or really any person's place? i am just wondering because last week a provider gave me a bewildered look when i slipped my shoes off at the door and walked into her place, "um why are you barefoot?....." is this an uncommon practice? i've been doing this ever since i was a kid, same with many people i know. i do it no matter how "clean" my shoes are or how nice the person's carpet or floor is. it is a sign of respect when entering one's sanctuary and it prevents tracking in germs/dirt from the outside. it is also a subtle way of showing you are not a threat and that you have good intentions by making yourself comfortable and even somewhat vulnerable, actually.

I do. It's a sign of Courtesy and Respect for her place.

When women take their shoes off.. It's a sexy state...
It may seem like no big deal...
But she has already acknlowaged you are a clean guy, with a clean place by simply taking their shoes off, and walking around.
That basically means she would fuck you..
Play your cards right... Those type of things are what women call "signals"

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I always take mine of at first opportunity. It's a sign of respect. Besides you're not going to need them in about 30 seconds anyway.

You're going to swap bodily fluids with a hooker and you're worried about "germs" from the bottom of your shoes getting on her carpet?

Not to mention some good old fashioned White, Black, and Brown women who don't want dirt tracked all over their carpets.

It's not really that uncommon

...let repairmen in without taking off their shoes.  If they refuse, they have to tie plastic grocery bags around their feet.

the shoes have to go quick... just for comfort. But the SOCKS! They must go soon after, and before anything else. Nothing less attractive and less manly than a dude in socks alone.

It's actually not carpet (marble)...I guess maybe a sign of politeness nevertheless nothing wrong if it doesn't happen.. I guess in nowadays.. Politeness can be measured in additional ways..

If you must, bring a can of Lysol to your next session, spray the bottom of your Crocs on her door step and fk the broad already, ok Mr. Germ-a-fkking-phobe??????

I don't happen to be one of those guys, but I know your father is.

Germs on bottom of shoes can be pretty bad, by the way.  Did you ever try finding out what's on the bottom of your shoes?  It's not the cleaning thing

that's most of the ordeal handled, anyway!

...I'm sure there are those that do it whatever their reason but I've lived all over the U.S. and never done it nor been asked to so Yes I would say it is an uncommon practice.

do what romans do when going to their place...

I guess it can't hurt to take em off and error on the safe side of being polite and respectful,
But then their incalls are not where they reside, it's where they work
So it may not matter all that much?

Especially when it's snowy outside!!! But hobbyist are always polite in asking if they should take shoes off!! Which is very appreciated!!! 😘😘😘😘

(Probably because of the heavy Asian influence here). A porch at a local party often looks like the picture below. Of course you will also notice what we use as "shoes" here. It's also common practice for some folks to leave the party early and "trade up."


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Most people, most often, remove shoes, first one, then the other, and sometimes they walk around their living room or bedroom in their socks. Eventually they remove them, too. When going from shod to barefoot, they usually follow the same pattern of taking off their shoes and then their socks.

and you don't want to track "ordinary" dirt onto the carpets.

Korean/American, in fact, though not a K-girl.  And she could care less if I wear shoes into her place. Same for everyone else I see.  Despite my many faults, I never track dirt all over anyone's carpet.

- good girl takes her hills off when she goes to  bed  
- bad girl put them on

It's almost always the pure breeds who are more connected to their roots, for obvious reasons.  Even among pure asians, it's clearly divided into those who are "white washed" versus those who look like they just arrived here yesterday. These two types of asians (even tho they look the same) don't usually hang out together all that frequently due to culture shock, primary language they use, and other subtle differences.  

She is full-blooded Korean and born there but brought up here.  So she's not cut from the "K-Girl" mold and acts like any other young American woman.


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As soon as I'm inside my house, my boots come off. In my entry way are socks for people to put on after they take off their shoes or boots. A sign there say please take off your shoes.

I wouldnt have thought anything of it if a gentleman came to see me and did this. I take my shoes off at the door on an Outcall to someones home if I see shoes by the door or if they have hard wood floors, cause im always in heels and not trying to accidentally leave a mark (dont know why im so paranoid about that...)