I have an attraction for blonds. Preferably, ones that are thin, with small natural breasts. As a result, most of the women I seek out are white. Having said that, I've been with women that have brown or red hair and had good times. On a couple occasions, I've been with ladies that were at least partially representing a black race. They were stunningly beautiful, although I don't generally find black women physically appealing (ya know, that blond thing again). So, I don't know if I find white women appealing because it's what I was exposed to in my childhood, or for some other reason, but the times I've ventured "off course" have been equally rewarding.
Then there's the fake boobs...what can I say? It's all good to me.
Since Hillary & Obama keep playing the gender / race cards it got me thinking. I grew up in an all white neighborhood, went to school at a nearly all white school, dated white girls, and ended up marrying a white women.
I will say that the hobby has really opened my eyes. In just the past few months I have experience a few different ethnicities - Latin & oriental (both great btw). This year I am looking forward to spending time with African Americans, Middle Eastern women, and many others.
So here's my question (both guys and ladies): Do you find yourself seeking diverse ethnic encounters? Have you found a particular favorite race (are there some races you refuse to see)?
in light of an earlier post, I want her to have started out as a woman. IMHO, Anyone that limits themselves by race is missing out.
Variety is the reason I'm in this hobby. I don't see providers because my wife won't give me any, I see them because my wife can't be 200 different other women.
Race makes no difference to me. I've been with a few African American ladies, had some terrific evenings. I have yet to see an Asian lady, but I do have a few on my "Must see list". I just hope I live long enough.
It's not about BLACK or WHITE, its about GREEN! [LOL]
One a more serious note though, I have found that caucasian men are much more attracted to me (especially since I lost weight). However, I do not discriminate based on race, religion, etc. As long as he is a gentleman, that's all that really matters.
I have an attraction for blonds. Preferably, ones that are thin, with small natural breasts. As a result, most of the women I seek out are white. Having said that, I've been with women that have brown or red hair and had good times. On a couple occasions, I've been with ladies that were at least partially representing a black race. They were stunningly beautiful, although I don't generally find black women physically appealing (ya know, that blond thing again). So, I don't know if I find white women appealing because it's what I was exposed to in my childhood, or for some other reason, but the times I've ventured "off course" have been equally rewarding.
Then there's the fake boobs...what can I say? It's all good to me.
I don't think any reasonable person would be upset that you have a preference. The issue comes into play when you treat someone differently.
Personally, I know what I find attractive as a general rule. If those features are found in someone other than where I would normally look, I think of it as a bonus.
was a rediculous white newscaster asking slanted questions to a black woman about her mixed marriage. She made him look foolish in the end.
I can't remember exactly her response, but the gist of it was "I am a female as well as my particular race and if I am attractive to a man, whatever race or nationality he is, what is more natural, wholesome than that?
MF - I could not agree with you more. You always have a way stating things in a matter of fact way. You can take the boy out of the country, but not the country out of the boy.
Upon further agreement, I find that I have missed out on quite a bit (from an ethnic perspective) and therefore I have quite a bit of catching up to do. I have decided there is no time like the present!
Am I attracted to her pictures and do I like what I read in her reviews? That's the bottom line. Then, is she nearby and how available is she? That being said, I'm a white boy with an Asian bug of some sort. My SO is Asian, and all the women I've hobbied with have been Asian, though I have others of differing ethnicities on my must see list. Asian providers, for me, are the ones closest at hand, readily available, and with very good reviews.
But there is something about the attraction factor that I cannot twist into a politically-correct reality. I can be walking down the street and my eye, without thinking, much like while squirrel hunting, catches the image and movement of an Asian woman, in the midst of all the others, from even as much as two blocks away. I just can't explain it. Well, after having just written that, I'm having flashbacks that might explain it, but TMI for such a post.
My two current favorite ladies both happen to be American born Filipino gals. I also have seen a great many South American and European ladies. I never set out to limit myself to any one ethnic group but I have found that I enjoy my visits with these ladies tremendously and, for the time being, I'm not really doing any shopping around.
The great thing about this hobby is the ability to be with a lady from a different back ground....a different back ground every week if that is what you want!
I agree..I love women, but I really love redheads. Now I am a white male and have always had a strong desire for Latin women. believe it or not I have never had on (Yet anyway) and it is not because I don't want one, Just seems I can not hook up with one. anyway just my 2 cents
Same here, it's like preferring the color blue over green. I'm simply attracted to Caucasians more than other races. It's just a damned preference.
I'm attracted to the other races too of course. Although, except for a few exceptions and mixed race, I'm not attracted to African American women. Again, it's just a preference. People needn't not get up in arms about it.
Just like I explain it to my black friends: I like steak but I won't eat lobster, crab or any shell fish so white and latin or asian women are steak to me but black women are like lobster, fantastic for some but not for me, I don't partake under any circumstances and anyway why not get to know the most beautiful black women : whoopie goldberg , and rhue paul.
And the same goes for other body parts. I have preferences like anyone else but I don't think there's an ethnicity I haven't been with. I think if anything I (like 99% of hobbyists) just try to find in the hobby what I can't find (or am too damned lazy to find) in civvy life.
My first (and some days I think my only) true true love was a Puerto Rican girl 15 years ago...so hot and so fiery...so I spend a lot of my hobby time looking for someone who reminds me of her.
As one online dating coach pointed out, attraction is not a choice. People can't control which race they find attractive. In other words, I visit whatever providers I find the most attractive, based on the way she looks and her TER profile. Race is usually not a factor, although most of the providers I saw were Caucasian. However, the one who gave me the best experience was Latina.
First off, the fact that both Hillary and Obama bring up race cards as often as they do is *disgusting*... but that's for the politics board
More hobby-centric points! Most of the gentlemen who call on me are white men (including Italians and Jewish gents, lol), but I attribute that largely to the area in which I live. The Northeast is mostly white, after all. As a matter of fact, in my civie life I've only had relationships with two black men... I never really considered it much, but I guess it's just culture difference. My family is not American black, and growing up, my family members were the only black people I knew well. Both of my black exes had pretty much the same background.
I must say that I look very much forward to seeing my favorite Middle Eastern gents I honestly couldn't tell you why, but... wow!
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