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mrfisher 115 Reviews 347 reads
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You must know a provider who checked out the particular black list you are on.

You could ask her to go and inquire with that board to see what else she can find out.  Perhaps she will find out that you were confused with someone else.  I can see how mistakes can happen.

Till then, or in lieu, your best bet is to see other providers who don't rely on these boards and build up a steady list of providers who will vouch for you.

TheObserver1162 reads

I am (I suspect) like 95% of the TER hobbyists:

1. I don't rip off providers
2. I am clean and hygienic
3. I am polite
4. I don't seek "dangerous" practices (BBFS, etc.)
5. I don't smoke
6. I don't No Show/No Call
7. I don't ask personal questions (business only)
8. I don't loiter, stalk, hang around

Well, I recently discovered I was on a blacklist.  After "adding 1+1" and doing some research, I've concluded that it could only have been from this provider I saw.

The session was nothing out of the ordinary, and it ended with the provider inviting me to return.

This provider subsequently ignored my whitelist requests.  

Very strange!

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Bob Crane607 reads

She clearly must have come to a different assessment about one of the items on your list.

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mrfisher348 reads

You must know a provider who checked out the particular black list you are on.

You could ask her to go and inquire with that board to see what else she can find out.  Perhaps she will find out that you were confused with someone else.  I can see how mistakes can happen.

Till then, or in lieu, your best bet is to see other providers who don't rely on these boards and build up a steady list of providers who will vouch for you.

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HaleyOrlando490 reads

Each provider decides who she whitelists and who she doesn't

Myself it is at least 2 times or I feel very safe with the gentleman. I am vouching for this man so the other providers will know for sure I have seen him and he was more than fine with me.

You used the words requests...So i'm thinking you asked a few times..She evidently didn't want to give you a whitelist for her own reasons..Which could be the number of times she saw you and nothing to do with something you did wrong. Did you go back to see her ?

Most gentlemen will agree with me that seeing a provider once does not give you a whitelist..If that were the case we would have a very large database of whitelist referrals..

Kisses Haley

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GiaBellini354 reads

lol.. joking..
I'm curious how you know you are on a black list somewhere.  Did somebody tell you?

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CiaraHasFun395 reads

email their contact email-
Tell them of your lovely reviews
your other whitelist referrals -
and go from there -

Then ask the provider in question why she blacklisted you -

Its more productive to go to the root of the problem rather than complain about it and have nothing done over it :(

Hope you get it straightened out -

Of course, if you didnt use an alias-  people would be able to help you out more :)



-- Modified on 12/15/2008 1:03:42 PM

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