Just look at the rich old coots you see running around on the society pages with trophy wives at their sides.

There are, for sure, many gals who admire a man for his more noble aspects as well.  I know more than a smattering of such people.  Looks do not matter as much as we guys think

The world's perception of you. But then I wondered, why does someone who's not an ugly fat guy purport to know so much about this, and why does he want to know more?

I'm genuinely curious.

My Opinion

In my civvie life, I've dated some of the world's most handsome and beautiful celebrities (men and women).  Some of these people had 'dark hearts' and were unkind human beings.  Thus...their beauty, in my eyes, disappeared VERY quickly!  

One of my most wonderful intimate civvie relationships, was with a gentleman who was not handsome, and was considered obese (he had to book two airline seats, for himself, when traveling).  Funny thing, all I ever noticed about him (and now fondly remember) was how kind he was to me...not monetarily, but emotionally.      

I am blessed my mother taught me a valuable lesson, "True Beauty, Comes From Within" and she was correct!

IMHO I think as long as you're squeaky clean, flossed and brushed, and well dressed that it doesn't matter.

You can be in great shape, but bad breath, didn't wipe properly, and a butthead and I'm positive your session will be less than stellar than big fat guy.  You might even get blacklisted.

Most women I know that are +40 recommend younger girls go for the nerdy nice guys.

that "ugly fat guys"  
need to pay for their Sex.
I've seen the reverse of what you describe.

Women Love CONFIDENCE,
and will overlook the physical form that it is
emanating from.

Note:  I've seen beautiful physically-fit handsome guys that could get all the "action" they ever wanted
yet, need beat and humiliated to enjoy Sex.

So, Looks are what you make of them, with regards to Sex.

Most Experienced providers develop visual acuity beyond the normal 20/20.

We can see deep inside.

It is an acquired Skill,  
     learned out of necessity to stay alive

There is no explanation.

Certainly there are varying degrees of physical attractiveness however once I have spent a little time with someone I find their attractiveness comes from their personality, not their physical looks.  I've seen gentlemen with obvious "flaws", some that you may say are "ugly", but I truly don't see them that way.  I have had only two "ugly" clients and both of them were physically attractive, however they were rude and mean spirited people.  

As far as weight goes, certainly it's more challenging sexually to be with someone who is overweight.  Some positions simply may not work, and I have found that obese men tend to have more erectile difficulties.  But it doesn't bother me at all, it just requires a different approach.  An overweight gentleman is entitled to the same level of service and enthusiasm as a thinner guy.  

So as long as he is clean and nice I truly don't mind seeing a gentleman who is overweight and not model-perfect

If any woman tells you that when we first see a UFG client that we don't get a little bit skeeved out, she is LYING!!!!.....Society is so fixated on LOOKS and APPEARANCE, it tells us everyday how pretty we need to be,how we need to dress a certain way,have our hair a certain way and when you see someone who doesnt look like you or that model than you do judge...It's a fu**ed up world that we live in but its the truth!!!  

Let me say that it's not about weight...It's about being UGLY and unkept..and I find that most people who are UGLY are so because they don't take pride in their appearance and hygeine...they decide I'm not good looking anyways so why should I care about how the rest of me looks? Which is why most of them are FAT and UGLY and not just one or the other.

When I first see an UFG I think right away...Great this is going to suck, they are going to smell, no matter if they take a shower because they have so much fat and BO and cheese under their balls...and 80% of the time when i see this kind of person I am right...Also I think he probably hasnt shaved because let's be honest he cant really reach his balls to wash so how will he be groomed...more than likely his ass will stink because again he cant reach his ass to wipe or wash.

No compared to just FG....He may have the same problems but is aware of it and takes steps in order to properly clean and groom himself.

So I guess what Im saying is that the way you look and feel about yourself has a huge affect on the way you take care of yourself and project that to others....

So if you dont want to be UFG.....Please take pride in your appearance and you will definately get a better reaction =)

 


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As long as they are clean, smell good and don't try to lick my face or stick their tongue in my ears or give me slobbery kisses.  I've only been truly disgusted by a client's appearance once.  The guy was some trust fund baby with a prolonged coke habit and looked like skeletor with a bleeding nose.  I couldn't go through with it and left without the money after giving him a very long lecture.

From your gig as a mall santa?

Taking a look at this from a different angle.  

If one is fat, does that make one automatically ugly?

A person can be thin, and ugly, fat and good looking IMHO.  I have been with a few BBW providers and they are wonderful people, pretty and sexy.

I am overweight, but do not consider myself ugly.  Older, hell yes, handsome maybe, ugly no.  

I just do not think the two always go hand in hand

That its not so much about weight as it is about personality, cleanliness and not being a dick.  I have never had a provider have a problem with my weight (I am not grotesquely overweight, just wide around the middle and slightly pear shaped).  As a larger person who is a couple inches under 6 foot I dont mind seeing women of different sizes from short lil spinners to a 6 foot curvaceous Amazon to slightly out of shape MILFs.  I have gone with women who were 7's for appearance but whose service was 9 and almost 10.  Its not about weight, its about chemistry.  Honestly, if I ever ran across a provider who was not into me because of my appearance I would never see that person again because I would see them as shallow.  Thank goodness most of my provider liasons have either been great actresses or simply nice people.

I have certainly been treated differently because of my age and tend to book more mature ladies because of it.  I actually had a very young lady say to me just as I was sticking it in that she didn't like "OLD" guys.