: TER General Board Discussion : Here is how I put it

brendaboobies See my TER Reviews 1446 reads

posted 10 years ago

1 / 9

This weekend I explained some basic stuff to a newbie but the Gfe definition came up about kissing.
He wanted to know exactly how to find out if a girl will kiss with her mouth open- tongue etc.
I really was hard pressed for an exact way other than for him to look for GFE but that term is so over used.
I have MY definition on my website because I personally want it clear as day- I am all in with...
I think it would help out if more ladies were just as upfront also BUT there are always factors that can change why she may not offer open mouth kisses.
Ultimately it is the ladies choice because a guy is paying for time only!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OK, so fast forward a few minutes ago, another guy just sent a message stating what he was looking for in an upcoming date.
I sent back that one of the requests was not offered and therefor he would have to enjoy time with somebody else.- (I do state it is not offered on my site so if a guy does his homework as he should- there would be no reason to miss it)
He apologized- I'm not mad at all so no biggie for me- he did not do anything wrong-
I would rather not be put in that spot when everything was going great and then the mood be disrupted with a no.

I think the best way a guy could try to zone in what he needs would be something like a note with
hi
blah blah blah
and I like a lot of tongue filled kissing, to exchange oral pleasures, the main event, and XXXX
XXXX = whatever might be outside the normal
if that is a date you would enjoy please respond, if you do not think we have similar interests than please let me know I should continue my search for another lady.

So please tell me so I can tell my new favorite newbie how to look for what he needs when he returns home because of course he has me here -lol!!

Greenbacks2 31 Reviews 348 reads

posted 10 years ago

2 / 9

Good question? Because most providers

say they do not want to disclose what they do via E-mail or text. Because of legal issues. But how else are you going to find out if you cannot ask?

cspatz 68 Reviews 360 reads

posted 10 years ago

3 / 9

Tell him to read the profiles and reviews...

..under "Kiss" the options are Don't Know, No, Yes without tongue, Yes with tongue. OF course this could be inaccurate but it's a good start.

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 336 reads

posted 10 years ago

4 / 9

Re: Good question? Because most providers

Good point how else are you going to find out if you cannot ask.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 311 reads

posted 10 years ago

5 / 9

Kissing is the most YMMV items that there is....

It's all about good oral hygiene and diet (e.g. no garlic)

When I cleaned up my act, a lot of gals that would never let me kiss them began to pucker up

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 241 reads

posted 10 years ago

6 / 9

If I received an email like that, I'd delete it. E

Posted By: brendaboobies

This weekend I explained some basic stuff to a newbie but the Gfe definition came up about kissing.
He wanted to know exactly how to find out if a girl will kiss with her mouth open- tongue etc.
I really was hard pressed for an exact way other than for him to look for GFE but that term is so over used.
I have MY definition on my website because I personally want it clear as day- I am all in with...
I think it would help out if more ladies were just as upfront also BUT there are always factors that can change why she may not offer open mouth kisses.
Ultimately it is the ladies choice because a guy is paying for time only!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OK, so fast forward a few minutes ago, another guy just sent a message stating what he was looking for in an upcoming date.
I sent back that one of the requests was not offered and therefor he would have to enjoy time with somebody else.- (I do state it is not offered on my site so if a guy does his homework as he should- there would be no reason to miss it)
He apologized- I'm not mad at all so no biggie for me- he did not do anything wrong-
I would rather not be put in that spot when everything was going great and then the mood be disrupted with a no.

I think the best way a guy could try to zone in what he needs would be something like a note with
hi
blah blah blah
and I like a lot of tongue filled kissing, to exchange oral pleasures, the main event, and XXXX
XXXX = whatever might be outside the normal
if that is a date you would enjoy please respond, if you do not think we have similar interests than please let me know I should continue my search for another lady.

So please tell me so I can tell my new favorite newbie how to look for what he needs when he returns home because of course he has me here -lol!!!

ValuedCustomer 309 reads

posted 10 years ago

7 / 9

That's what I would expect....

You just really can't zone in that precisely on a session with some one you have never even laid eyes on.

For the OP - Tell your newbie to just throw the dice (assuming he's done the background research - TER reviews, etc.) and see what happens. It's just not that much money - and if it is, he really needs to rethink this whole P4P thing. Even if he's on a budget and it's once a month sort of thing - it's just one month...

It's not like we are talking about a long term relationship here...

SashaStolin See my TER Reviews 293 reads

posted 10 years ago

8 / 9

I agree. Mainly because

If after 129 reviews you still don't know if I'm GFE and how am I GFE, I don't know what to tell you 😂 This is exactly why I never tell a guy to not write a review because I got "too many." So nobody can say Sasha hasn't had a review in 6 months and they are having doubts about the services offered 😉

ballpark29 5 Reviews 218 reads

posted 10 years ago

9 / 9

Here is how I put it

If I am meeting someone who is reviewed, I simply state "I have read your reviews and have used them to form my expectations for our time together".

If its someone who is not reviewed, then not knowing is part of the thrill. But usually between her website, twitter feeds....etc I can usually guess if she will be my type. So far only been pleasantly surprised.

The only things I mention specifically are my dislike of of tattoos, excessive piercings, nylons, and white lingerie. I'll also mention that my ears love attention since it is not a standard part of most women's routine.