To Bail.

I am not into fucking bloody lipped gals who were just dragged unconscious down the aisle on their back. I am very shallow that way.

and usually when I get that feeling, I put off disrobing and see if I can "improve the mood" with some still clothed foreplay like making out on the bed with our clothes still on. 99% of the time you just know and rather than trying to force it, I usually just bail with a "this isn't working" and I just go. The amount of money I leave depends on whether I feel misled, ripped off, or simply that there was a lack of chemistry. Sometimes I leave NOTHING, other times a token, still other times maybe up to half her rate, but NEVER do I give her full freight. If I get a plate of food too disgusting to eat in a restaurant I don't pay for it, Maybe I will pay for the appetizer and a tip for the poor girl who had to serve it to me, but I do NOT pay full price as it only encourages bad behavior.

This is an example of why I usually avoid appointments of more than one hour. I can't really tell anything until we get into the sex part. Some girls just don't do it for me for whatever reason. It happens.

If she has a bad attitude, I'm going to notice that within the first few minutes, and it always means the session will be bad. So far, I have always completed the mission, but there were regrets afterwards. Up until a couple of years ago, I always did outcall, and it's more trouble to get rid of a provider at my place. Incall, it would be easy enough to just walk away.

you're talking about bailing WITHOUT paying.  The only time I would do this is when there is a material misrepresentation either in her appearance or her menu.  When I book with an indie, I always ask of the photos are current and accurate, and if her TER profile menu is accurate.  This eliminates 90% of potential unpleasant surprises.  If I get there and its not as advertised, I will leave without paying.  

As GGA said if you feel like you were pulled in on a B&S and the person is nowhere near the person depicted then just bail within 10 seconds, offer Cab fair + what you believe to be decent. If someone is having a bad day and trying to take it out on you then I believe you have the right to bail and again follow the monetary rules as above.  

I can only assume it's not that the pics were inaccurate.  I also wonder if you are asking about a polite way to ask her to leave with or without paying her her full rate?  If you are asking how to get out of it without paying her full rate when you have seen her before I think this would be the wrong thing to do.  If she took the time to get ready and drive to your incall than I think you need to pay her full rate regardless.  The only exception I could think of for not paying her full rate would be a very bad attitude problem (objectively) from her part or if she's really drunk or high.  

Definitely worth a look

The one time I bailed I got a bad vibe in the parking lot. Every other session gone wrong I stuck it out. There have been a variety of reasons. Once, she sat on the other side of the room. Once, there were teenagers in the other room when I got out of the shower. Another time, she brought out the saran wrap for daty. Once, she was cleaning the toilet in her lingerie. One time a guy answered the door. Twice, one of the doubles partners just sat there. Of course, all of those were back in the days when I took a lot of chances.

...especially the "Poof. And then you're gone".

It's not just his advice, but how he speaks - steady, even, reassuring tone of voice does it every time.

Because otherwise, I'd just leave and not care what she thought. I have, in fact, left early many times without explanation.

She grabs the envelope. I grab my shorts. We hit the streets.  

You had seen her before?or was that a typo? If you've seen her before,what changed?

Why the need for excuse if either party does not feel comfortable going through a deal? All that is needed is a polite and simple "Sorry but I'm not feeling it. It's just not working out."

I like when they don't want to leave, but you can tell the rest of the day has come on their mind.

I'm asking a serious question here.

It really was my fault. I tried a date with a beautiful lady who is just too young for me. I was uncomfortable with her age and look and I think she became uncomfortable too.  

There was an occasion where we met at the bar of my hotel. We talked but I felt she wasn't feeling me, the vibe was luke warm, but she was hot. So in our room, we were still at a disconnect. Then she went to change into some sexy lingerie and when she exit the bathroom, I went for it and we had a blast. I guess sometimes you get those "opening night jitters" but I loved my time with her so much that we're meeting again in Vegas, very soon...so the moral of the story is... I don't know shit!

I never book that much time. My sessions are always either an hour or 90 minutes, and I never finish in less than a half an hour. So we're not talking oodles of time left on the clock.

(including the menu), and therefore should not be expected to fulfill whatever someone else wrote incorrectly about her.

I believe Providers can file a problem report and TER will change things if the profile of services is not accurate.

I tried changing Greek to YMMV and they kept it as yes...So by his reasoning if someone wants Greek and doesn't find a way to ask before hand and I don't want to do Greek he should be able to walk out without paying?

When I have asked for something to be added and changed they did so in a timely manner. And one time they told me no to something being removed and when I inquired why they told me why and also offered advice on how to go about it and to get back to them. I followed the suggestion and then let them know and they took care of it.  
That is just my experience, but maybe try again.

if she's getting her fee for showing up, then I'm not sure she would really care. I think early on I would have been offended had that happen, but realizing things just aren't happening for one reason or another on occasion has changed that. Im not sure about others, but if i was still getting paid, id be ok with "not happening, I'm out"... though its not really something I ever worry about much anyway.

Okay Gambler. You're an asshole and all, but generally I agree with you and think you're actually a gentlemen where we ladies of the night are concerned. So I'm curious. Do you feel it's "encouraging bad behavior" to pay the full hour rate if the problem is just that you don't feel chemistry?? Obviously, if the pics were misleading, the lady isn't trying, there's a problem, etc then I think leaving without paying anything is fully justified. But if everything is as advertised and the girl holds up her end and is putting in effort, but you're just not feeling it- what then?

because, horn dog that I am, the ONLY way the chemistry or lack thereof would be enough reason for me to walk is if either her appearance was so bad I couldn't bring myself to go through with the session in which case she has earned a big fat ZERO, or she was such a bitch upon first meeting her that I would also turn around and walk.

If the provider misrepresented herself or her services, i just leave. If i'm not feeling it, i leave the donation and go, i don't ever go through with a booking i'm not feeling, no point in it, it'll just leave a bad taste in my mouth. I just consider the money lost as part of the game and make better choices in the future.

Okay, that makes sense. I took your previous post to mean that you were okay with leaving no donation if you just didn't feel chemistry. I was surprised because even when I disagree with you, you're usually making a fair/logical/good faith argument for your position.

A gal I'd seen numerous times on & off over several years...  I'd set up a return engagement.  She called me, unhappy before I arrived.  I'd just picked up our lunch I was bringing with me.   She started in again when I walked in the door.  So I knew at that point.  I calmed her down (an extra half hour but not out of my time).  I knew it was already sideways... I had a session but it wasn't anything great.    
I understand something was going on in her personal life... she shouldn't have booked the session.  
I really wish I'd put the food down & the donation...  I had promised her I was coming when she called earlier, so the other half is the promise she's get the donation...  but I think I should have tried to walk out.  "You are way too stresed to have a good time. I think I should go."  
I wonder if she'd have let me walk (without trying to convince me to stay).  Might she have gotten her head together?  I'll never know.  
I knew as the door closed, I'd not be going back.              

Now, listen - I think you missed this part honey.