Hey everyone.. Curiousity question... Wanted to get opinions, suggestions, etc from anyone willing to respond. A large part of my enjoyment when with a lady comes from knowing she is also enjoying themselves. If I know that how I am treating her is leading to her having a good time, I will have that much more of a good time myself. I know that each person seeks out whatever for their own reasons, but I wanted to know if having a 'BFE' for the providers was important as well? And, (aside from the obvious) what do you like to see from the hobbyist. Is this something as a hobbyist you try to provide as well...?
-OberonSD
Ps- I'm not posing the question, just copied it from the S.D board.-Hpygolky or to my friends Mr.HappyGoLucky
Here comes another one, BFE. I'm glad I went to the San Diego board and found out what this meant. I'm not sure if it makes sense to me. I guess if the provider and the client connect--anything is possible. Not your typical $.75 special at one shot an hour!
Hey everyone.. Curiousity question... Wanted to get opinions, suggestions, etc from anyone willing to respond. A large part of my enjoyment when with a lady comes from knowing she is also enjoying themselves. If I know that how I am treating her is leading to her having a good time, I will have that much more of a good time myself. I know that each person seeks out whatever for their own reasons, but I wanted to know if having a 'BFE' for the providers was important as well? And, (aside from the obvious) what do you like to see from the hobbyist. Is this something as a hobbyist you try to provide as well...?
-OberonSD
Ps- I'm not posing the question, just copied it from the S.D board.-Hpygolky or to my friends Mr.HappyGoLucky
I have been told many times that my "approach" is very BFE...I want to pleasure my friend and try to ensure that she has as good a time as I have...assuming that trust and honesty are part of the equation from the start. Many ladies have shared with me some of their experiences and are delighted to find that I bring a real desire and sincere interest in pleasuring them...it's not all about me taking/receiving...it's about sharing in mutually explosive good times...key word is "mutually". My experiences with many, many ladies is far and away more intimate and passionate than what many other guys receive...at least according to the ladies who willingly share some of their own experiences. I have been lucky/blessed/fortunate to have met truly passionate and explosive ladies...why.... perhaps because I want to offer up an experience equal to the one I want to receive myself! This is what YMMV is ultimately all about I guess!
It is always "all about me". I am honest enough to admit that I am a BFE because I enjoy it when she enjoys it. I am not paying to "service" her. I am paying her to "service" me, and part of that service is allowing herself to relax and enjoy our time together. I love watching a woman get turned on; the way her breathing slowly gets more rapid; the way her nipples get hard; the way her skin flushes; the way she moans and squirms; the way she gets wet; the way her body stiffens, convulses, and then curls into a fetal position when she cums. It turns me on to know that I can turn her on that way. I like receiving also, but giving is really "all about me". So, yes, I am a BFE because I like it. If all I wanted was to receive pleasure, I could stay home, watch a porno, and do myself. I'm quite good, know exactly what I like, and it would be a lot cheaper.
Many providers have commented that I'm a nice guy. I was raised to be a gentleman, and I believe I've lived my life that way. I like longer appointments, especially lunch and dinner dates. As I posted previously in my "GFE" definition, I try to spend whatever amount of time we have together, as time exclusive to that provider, and no one else.
The definition of GFE and BFE are pretty much the same in my book. And the best way to have a GFE provider over time is to be a BFE client.
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