When revisiting do you prefer to go straight to the bed and get hot and heavy, since you know her already, or, do you like to have a little small talk prior to? Get reacquainted just a little. I'm curious. Or if she's your ATF do you just want to skip all small talk and jump her bones? LOL...
...but I can't keep my hands (and other things) off my ATF for long! Still, we've communicated on lots of issues, personal and hobby, for a while and it would feel weird if all that were off the table when we meet.
her to have a slight idea of what I like. The first visit was obvious cause for me to push the replay button so I want to go for the gold immediately. Then we can share a GLASS or chat a bit(while i'm still in her mouth of course). After all I don't go to providers for "pay-for-say" like John does. LOL
I like spending a few minutes getting caught up on each others' lives (the parts we're willing to share, of course) before getting down to business. This goes especially for my current ATF, whom I've been seeing on dinner dates (three hours -- play-dinner-play -- whose rate isn't that much higher than a lot of other girls' one-hour dates); we seem to have a real connection, and love to chat as well as play (calm down, guys, my head is screwed on straight, so put the pitchforks away). We have time for both with a dinner date, so no need to head straight to the sheets the picosecond I walk in the door. (My other current favorite is something of a Chatty Cathy, thus it's a trick to NOT get her to talk! Fortunately, she's not a clock-watcher, so we always get in a full, rewarding session... and yes, I also enjoy talking with her, too.)
Take advance of a first meeting by going at it right away. If you can manage no talk at all, great. Then talk afterwards or the next time you meet.
You only meet someone for the first time once. So the anonymity of having sex with a total stranger is a special moment. Once that's happened, then there's time for talking and getting to know each other. But there no greater thrill that the primal man meets woman, they fuck and the only words spoken are in grunts.
This is similar to my thread about answering the door naked. The primo effect is achieved when you meet someone for the first time. After that, answering the door naked is not such a big hoot.
Interesting point re making the most out of those first moments. They are intense, as you scope each other out for the first time. But many of the women I've met like a little "get to know you" first because it makes them more comfortable.
Yes, I know what you mean. But for me, I'm not looking to repeat the garden variety experience in dating. Most women are going to want to get to know you, or go through the motions of getting to know you and pretend like they know you, but you don't really need the hobby for that. I prefer to find that special experience that does not happen in most male/female encounters. Where language is not needed and instinct takes over.
Posted By: inicky46
Interesting point re making the most out of those first moments. They are intense, as you scope each other out for the first time. But many of the women I've met like a little "get to know you" first because it makes them more comfortable.
We often catch up while we are getting ready. Once the fun begins, chatting is minimal but always fun. It's always fun to have a little laugh, even in the middle of hot sex.
I probably talk more at the beginning of the session in the revisit than with the initial visit. Then more talk after the lovin'. With my ATF's we talk even more before and after. I enjoy the sharing.
I have re-booked because one lady gave a great massage. The sex was so so, but the massage really helped my back. With her I wanted to go right to the massage and then have her ride me after she worked her magic. More than a few times I re-booked because I liked the provider as a person so I rebooked as much for the company as for the sex so I wanted to talk first then stick it in her. I know I am a mangina.
The last lady I re-booked I did so because she gave the best covered blowjob ever, even better than most bare back blowjobs. With her I wanted her mouth on my cock as soon as humanly possible and her not to take her mouth off of my cock until I popped.
So what I want first depends on why I desired to repeat with her. Also it depends on my mood, sometimes I just want to get frisky right off the bat and other times I want to take my time. There is my answer, did it help?
I've often repeated because her personality was just so cool...something just clicked for me. Whether it was a common experience, or something so far from the "norm" I liked it. Those are few are far between in my opinion. However, I'll definitely repeat if the sex was mind-blowing.
For first time meetings, I'd rather get in there and just jump her bones with little conversation. If something strikes me unique about the experience like in the post coitus conversation or a GFE that turns PSE, that's where I'd usually decide the repeat or not.
So much to do, So little to say. My works hard, For such meager pay If sex is not, Whats on your mind . Lets get together another time. First visit, Second, Or One hundred and four. I'm not gabbing, Once I enter your door. I would be King, On top of my throne. If I had the Chance, To jump your bones. If you are searching for someone to talk, I'm free for you, When its off the clock.
the more I value the gentle moments of catching up on the news and simply being with one another. Oh don't get me wrong...the boom boom is important , but the intellectual and playful foreplay makes it all the better.
If I'm seeing a lady that is a clock watcher than I get right to business. If the lady is generous with the time I enjoy a little small talk before and during. I usually don't repeat with ladies that are all business. I need some kind of connection to repeat in the first place.
Posted By: Khori
When revisiting do you prefer to go straight to the bed and get hot and heavy, since you know her already, or, do you like to have a little small talk prior to? Get reacquainted just a little. I'm curious. Or if she's your ATF do you just want to skip all small talk and jump her bones? LOL...
could be devoted to catching up. A 1-hr. date leaves little time (maybe 5 or 10 minutes) to get acquainted and be begin the flirtation process. No need to rush into play if the date is longer than 2 hours; building the excitment is part of the fun.
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(My other current favorite is something of a Chatty Cathy, thus it's a trick to NOT get her to talk! Fortunately, she's not a clock-watcher, so we always get in a full, rewarding session... and yes, I also enjoy talking with her, too.)