I love playing "Spot the SP" when out to dinner.  I've at least 4 times seen situations where I'm positive it was a paid date.

Hotel staff know this kind of thing goes on.  If there's a lot of hotels around, I wouldn't be too concerned your staff is recognizing her.  

They can't call the cops every time they suspect, because they'd have the police at their hotel all the time, which would worry all the other patrons and harm business. So as long as you aren't being painfully obvious to non-hotel staff, they'll turn a blind eye.

Hotel giveaways:
- being unable to look staff in the eye
- being terrified to ask them things when you need help, like "Where's the elevator"
- being dressed too promiscuous or too formal for the time of day
- throwing out an empty white envelop in the hotel lobby as you exit the building (I like sitting in hotel lobbies and watching for girls who do this)
- an age difference where the lady is flirty and engaged, but won't hold your hand or do other things actual couples do, and there's a little bit of emotional distance between the two
- seeing a lady enter and then leave in almost exactly an hour and a half or two and a half hours
- seeing the couple enter together and then watch her leave alone about two hours later


An age difference isn't always a dead give away. I personally date men 20 years older then me.  Also, I've been on professional dates with older men I've known well and had employees comment on "what a lovely couple" we make. It's all about body language.

I remember working at an agency in my early days. The driver dropped me off, I did my call. As I walked towards the door to exit, the door man smiled and politely pointed to my left "You're driver's parked behind the mini-van." He didn't recognize me (I rarely went there), but he did recognize the agency driver!

then it's probably justified, and you should do something about it. That motel can't be the only one in the area, so start to mix it up a little. Use a few different ones. When you get too comfortable is when things can happen.

hotel, how many LE calls do you think originate from the hotel staff?  In this economy they are just damn glad to have the room rented, and bring in some bucks.  Now, if guys are stacked up like planes at JFK, it may be a cause for alarm!
Best bet, fing some sleazy, downtown motel.  If a roach crawls up your ass during sex, think of it as a prostate massage by her little helper!

I think this is a reasonable concern for you to have.

Talk to other people in your local escort community, to see if a lot of busts happen at that hotel (or in that local area.)

If it is higher end hotel, they are usually less likely to do this (call LE on a paying customer.)  However, I am sure high end hotels do it sometimes.

From my observations, the low end hotels are the ones that are constantly trying to sweep "riff raff" out, by contacting LE.  Sometimes, the low end hotels even use their own methods for intimidating "suspected criminals" into leaving the hotel.

Why not ask your ATF to switch hotels, next time?

In a lot of hotels in major tourist areas, you can ask the nighttime desk clerk if he recommends a 'paid date'. They really are THAT laid back. As long as everyone is discreet and not bothering other guests or creating a lot of noise, they'll let you be. If there is a problem, they'll ask her to tone it down/leave first, before they'll call the cops.

How do I know? I've personally had a lot of friends who work as night managers at a broad range of starred hotels, desk clerks really don't give a damn, lol.

That was actually posted a couple of weeks ago on a regional board.  The Hotel alerted police to suspicious activity and the police set up stings for several day.  Providers need to realize hotels are not just looking the other way any more and take proper precautions.  Yes your concerns are justified.   Most clever provider change hotels often, direct traffic accordingly, pick hotels with proper access, keep volume low,  change patterns, etc, etc.  The only thing that worries me in your post is you already admit to routine meeting at the same hotel in the Vally.   To me this can spell trouble.  Same hotel, routine meeting,  obviously an incall location if she see other guys there.  They must know her by now if she repeats.  If this lady is an ATF then  you need to find a new place to play before your party gets broken up IMHO.
Doc

I don't know what to say but it does make you nervous if a lady uses the same hotel time after time. What is her cover for being there so frequently?

I had a situation where the provider used the same hotel on a regular (2 or 3 times a month) but had an "arrangement" with the hotel manager. As it turns out as long as he got his time with her for free he turned a blind eye to what ever she was doing.

My concern was what if he was not happy with what he happened to get that day. Would he come blasting in the room asking for more, would he call LE to snag me and get me out of the way so that he could have all the fun?