ask you out right and get the truth, should you decide to answer the question.
site; so, obviously, I was talking about paid sessions. I absolutely love women and respect them enough to not try to include them in the very fantasy that they are selling.
I just think it is a trip when guys think that they are giving these ladies something they haven't seen or had about a thousand times before.
See your point and to some degree, I agree. I don't think the guys are going in thinking that they are going to show a lady the best time she's ever had...he may just want her to at least seem(if not for real) that she is enjoying herself.
1) Yeah- you made her "O" by DATY because she figured you spent 25 minutes down there and she can now wake up and get to the next part of the act, and
2) yep- she loves it doggy so she doesn't have to look at you. Reverse cowgirl is also her 2nd favorite- guess why?
Damn...why don't you spend the rest of your time in shower (no sex) or "talking".
Go pound away and have fun.
Right on!!! Too many guys think they are porn stars able to make every provider cum. I guess it's an ego boost for them to think they got her to cum. For the GFE, it's what you're paying for! I personally don't give a shit, as I'm a two cup guy and I can't waste time, trying to make a provider cum.
2) yep- she loves it doggy so she doesn't have to look at you. Reverse cowgirl is also her 2nd favorite- guess why?
Damn...why don't you spend the rest of your time in shower (no sex) or "talking".
Go pound away and have fun.
There you go...if that's your thing have at it. Different strokes as the saying goes..
2) yep- she loves it doggy so she doesn't have to look at you. Reverse cowgirl is also her 2nd favorite- guess why?
Damn...why don't you spend the rest of your time in shower (no sex) or "talking".
Go pound away and have fun.
Lately it is a very big YES. I like a woman who knows what she likes and doesn't back down. Thanks for keeping it honest. I do think for the most part we would be compatible but I think at mid to upper thirties I am a bit younger than you like and I doubt you would see me after I blasted you that one day. I wouldn't know how to contact you or where you work anyway. Too bad as you seem to offer what I am looking for in many of my dates. Keep on keeping it real and saying how you feel.
I'd see you. You blasted me? I don't recall....don't seem to remember that....
And I will scoed...
Its not your money he's paying to f/k her with.
Its not your dick he's using to f/k her with either.
So why the fuck do you give a fuck what others do when they fuck?
is the day i start giving a schitt if she cums or not. i don't eat whore pussy anyway. i'll bet she doesn't wipe off the last guy before seeing another.
Are you gay?
Well, I'll weigh in 'cuz I'm kind of in between on this. Though I'm pretty positive some guys really love to DATY for the event, it is not something I particularly enjoy in and of itself. OTOH, if it enhances the overall experience and session, I'm more than happy to provide that service. Some providers are hyper-sexual, and getting them off this way as well as through intercourse is just plain fun and a real turn-on. (Who doesn't love having his head squeezed between thighs as a woman reaches her O this way? Well, maybe some don't, but I do!) I've had other providers that are sexual and love to come, but they just seem to want the dick, which is totally okay by me, as well. I'd really rather spend my time and efforts on other ways to enjoy her, if she is not that into it. I usually try to get some hint from the lady which way she wants to go on this issue before going to munch. So far, it seems most are pretty obvious about it if they want DATY to be part of a mutual enjoyment session. (The last one literally planted her ass on my face as she was blowing me!)
Then there are providers that really are not that sexual and fully admit that they don't cum much. One such provider was reviewed harshly for this after I saw her, which I thought was unfair. When I saw her, she was really beautiful and otherwise a great fuck. Why the hell would I get offended that I couldn't get her off, especially after she warned me?
"Then there are providers that really are not that sexual and fully admit that they don't cum much. Why the hell would I get offended that I couldn't get her off, especially after she warned me?"
I go for sixes in performance,knowing she will be a ten once I use my DATY skills. When she says Uncle from my tongue, I bang her hard for forty minutes.
Read my reviews, if you have any doubts.
..."One such provider was reviewed harshly for this after I saw her, which I thought was unfair. When I saw her, she was really beautiful and otherwise a great fuck. Why the hell would I get offended that I couldn't get her off, especially after she warned me? ..."
And some men wonder why we fake it? You tell the truth and get reviewed harshly...note to self...NEVER tell a client that...give him his fantasy and keep quiet. Pity we don't know the ones with fragile egos or the "she has to come" or she'll pay dearly, BEFORE the session starts so we can manage it accordingly. Sad but true...
But if we ever meet, please be kind but honest. I can often tell when a lady is faking and it is a huge turn off. In fact it will ruin the session for me. I get as a provider your clients are not often your dream guy and even if he is you may not be in "the mood" anyway. So it is to be expected that you can't reach a climax each and every time. It is true some ladies can but most can't and that is reality. Now as for most everyone else, you are probably very right and faking it is the best course, especially if your good at it as some guys really needed it.
I think, in general, if a woman cums it makes things a lot hotter.
Years ago, before the internet age, I called up a lady from the yellow pages listings to my apartment. We had some confusions about how much, and for what. So, we were sitting there talking about money for about 6-7 minutes. Finally, everything were agreed, and it was time for me to pull her panties down ... I noticed her sticky fluid drooling down between her legs -- apparently, she cummed a couple of times while we were arguing about money ... not to mention, we had a hell of great time afterwards ...
By the way, that was my first time that started my hobby life (I was in a divorce and re-marriage at that time). And, I am Asian/Chinese; I found out from that incidence I have a hotter time with a white woman in bed.
if these are the sort of questions that "just come to you" you must have one miserable sonofabitchin life. sure a service happens. but it is the service _I_ want, jackass.
when you start paying for my encounters then i might give you a voice in how i conduct them. and even if you offered to pay i'd decline because you obviously have NOT THE SLIGHTEST CLUE about having fun.
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you do have a dry sense of humor don't you?!
i was going for simple and direct... but keeping in mind it might just be a put-on from the OP.
I care if she cums or not as I want her to enjoy her time with me but it is not all that important. I also realize that it is not always possible for her to cum for a variety of reasons. In a service related transactions, that I enjoy the most it is a game of give and take not that it always leads to her reaching climax. And I can get the lady I care most about to cum so I can do it in real life but maybe not with the provider in question. Lastly I do not need her to cum to fill fulfilled but if she fakes and I can tell and I often can it ruins it. Ladies please never fake it with me my ego is not that fragile I need that. When a lady fakes it feels like she is actually insulting me and it is a big time turn off. I have never repeated with a lady I knows fakes with me. I have repeated with a few ladies I can't get to cum but they seem to enjoy their time with me anyway for other reasons other than they are being well paid.
It's a thinly veiled pontification and it reads as if you can't decide if you want to insult the men or the women more in your post. You manage to forehand slap the men and backhand slap the women. Very efficient insult strategy I admit.
Since you posted your "right answers" clearly for everyone to read, and since it's also clear from your tone you consider alternative PsOV to be misguided at best, what were you really trying to discover by asking these supposed questions?
Where's your data that guys who DATY can't do it in "real life"?
When did all providers become virtual?
When did you become the standard for what services a guy is allowed to negotiate with a provider and which ones are inappropriate?
Myopia is rampant in some of the recent threads.
With women romance is in our heads and hearts. Since you are a client, you will have to be in my head. That said, the more notice you give me of our date the better! That means I can primp and get dolled up (take a bubble bath, do my makeup, choose pretty lacy lingerie, light candles, play jazz, watch some soft core porn) basically creating anticipation for myself!
By the time you get there I am rarring to go off ofall the things I've been thinking about doing. Will I cum, who knows! Will we both enjoy it?? HELL YEAH!!!
I treat them as the girl friends they are (for however long we are together) & generally they return the favor. Improving one's skills can be helpful with any partner. I prefer to be with an enthusiastic live warm woman.
If you just want to just be serviced then that is entirely your perogative.
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That so many sorry assed motherfuckers can't get a girl to cum.
It ain't rocket science folks!
..and they moan and squirm, and you sure feel important.
But the GFE includes just that, so she is doing her job, even while you THINK you are doing the job of making her cum.
really- LOL
like I said pathetic. There are obvious tells which simply can't be faked. Then again I've dated a slew of actresses. Go right ahead and continue speaking for yourself, I'll do the same.
Like I said, it ain't all that difficult.
Almost every aspect of a woman's orgasm can be faked. So, unless you have a stop watch and a probe sensor and timing the specific contracts during a woman's orgasm, you don't know for absolute certain.
Those who are arrogant enough to think they know it all in terms of a woman's orgasm are just as bad as these Manginas.
Get over yourself dude.
I got a probe alright. Gawd given!
Riiiight....
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Why does every guy think every other guy's experiences should be like theirs?
If a guy spends time with a provider and she doesn't get off with him, why does he often assume she doesn't do so with someone else? No, it must be an act, otherwise the first guy has to acknowledge he might not be quite the stud he thinks he is. Or he assumes she must be gay since she didn't cum with him?
A lot of guys don't care whether she cums or not, so why expect she would--at least with him. Other guys do care and do work at it, and she is much more likely to have an O.
Yeah, imagine that, sex workers FUCK a lot.
Licking pussy, is fun. The last time I licked a virgin pussy was...um...wait, what is a virgin again?
Getting laid in DT MPLS night clubs and dive bars is like shooting fish in a barrel. I'm not convinced that the shit faced girls who will come home with a stranger like me and happily spread their legs while only remembering that my name is...uh...er..."it starts with a T doesn't it? Or a J? hehe" - *rolls eyes* - haven't seen just as many cocks. They're far too pretentious to actually 'sink' to level of being paid for it, but will gladly give it up for a few jaeger bombs.
I don't see the difference. If you want easy no strings sex, you are fucking a 'whore' either way, a pro, or an amateur. At least the pro's don't throw up on your bathroom floor afterward and force you to scroll through their cellphone contact list looking for someone that can come and pick them up at 4 in the morning.
If ya don't like sucking clit that's your prerogative. If you do, get over the fact that your tongue is not the first thing ever to go there, not by a long shot.
Matter of fact, I make it a mission that the lady cums more than I do.
Just the way I roll.
Half my fun is they're having fun. Then, of course the other half is they're having fun!
Sorry pal, but watching them squirm and squeel in delight gets me off.
Nothing like watching a lovely lady's eyes glaze over, with that smirk on her face, her body shaking, and knowing I did that.
Just FYI, the ratio is anywhere from 12 to 25 hens per cock; meaning the number of "cocks" a hen is likely to see is no more than 1 in her lifetime. Maybe 2 if the old cock gets cantankerous and is replaced.
Hens do NOT need cocks to lay eggs. Most egg-laying hens never see a cock in their whole lives.
Furthermore, both hens and cocks are raised together for meat birds; but are slaughtered before the males reach puberty. So the hens (or cocks labeled as hens) that you buy at the supermarket have never had sex in their lives.
So, given your ignorance about the birds and bees generally; I'm not so sure you are credible on the rest of your assessments.
I do not worry about DATY specifically. What I endeavor to do is make sure the provider enjoys the appointment as much as I do. Because I am not her chosen mate, even if I were the most skilled lover on earth, her sexual satisfaction would not be guaranteed. Hey, a lot of providers don't even LIKE daty from clients and always fake their orgasms anyway.
So what I do is try to make sure that some aspect of the appointment that is within my control is enjoyable to the lady. It may indeed be sexual in nature; but it might also just be conversation or something of that sort.
Sorry, she's not Jiffy Lube. She's a person. And like anyone else, service or not, she should be treated like any other woman. You'd be surprised how well a woman will treat you if she knows you like her and treat her accordingly.
that means she will make sure I have a good time. I am not going to quibble about one's (or my) reasons for doing this, be they for my good time, or because "I need" her to have a good time too. But to be honest, for me, it's both.
Now, let's be clear, I am not concerned about how she defines having a good time. It may be a full envelope, so to speak; it might be DATY; it might be getting me off; it might be a good fuck... not my concern how she defines her needs unless it makes us completely incompatible.
I think I am a good client just because I am flexible. I like it when they genuinely have a good time and an orgasm. I love DATY in and of itself, and if she cums it's even better. AND she can fake it, say she's now sensitive and we move on.
I actiually do not concern myself about trying to be "a good lover". I am what I am, and thats it. I do continue to see the ladies with whom I feel we click beyond getting me off, but it falls well short of some "mystical connection".
if she orgasms or not! I am there to get myself off, not her. Besides they all have an orgasm as soon as you hand over the "donation" Its the best orgasm they have!