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Her friend checked me out
Pablito 1777 reads
posted
1 / 23
Does it make you nervous....

if an independent  provider who subscribes to P411 doesn't check your creds on P411 after you have supplied them?

I gave a stranger provider my P411 ID several days ago for an appointment and she didn't look me up. Of course she also could look me up by my TER Id. She doesn't know me nor do we have anyone in common.  

How often do providers you've never seen fail to check out your P411?

Just seemed a little strange to me

Jstgttnstrtd 18 Reviews 690 reads
posted
2 / 23
I prefer when they look at my profile

and while most do, I've had  times where they didn't.
The dates still worked out fine.
As long as she is well-reviewed, I wouldn't worry about this too much

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 644 reads
posted
3 / 23
Depending upon how well known you are

in the community it would be nothing, or could be sign or providers not doing due diligence before meeting the guy.  

A lot of gals will tell you tall tales of how they check references and verify you, but a lot of them (not all) don't do much at all.. I've noticed this for years...

Without knowing more details of who you are, what your reputation is, and what else you provided during verification its hard to comment anything beyond what I said...

AZCalvin69 501 reads
posted
4 / 23
Happened to me a few times

It has happened to me a few times. Does give one pause...

Pablito 447 reads
posted
5 / 23
Re: Hiw do you know she didnt check you out? eom

P411 allows tracking if a provider views your profile. You can even be emailed when they do.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 408 reads
posted
6 / 23
Because when they check you, you get email...

if right option is checked..

I am assuming the OP has it checked on his profile.. If he doesn't have that checked, there is a way to track the provider activity as it relates to accessing your profile..

USGrantlover 225 Reviews 520 reads
posted
7 / 23
Re: Hiw do you know she didnt check you out? eom

You get notified when they check your profile. When they don't open the profile they still can see your # of ok's, who gave them, when, how long a member etc. I don't THINK we get a notification when they just view our overall profile. I saw a gal recently who didn't check my profile directly and asked her why not. She said "I saw your ok's, checked with a few of them that you were ok and moved on. Just my 2 cents.

inicky46 61 Reviews 678 reads
posted
8 / 23
Girls have lots of ways to check you out.

If she's got a good review history, the fact that she didn't check my P411 account wouldn't bother me.

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 596 reads
posted
9 / 23
We do our research in a few different ways not just P411 (eom)


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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 548 reads
posted
10 / 23
No it doesn't. EOM


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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 388 reads
posted
11 / 23
There's a lot of things you should be embarressed about. That one is far down the list. EOM


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inicky46 61 Reviews 555 reads
posted
12 / 23
Well that's a first!

But you have so much more to be embarrassed for.  And you don't know it.

MissMarieM See my TER Reviews 546 reads
posted
13 / 23
You're specifically not supposed to use it that way.

Contact THROUGH P411.  If someone just gives me their P411 ID, I disregard it and use my other usual methods.

Also though, she can confirm your name, that the ID exists, and number of ok's without clicking on your full profile and triggering a "viewed" message.

impposter 49 Reviews 626 reads
posted
14 / 23
Her friend checked me out

A few things of concern in this thread.  

I'm on Date-Check but the lady I was in contact with was not so she couldn't check me out directly.  However, she had a D-C friend (provider and sometimes doubles partner) of hers check me out.  On D-C, you can see who has recently checked your profile, so that's how you know that someone checked you out.  So the friend-check worked out.

Then, of course, I never just drop my name or handle but I prove that I'm really me by PM or email from my D-C email and stuff like that.  I guess providers should wait for an authentic contact and just not take someone's name-claim as a matter of fact

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 492 reads
posted
15 / 23
Maybe her assistant checked it. Under her name, not the provider's. E


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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 427 reads
posted
16 / 23
Is that new? I always have to fully open them to see who OK'd. E



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mojojo 1 Reviews 768 reads
posted
17 / 23
Nervous and uncomfortable

I'm not on p411, but I do get nervous if a new lady doesn't check my impeccable references. I know, there are many other ways a lady can check you out. If she's going to use the other methods, why ask for references? I've taken the time to provide references. I've taken the time to give my references a heads up someone may be contacting them. Often times they'll send a quick reply. So we've jumped through a few hoops to help make you ladies feel safe.  

So what does it mean if you don't check? Here's what runs through my mind. You're lazy, and your session is going to be lazy. Or, you're busier than hell, and your session will have a busy, herded cattle feel to it. Or, you're unorganized, and your session will feel scattered, if it happens at all. Or, you're on drugs, causing all of the above to happen, and more. Or, you're not who you say you are....blah blah  I'm not getting a very good vibe with all these thoughts I'm having. I think I'll cancel my request to session. So if you've asked for refs, and are using your other methods to check me out, you might want to communicate that to me.  

I have a really good relationship with the ladies I use for refs. So what really happens when you ask for them? What normally happens yes, but also the reverse. I'm using those same refs to check you out. It's fair and open communication all the way around. You see, this is a very expensive endeavor. Very very expensive. As a gentleman, I'm going to use, in a highly professional manner, every means available to insure, not only a great session, but more importantly, my comfort and safety. In return, especially for its expensiveness, I think it's fair to expect that same high end professionalism on your part.

freebore 80 Reviews 560 reads
posted
18 / 23
Nope...

When she received your request, she was sitting in Olive Garden eating a salad with her BFF. She turned to her bestie and asked, "Do you know this guy?"

Bestie tells her, "Oh yeah he's great, shows up on time, clean, got a little bitty dick and cums in two minutes, always tips"  

And you are screened. Never underestimate the good ole gal network.

earthshined 480 reads
posted
19 / 23
about 40% of the time they don't even look at my profile

but some look at it 2-3 times before the appointment.

i don't know if  they call/check my OK references because  I don't ask.

earthshined 364 reads
posted
20 / 23
Re: Well thats a relief, providers cant see when you check their profile eom


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earthshined 437 reads
posted
21 / 23
Re: You're specifically not supposed to use it that way.# of ok's but not who they are?


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TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 445 reads
posted
22 / 23
Happened only once in ever where 2 of his several refs were my very good provider friends. -e-


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hljockey 2 Reviews 567 reads
posted
23 / 23
Same has happened to me....

.... with the last 4 ladies I contacted through P411. The last one even told me she never looked at my profile before she scheduled the appointment.  Doesn't make me nervous but it does make me wonder what information they get when P411 sends them an email with an appointment request. If it includes the number of provider okays it makes more sense but if they are just going by the fact that you are P411 verified, then why bother to even get the Okay's?

Another thing it's leading me to think is that is that high-end escorting is becoming a fairly low-risk business for the ladies at least as far as getting busted by LE goes

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