I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.
Y'all (I've been in the south 3+ years now, so I can use that) seem to be able to sense various things about us guys: if we're married, what we like, etc.
I posted some comment about signs of a real female orgasm, and was told that providers can fake those. Signs I've experienced or read about include very rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, increase in skin temperature, heavy breathing, muscle contractions, dilated pupils, difficulty speaking, sweating, and more.
From responses I've read, it would seem that providers can fake all that, which leads me to the question: why aren't you in Hollywood, instead of motel rooms? There's money to be made with that kind of acting talent. 
Porn is what you're looking for.
Or you can watch"When Harry met Sally" again LOL
Psychic...ugh most mongers are married and fucking around here. So the odds are she'll guess right.
You don't really use those psychics...do you? 
Oh...and most illusionists can't fly either. Don't tell the Copperfield fans though.
Posted By: donbecker54
I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.
Y'all (I've been in the south 3+ years now, so I can use that) seem to be able to sense various things about us guys: if we're married, what we like, etc.
I posted some comment about signs of a real female orgasm, and was told that providers can fake those. Signs I've experienced or read about include very rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, increase in skin temperature, heavy breathing, muscle contractions, dilated pupils, difficulty speaking, sweating, and more.
From responses I've read, it would seem that providers can fake all that, which leads me to the question: why aren't you in Hollywood, instead of motel rooms? There's money to be made with that kind of acting talent.
Very funny.
It's not porn. My ex (God, I hate to keep using her as an example) exhibited almost all of the orgasm signs I mentioned in my post, and then some.
A few of them were painfully blunt as well.
The others were a tad more PC...but still told you that they don't have that big O.
It's unimportant...they don't care..nor should you.
Just have fun...and I trust that the good ones will give you that Oscar winning performance. Heck, the reviews here suggest that she may even have 10 of them. But who's counting LOL
Posted By: donbecker54
Very funny.
It's not porn. My ex (God, I hate to keep using her as an example) exhibited almost all of the orgasm signs I mentioned in my post, and then some.
Oh, I know, ChgoCPA. There's plenty who can contract their vagina's, scream, sweat, and do their nails at the same time. 
I just find it either fascinating or unbelievable that some are able to control body temperature, sweat on command, do rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, dilate their pupils, etc. That's the stuff of Oscar awards.
I'm having fun. I'm having almost as much fun reading the posts here as I am boinking my provider.
Your fav provider and entertain yourself on ter at the same time, you'll be a seasoned pro at this hobby
hehehe
xxx
Jinni
Posted By: donbecker54
Oh, I know, ChgoCPA. There's plenty who can contract their vagina's, scream, sweat, and do their nails at the same time.
I just find it either fascinating or unbelievable that some are able to control body temperature, sweat on command, do rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, dilate their pupils, etc. That's the stuff of Oscar awards.
I'm having fun. I'm having almost as much fun reading the posts here as I am boinking my provider.
I don't think I can type and do the other stuff. Besides, I'd rather look at her than this monitor, no matter how fascinating the conversation here.
Hard to believe, I know. It's not really a good thing either. I try to keep myself from orgasming to avoid losing steam and engorging egos but sometimes it's unavoidable.
That was a really "hot" scene...and very convincing LO
I'm telling the truth lol, and my clients generally don't know I'm cumming because I try to hide it. And no, I can't do a Meg Ryan, I'm a horrible actress.
He's sure that when a hooker does the leg cross, sweating, turn flush, screaming that she's having an O.
But you are saying you are the silent O gal...that's a problem for guys looking for Meg LOL
I know what you're saying though...and yea, I like when a gal has a silent O.
Posted By: breannabreeze
I'm telling the truth lol, and my clients generally don't know I'm cumming because I try to hide it. And no, I can't do a Meg Ryan, I'm a horrible actress.
When I'm enjoying myself, I'm busy enjoying myself. I don't look or act like I just stuck my finger into an electrical socket. But since I realize this tends to disappoint some people, I'll throw some theatrics into the mix, if that's what they seem to expect.
Well I make noise if I'm with someone that I can let loose around, but I'm not loud. More soft moaning and sighing I suppose. Repressed orgasms are the worst, don't feel as good but they still make you just as tired.
Lol!! I am loud. When I was learning to masturbate I had to be silent, and so I just by default orgasmed silently from then on. Somewhere around age 25 I decided to give in to my urge to make sounds, and I have never turned back. I have to put a pillow over my face now. I just love letting loose!
I can't imagine holding back. If a guy is such an ass about my orgasms I just wouldn't see him again. But thankfully the men I have had the pleasure of having pleasure with have been nothing but wonderful.
Yep...that's what all the johnnie boys want to hear!
Now if it's an outcall to my home...scream cause no one will hear you.
Thanks for the laugh!
Posted By: SoftlySarah
Lol!! I am loud. When I was learning to masturbate I had to be silent, and so I just by default orgasmed silently from then on. Somewhere around age 25 I decided to give in to my urge to make sounds, and I have never turned back. I have to put a pillow over my face now. I just love letting loose!
I can't imagine holding back. If a guy is such an ass about my orgasms I just wouldn't see him again. But thankfully the men I have had the pleasure of having pleasure with have been nothing but wonderful.
If it were that easy, everyone would already be an actress. It takes more than acting skills to actually get an audition. I personally hate LA, and would never live there. Most of the serious jobs are cast there
. . . Is a self absorbed, pretentious, shallow and potentially mind fucking place, but it is where I call home (lol)!
Might be different for dom's or those catering to fantasy/role play, but what I do is really more akin to customer service than acting. About the orgasm thing - I'd venture to say that most, if not all, women are born knowing how to convincingly fake one. Or ten.
Performing for a group involves skills that escorting doesn't.
Also, just fyi - I don't think most of us on the board are in motel rooms.
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Also, just fyi - I don't think most of us on the board are in motel rooms.
Motel or hotel--they've become more similar over the years. I'd call a Westin a motel, while others might not
In a hotel, the rooms are entered from an enclosed hallway. In a motel you enter the room directly from a parking lot, from which you can be observed by LE. This is why motels are a bad place to visit a provider.
I'd never made that distinction before, but thanks for clarifying it.
why is everyone worried about orgasms? ..just go balls deep and have fun...
Posted By: donbecker54
I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.
Y'all (I've been in the south 3+ years now, so I can use that) seem to be able to sense various things about us guys: if we're married, what we like, etc.
I posted some comment about signs of a real female orgasm, and was told that providers can fake those. Signs I've experienced or read about include very rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, increase in skin temperature, heavy breathing, muscle contractions, dilated pupils, difficulty speaking, sweating, and more.
From responses I've read, it would seem that providers can fake all that, which leads me to the question: why aren't you in Hollywood, instead of motel rooms? There's money to be made with that kind of acting talent.
Don and Rod are fairly new...looking for stuff that isn't part of the P4P world.
I suspect that in a few months they'll stop this quest for the big O.
Even Indy let the chalice go knowing it wasn't that important. Well, maybe his Dad convinced him to let it go.
Posted By: macdaddy1944
why is everyone worried about orgasms? ..just go balls deep and have fun...
Posted By: donbecker54
I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.
Y'all (I've been in the south 3+ years now, so I can use that) seem to be able to sense various things about us guys: if we're married, what we like, etc.
I posted some comment about signs of a real female orgasm, and was told that providers can fake those. Signs I've experienced or read about include very rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, increase in skin temperature, heavy breathing, muscle contractions, dilated pupils, difficulty speaking, sweating, and more.
From responses I've read, it would seem that providers can fake all that, which leads me to the question: why aren't you in Hollywood, instead of motel rooms? There's money to be made with that kind of acting talent.
ah yes..but some just search endlessly for the Holy Grail of O's..a couple of cups are good enough for me..
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Don and Rod are fairly new...looking for stuff that isn't part of the P4P world.
I suspect that in a few months they'll stop this quest for the big O.
Even Indy let the chalice go knowing it wasn't that important. Well, maybe his Dad convinced him to let it go.
Posted By: macdaddy1944
why is everyone worried about orgasms? ..just go balls deep and have fun...
Posted By: donbecker54
I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.
Y'all (I've been in the south 3+ years now, so I can use that) seem to be able to sense various things about us guys: if we're married, what we like, etc.
I posted some comment about signs of a real female orgasm, and was told that providers can fake those. Signs I've experienced or read about include very rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, increase in skin temperature, heavy breathing, muscle contractions, dilated pupils, difficulty speaking, sweating, and more.
From responses I've read, it would seem that providers can fake all that, which leads me to the question: why aren't you in Hollywood, instead of motel rooms? There's money to be made with that kind of acting talent.
But alas...another femme fatale that had to die.
I think she fucked he and his Dad first though...right?
yep..and he kept his hat on the whole time..Dad never could reach a cup..but they both " chose wisely "..
Posted By: ChgoCPA
But alas...another femme fatale that had to die.
I think she fucked he and his Dad first though...right?
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I'm guessing a bad choice....but after another NCNS I can see how that this might happen.
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While most of us can indeed fake almost anything, not all of us do. I would feel like I am cheating myself if I faked it. I expect pleasure from most situations in life and I am rarely disappointed, and this arena is no different. I can come like a champ, though (I think this ability has only increased with age), so it doesn't take any superhuman skill to get me there, over and over again. (Sometimes a directional nudge is needed, but gents are usually good at getting that.) And I can come as long as you want to make me. Sometimes I feel downright spoiled.
Don't let the cynics get you down. Enjoy your connection with your friend- somewhere, on some level, your body knows the truth.
Love the reply. Just to let you know I for one believe every word you wrote.
Hookers never lie. Well..some do. Some johns do as well. Maybe I really don't believe you?
Posted By: SoftlySarah
While most of us can indeed fake almost anything, not all of us do. I would feel like I am cheating myself if I faked it. I expect pleasure from most situations in life and I am rarely disappointed, and this arena is no different. I can come like a champ, though (I think this ability has only increased with age), so it doesn't take any superhuman skill to get me there, over and over again. (Sometimes a directional nudge is needed, but gents are usually good at getting that.) And I can come as long as you want to make me. Sometimes I feel downright spoiled.
Don't let the cynics get you down. Enjoy your connection with your friend- somewhere, on some level, your body knows the truth.
I don't think I disbelieve that you believe what SoftlySarah thinks you believe.
You should ask a gal what she was thinking when she was having that big O.
I'll bet at least one will tell you "I was putting my grocery list together".
Then you can ask her to dinner followed by a shopping trip. Winner all around!
Posted By: donbecker54
I don't think I disbelieve that you believe what SoftlySarah thinks you believe.
SoftlySarah, I wasn't questioning whether you or others do or do not fake, or have O's for that matter. I just think it's fascinating that some seem to have the ability to control various bio mechanisms in order to fake an O. I mean, dilating pupils or raising body temp is a pretty amazing skill. Not exactly in demand by Hollywood, though.
Lol! So true!! It's pretty amazing.
So the question is: what do we believe? That all women fake it all the time, including these very specific bodily reactions? Or that some overly cynical people just need to relax and get a life? Which is more believable to you?
Kiss for you, Don.
dilating pupils may be due to being aroused during sex, but being aroused doesn't mean a lady is having an orgasm....or maybe she's on drugs.
body temp may be due to increased blood flow if a lady is aroused, but again, being aroused doesn't mean a lady is having an orgasm...or maybe she's just hot from you being on top of her for so long especially if you're on the bigger side. Turn on the AC.
#1, I'm skinny. #2 I don't lie on top of my partners.
#3, all you said may be true. I'm talking about the totality of "faking it", and those who say they can do so. If they can, as I've said before, that's amazing. I've learned to control all sorts of things on my body (even my blood pressure), but I can't imagine being able to control body temp, dilation, etc.
...wiggle my ears and jiggle my booteh all at the same time!!
Posted By: donbecker54
#1, I'm skinny. #2 I don't lie on top of my partners.
#3, all you said may be true. I'm talking about the totality of "faking it", and those who say they can do so. If they can, as I've said before, that's amazing. I've learned to control all sorts of things on my body (even my blood pressure), but I can't imagine being able to control body temp, dilation, etc.
You seem to have this list of body reactions you got from somewhere.
Not ALL women react the same. My body temp does not go up, in fact I can have an orgasm in less than a minute with zero sweating, no flush, staying as cool as a cucumber with barely a hair out of place.
If I am on top riding Hi Ho Silver into the sunset that is more akin to a cardio workout in which I will get hot, I will sweat and I will have labored breathing. So given that I could be coming every time I get on an elliptical machine or a spin bike.
As for my pupils, I just checked and they are pinpoint but that could be because of the drugs, okay just kidding.lol
Don, most of us might love to orgasm with our clients but there are some that it's just not going to happen. And instead of looking him in the eye and telling him to stop it's not going to happen, I prefer to completely fulfill his fantasy and give him the pleasure of pleasuring me.
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It's not a list I got somewhere. It's what I've noticed, and what other guys have noticed, when their SO's are having real orgasms. Before you question how I could be sure my ex was really having orgasms, I should point out that we were together for 45 years, and we also had to go to waterproof mattress covers because she's a squirter, and sometimes would leave a big puddle on the sheet.
I'm going to post another, more general reply on this thread, as people seem to have the wrong idea of what I'm asking.
I get that Don and so are some of the ladies here that can create Lake Titicaca. Maybe I am missing your point. I am not denying that you notice certain things, I am just adding that most things can be replicated in the biz and out, to preserve the ego of the guy. It is especially done in this biz to complete a fantasy
I understand the need to fulfill the fantasy. I'm just fascinated by the skills possessed by at least some providers to do that. Those skills are almost as impressive as the skills required to really do the job.
Ok seriously? How many providers fk you guys with the damn bright lights on? Well, when the room is dim, that's why her freaking pupils are dilated bwahahhaah. Fkin duh.
It's the change in amount of dilation, not the dilation itself. Fkin duh right back at ya.
Posted By: donbecker54
It's the change in amount of dilation, not the dilation itself. Fkin duh right back at ya.
How can they read their favorite romance novels with their eyes closed?
Maybe LR should check out google glasses...can stay on TER or do the grocery list.
And still get paid to fuck
And the sweating, we can use your #2 paragraph for that.
Dudes would try in my everyday sex life before doing this. I could never get off. Now I have orgasms all the time. I'm not sure how this works, but I was ready to go to a sex psychologist as I thought something was wrong with me. Guess this job is doing me more good than bad! Lol.
Also, psychic or just experienced with men? After doing this a while, just like anything, I'm sure the person comes to learn how to learn another quickly... from experience.
Guess
There seems to be some misconception about my original post. If you're one of those who thinks I'm seeking the "holy grail of hooker O's" (or however it was that ChgoCPA put it), you won't find that. Please read all of my replies if you think that's what this thread was supposed to be about.
I'm just really fascinated by the skills some of the providers here say they have as they pertain to reading men, and to faking orgasms. I'm taking the women at their word that they can find ways to achieve some or all of the various signs of orgasm (which I've listed far too many times).
That's it.
That doesn't mean I won't try to give my partner pleasure. It does mean that I'll immediately write off my list the girl who starts moaning the first time I touch her waist, though. If I'm paying for acting talent as well as action, I want at least a third runner up Oscar performance.
Don't worry....I got your post ha ha. You're not saying you care, just that you find it fascinating how it's so easy to fake this stuff, and we are not all in Hollywood because of that. To be honest, I think that's the only line I read before I replied lol.
Well, yeah. I mean, it would be pretty hard for a guy to fake being excited, much less having an orgasm.
I probably shouldn't have said that, as I'm likely to now get an education on methods guys use, and maybe some things I don't want to hear.
