hello to all i have three questions about providers all answer and help will  be thank full, and ladies your input as well,

1, Is it ok to invite the provider with you to take a shower at the end of our appointment.

2, If your provider hair are long say ass length is it ok to ask her if she can tie her hair for our appointment,

3, Is ok to ask or tell the provider that you would like to see her again and again.

thaks to all in advance.

1.  Yes, the worst that can happen is that she says no.

2.  Same answer as 1.

3.  Absolutelely, that is just what she wants to here.

1- shower afterwards with them good idea-Although some girls are leery of doing so with first time clients. If you do, make sure you leave enough time to do so.

2-Id love it. My hair hinders me from doing what I neeed to do ... I bet alot of girls with long hair would be more than relieved to!

3-Of course it is.. that is if, you were a perfect gentlemen... we'd rather have you coming back than seeing strangers all the time.

1. Yes, but she might say no if she has plans afterward as it could really mess up her hair and make-up.  

2. I don't see why not.

3. Of course.

1. why at the end? huh, providers have a schedule and if she has another appointment after yours, is better to take a shower together when you start...is fun, sensual and you can lick each others body dry too.

2. I have long hair and I like when the guy hold it for me when I am down on my knees sucking his dick. Doing doggie, I like when he grab my hair to ride me like a bitch in heat, licking my neck and  slapping my butt. So why tie it up?

3. yes yes yes!!! at the door, when you are leaving, tell her how much you loved being with her and how much you want to see her again when she is around. Women love to feel "wanted" by a man.

Always remember...providers are like ANY other women. Well, almost!

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-- Modified on 5/7/2006 9:33:17 AM

1)  You can ask but remember she may be meeting friends for lunch later so she might not have her hair products with her to get fixed up again. If it's late at night, it probably wouldn't matter.

2)  My hair is short so I don't have that problem anymore, but I hated it when it was longer and I'd have to keep it out of the way, so ask away.

3) Yes, yes and more yes to that answer. We prefer regulars.

Hope this helps!

Hugs,
Ciara

1. ask, sure,
2. yes, ask,
3.  Have you already met her?  Do you intend to keep coming back?  Sure, tell her!  If this is in your initial inquiry, don't say any such thing.  Most guys who do that up front are lying (or subject to the whim of chemistry) and don't follow through... sometimes I am convinced it is only an effort to get "the best of the best" (which you should be getting anyways) or some special favors with the insinuation that they will become a good regular client.

...the provider who was kind enough to help out.

I agree with all the other respondents on 1 and 2.  However on a first visit I would not tell a lady “that you would like to see her again and again”.  That may be your initial intention. However you may want to change your mind after the glow of the visit has worn off and you have seen other ladies.  I just do it and let my action and not my word tell her I “like to see her again and again”

-- Modified on 5/8/2006 7:48:45 AM

Just a suggestion... hold off on number three until you have had time to really make a good decision on that one... when first starting out in this hobby, it was like being 18 all over again and I wanted to play the field, get some variety etc.  After three years, I have "settled down" and for past year have really "settled down" with two providers I really enjoy in my local area.  One is still active on the boards, they other actually "retired" and now only sees her old regulars and operates under the radar (another world out there).
The "relationship" I have with the two ladies I am currently seeing, is NOT an emotional one, more like we have reached a level of comfort and trust that goes unsaid...

What she does with your requests are up to her.

I say
Yes
Yes
Yes
I love it when I'm asked to dress a certain way, nylons or no nylons a teddy or a dress, etc

I have long hair and I find it gets in the way, but unless I'm asked I always were it down.

Nothing better to end a hot sweaty time with a shower!!I'm going to shower anyway might as well do it together...save water....
Terri