Would someone please tell me the difference between a $300 BJ and a $1000 BJ? C'MON guys, $1000 to drop the same load that the $300 would also drop? Regardless of whether or not you can/cannot afford that, is a $1000 BJ cost-effective?
It's from a prettier and more exclusive...whore of course.
I'm with you...unless you are paying more for the ambiance of an incall location or something special about the GFE experience there is no difference...one of the best BBBJ I ever had was a $100 car date.
Just thinking of the wasted Benjamins.
brought up by those who cannot afford higher price ladies to make them feel smarter... is a Bentley cost effective? who cares? I rather drive that than a Chevy.
but I understand your position.
I like vintage automobiles, and i detest vehicles with a pretentious label. Without sharing too much, I have extensive resources but I have this habit of seeking out the greatest benefit with an average price tag. Not the lowest, not the highest. I don't need Grey Poupon on my food. Regular mustard will suffice. Far too often people attempt to achieve status through their purchases. Bully on that crap.
Summation: I like chevy's
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if you had extensive resources you would not fuss about small change(1K) ..IMHO
I like vintage automobiles, and i detest vehicles with a pretentious label. Without sharing too much, I have extensive resources but I have this habit of seeking out the greatest benefit with an average price tag. Not the lowest, not the highest. I don't need Grey Poupon on my food. Regular mustard will suffice. Far too often people attempt to achieve status through their purchases. Bully on that crap.
Summation: I like chevy's
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Where exactly do they brag about seeing those providers??
I suspect most guy who see expensive providers do not roam TER...
and most expensive providers do not wish to be part of the review system...so if I see such provider where should I brag about it??
I was just about to say the same thing. A car is a car and a BJ is a BJ. It matters to the purchaser the other trappings it comes with. This is a thinly veiled attempt at knocking anyone who charges more than what some or really most TER mongers think should be charged. And you really think those $1000 BJ ladies give a shit what you guys think? You're not even a consideration for them. Thanks for your opinion/thoughts, I just added mine.
the funny thing is that most girls who charge $1,000 do not visit TER or care about it and most guys who pay that do not even know TER exist..
I know. Some other post was asking about becoming high -end...get off here for one, and don't bother with reviews for two. I think most guys and some escorts think that TER is the be and end all of the hobby world. Nearly all my clients don't know it exists, and when they find out about it, don't care for it. There is so much more going on out there.
If you and I went dancing would you allow me to lead? lol.....swallowing that is? LOL
"Would someone please tell me the difference between a $300 BJ and a $1000 BJ?"
Why should I pay for a BJ if I can get them for free?? Answer .. I can't always find a civvy on call that will accommodate me.
Why would I pay $1000 for a BJ if cost was not the object of affection,when I could go elsewhere, and find a BJ for $50 ?
Answer ...It would be more than rare,for the $1000 to have white tongue syndrome.
Looking at it another way. Why do some people eat at expensive restaurants like Citronelle, when they can eat with many others at green lobster? Answer . They feel like the ambiance and food is better according to their taste, at Citronelle, and they would rather eat on dishes that are not used as much. Plus $1000 to some is like $50 to others.
OK you might just be the exception on this board. Thanks ...why is it so damn hard for some to get this very basic principle?
I have driven everything from a 197? Dodge Dart to a 2010 Bentley and in the end I rather drive the Dart as it is the better investment. But then again I do admit that I am white trash. I am in the top 2% of wage earners yet I drive a old beat up Ford Probe. Why? Because at the end of the day I like my money more than any car. I have seen (not professionally) a $1000 dollar an hour escort and I really don't think she any prettier than the $250 ladies that I have seen professionally. I bet the services offered and skill level are comparable at both price points. Heck the most skilled lady I have seen only charged $80 an hour and offered more services than many of the $400 an hour ladies out there do. Please note I don't dispute the ladies right to charge what she wants and if I am interested enough I would pay the $1000 an hour, but I have never have found one I even thought was worth my time much less to pay her for it. I guess I just prefer blue collar ladies to those ladies who dress and act elite to get the bigger bucks. I get that people looking to impress someone is often willing to spend a small fortune on a label when the store brand was made in the same factory, with the same ingredients, using the same recipe for much less. It is a pride thing. And as long as they feel they are getting the moneys worth it is all good. But I have worked way to hard to get my money to waste it on a label such as "high-end escort" when everything but the price tag is the same. Please understand I am not knocking the ladies that charge the big dollars, because if you can find a fool who will pay it, why not? I guess I am mocking the fool who pays it. Paid pussy is never rare no matter how much it costs. If you can buy it so can others, so it is not rare and that is the truth of the matter. Also paying more does not make her safer, as STD's are an equal opportunity issue. There is no guarantee the "high-end escort" even tests. Just like there is no guarantee anyone else tests.
budget of sorts. Regardless if you are a 6 digit, 7 digit or more income, or less than 6 digits, once you start playing with the rent money, car payment, etc.; you are headed down a bad road. Everyone has their own threshold for what they are willing to pay for pussy, cars, or whatever. I don't drive a fancy foreign car; I would just rather spend my $ elsewhere.
what's the difference between a $2 glass of Bud at Joe's corner bar and the $10 version at the lobby lounge of the local Four Seasons?
It's all the frills and atmosphere that often accompany price.
at least none that is based on price. The $1,000 BJ MIGHT be better, but not because it cost $1,000.
When I was a teenager my mom would always contend that I was wasting my money buying designer brand clothes, saying the only difference between the $90 jeans I wore and the ones they sold at Target for $20 was the label on the ass. Probably, but the label was important to me.
But such is life in this land of consumerism, people WILL pay for labels. In the case of a $1,000 blowjob, that label would most often be "Pornstar."
Or a simply stunning woman that you would not otherwise get the opportunity to have sex with.
For every "stunning" woman out there, I'll introduce you to at least one guy who hates her guts. Looks and BJs are not a certainty. One of the greatest BJs I've ever had was from a fat woman with one leg.
That's not what I meant. There is probably no correlation to how nice she is or the quality of the BJ...it's the fact that some guy just has to be with her because of her body and looks.
A Honda can get me from point A to B. But so can a Mercedes..I might want to fork over that much more for the Benz...it still has seats, a steering wheel etc....you get my drift.
I actually give up trying to explain this...everybody gets it with wine, restaurants, cars, suits etc but when it comes to pussy...this crap gets trotted out about why pay X for a BJ when you can one for Y.
And it's always the guys who can't afford X that are crying. Do you hear the guys that happily fork over $1000 for a BJ complaining? No you don't, because they don't care.
...but i am actually kind of agreeing with LIP on this one. i do not believe that women...human beings...can be compared to the purchase of an inanimate object like a designer suit or an automobile. within reason, it can be safely assumed that a Mercedes sedan is going to provide you with a better vehicle than a Chevy sedan...there is superior engineering combined with those little luxurious details which allow for a more comfortable driving experience. your added expense buys you quality you can feel and touch. this is not the case with a living breathing human being, whose physical appearance, no matter how "stunning" to some, is guaranteed to be unappealing to others, who may or may not be a good conversationalist, who may or may not be sexually skilled, who may or may not be an attentive and passionate lover, and who may or may not be in a good mood that particular day. nor does an exorbitant price tag for her time indicate a person of character, honor or quality.
i don't even believe the argument can be made for exclusivity, as the first thought which comes to mind when i come across a website where a woman is charging 1-5k/hour for her time is that she will see whomever is able to pay the tab. she does not care about who these men are, or about the relationships she could potentially develop with them...she cares about what funds he has available. whereas i do not care how much money a man has, if he is not someone i like, and if he is not someone i sense as kind and of good character...i will not see him, period.
i also believe LIP made a valid point in that a woman's physical appearance (which will always be a subjective thing) is not the determining factor in whether or not any given man will be able to have sex with her. as he said, her own sexuality, values, hang-ups, and most especially self-esteem and self-image, play a far greater role.
Excellent comment and commentary. Providers should want to make the most money possible. After all, they are selling their souls on a certain level. Getting very well-heeled guys to pay whatever the price is something I would never put down as negative, but the ones who think that fucking well off men as more special are deluding themselves and will always "owned" by the money.
You can't compare humans with inanimate objects. Price will never make someone more compatible. I can find ladies I am highly attracted to at all price points and offer the same services. The escort I got along with the best was also the cheapest. I often doubled or tripled the money in her envelope as she was worth way more than she charged. Now most people on this board would dismiss her as a low end hooker but she has more class than most anyone else I know. People are people and there value is never should be determined by the money they charge for their time. I have met a few high end escorts and if I where to spend any alone time someone like them they would have to pay me a lot more than they make. In my mind there is no such thing as a elite human, they are just human. When I see a lady I am booking intimate companionship of a human for a set time not a ride in a car. When it comes to people price has no real connection on quality and my ability to connect with her even if it is only for an hour or two.
Notice that nothing in my post was in deference to money. Money is a tool. Money left in the hands of fools will do most anything with it; hence $1000 BJs. That said, the guy who can do it, God bless him, but paying it doesn't make it better.
and I can't picture such a woman.
It seems like there are SO many beautiful women around, at the bar, at the gas station, at the grocery store, walking around the lake...they are everywhere! Not a day goes by I don't see one, and it's never just one. Being "stunning" doesn't seem like such a commodity to me. It's not all that rare. And sex for men, is a numbers game. Thus, a man may not be able to fuck stunning woman number 1, but stunning woman number 4...or 5...????
Nope, it would take more than just good looks to justify $1,000 to me. Even if I was in a situation where I planned to "hobby", I can gaurantee I'd find someone of at least equal looks at a more mainstream rate.
But that's just me. When you HAVE to have something, then you just HAVE to have it, some people are both impulsive and highly suggestable, or put weight on the preceived exclusivity of high priced items. God blessem, that's their problem, not mine.
If bedding gorgeous women were that easy...we would be out of a job. We have been in business for forever...
"easy" is a relative term, is it not? Easy for me, might not be easy for the next guy. Easy for Brad Pitt, maybe not so easy for me.
If you think bedding attractive women is any harder than bedding plainly average ones, you are mistaken. Looks have shit to do with it - it has far more to do with how they value themselves, what their standards are, their attitudes toward their own sexuality, their abilty to cope with stigma, their needs at the moment, I could go on and on here...it obviously makes a difference who the guy is making the attempt, as well.
But maybe because you charge rather than give it away for "free" - as if there really was such a thing as free pussy - that makes you smarter...or at least more of a pragmatist, possibly, I wouldn't argue. But don't let that skew your opinion. The world isn't full of women who look in the mirror and think - THIS is worth money, no matter how attractive.
Not everyone does this because it's their only option. Certainly for some, it is. But that's a whole 'nother topic.
Prostitutes have been in business forever, so have farmers. What's your point.
"Prostitutes have been in business forever, so have farmers. What's your point."
My point is, if bedding the type of woman you want to bed and not the one that is closest was so easy, seeing a prostitute would not be necessary. There will always be older men who want young pussy and the only way that is going to happen is if they pay for it . No shame in that...just a fact of life.
You hear it all the time on this very board. Fifty years old, balding and overweight who wants to have hot monkey sex with spinner who is 25 years old and hot. What do you think his chances are without cash? Or does he keep at it till chic #35 says yes.
I am going to leave this be...I don't feel like getting into a pissing match on a monger board. I respect your opinion even though I might disagree with some of it. We are all hear on TER for a reason...dudes to laid and ladies to get paid.
Like I said, this may be true for some. But the reasons to engage in this so-called "hobby" are numerous - it's not limited to desperation, though some providers might like to think so.
And I don't know that older men are limited to customer status if they want to date a younger girl. Conventional wisdom based on social norms would suggest it, but that's a pretty broad generalization. I'm pretty sure there was mid twenties provider just a few threads down saying she'd rather date a "silver fox" than a younger man, and money was not listed as one of her motivations. When I'm "older" I might have a more definitive answer.
No matter what a mans status or situation, I can not think of any case where I would call hookers "neccessary". Practical, maybe, but it really depends on what a guy wants to get out of it - beyond the obvious.
I'll agree to disagree. This is hardly what I'd call a "pissing match", we haven't even resorted to name calling yet!
Take care. 
actually literbike, i think they pay us more for our lack of drama and messy entanglements than our looks (although those definitely count!). of course, reading this board sometimes with all the stories of heartbreak it could be easy to forget that, lol.
btw, i neglected to add to my previous post that i have no knock against the very high-priced providers at all. they charge what they do because 1. they want the money; and 2. they can get it someone to pay it. it certainly takes a hefty dose of self-esteem, a massive pair of balls, and some serious ambition. but as someone both pretty humble and non-materialistic, i simply can't relate.
LuckyIrishPrick,"When I was a teenager my mom would always contend that I was wasting my money buying designer brand clothes, saying the only difference between the $90 jeans I wore and the ones they sold at Target for $20 was the label on the ass. Probably, but the label was important to me."
Nope, it would take more than just good looks to justify $1,000 to me. Even if I was in a situation where I planned to "hobby", I can gaurantee I'd find someone of at least equal looks at a more mainstream rate.
LuckyIrishPrick"But that's just me. When you HAVE to have something, then you just HAVE to have it, some people are both impulsive and highly suggestable, or put weight on the preceived exclusivity of high priced items. God blessem, that's their problem, not mine."
LMAO..Whats the difference? You paid four and a half times the price for the label because it stroked your teen ego. Perhaps there is ego involved with the guys, who don't mind paying four times more than mainstream providers?.
Maybe they enjoy their bragging rights, more than their money.
I would imagine everyone has been to the club or parties where the guy who has a lot of dough makes a point of telling everyone how rich he is. I couldn't help but notice those guys usually go home alone, and I have certainly seen women turn their nose at them. I have often wondered if they realize what they were doing, was decreasing their odds.
I can imagine booking thousand dollar providers that most of us don't visit,would help those guys ego's.It gives them that feeling of exclusiveness they often desire.
If I won the lottery, I would certainly try out some 1 and 2k providers, just because I can.
Everyone is different.
is when I was a teen, those labels were important. It was a poor neighborhood, most didn't have them. Had I had to depend on my two-job working single mother to provide them, I wouldn't have had them either. So I hustled my ass off so I could afford them, because it meant something to have them in the eyes of people (FEMALE people LOL) whose opinions I shouldn't have given a shit about.
Whaddaya want from a hormonal teenage boy? At that age I might have tattoed a girls name on my prick if I thought it would get her panties on the floor. Trying to rationalize the actions of a teenager is like asking why can birds fly, but flies can't bird.
It was naieve, pretentious, and as I would quickly learn, unneccessary. I got more pussy in college wearing cargo shorts and a beer-stained hoody then I ever did draped in the latest fashion while skipping class in highschool. Luckily I'm older and wiser now or every other post on this board might be me asking "So how do I know if my ATF loves me back?"
So I miss your point here. Because I bought designer jeans as a teenager I should be willing to drop a g-note on a hooker?
Even today, I still, at times, have to dress a certain way to distinguish myself in the eyes of people whose opinions I don't care about...but I have no choice but to seem as though I do. I could give a fuck about a designer suit, but I have to "look the part" in certain situations. Nothing to do with ego.
I'm not interested in lables. If I purchase a high end product it's because the product is of a higher quality in an instance where quality matters to me. But I can't imagine any situation where I'd drop a grand on some head service, being that there is no practical difference aside from ones own perception, and I'm just not that easily impressed.
Maybe it is ego that promps men to pay a rate like that, I dunno. Ask the guy with a two inch cock who found out Extendz doesn't really work so he bought a Porsche instead. Just don't interupt until the $1,000 hooker with her head in his lap is finished.
The one who brag are persons like you who cannot afford Brand goods to begin with...the one who can afford without extra work do not buy it to brag but because for them it is not big deal spend that amt of money..
I am aware of my limitations and I am fine with it and I do not try to rationalize everything based on my belief and certainly do not attack those who have economic possibilities telling them that I am smarter than them because I can get something similar(not quite) at a lower cost. Envy is a bad thing and this post is all about it as simple as that.
Literbike you are so right....
BTW..I rather drive a Bentley myself(Continental GT) than a shitty Chevy..and there is no way you can say they are the same...and I would certainly prefer to live on Park Avenue than Queens...and see 1k ladies.
My point was not of being envious. My point was rather that I respect frugal people above and beyond pretentious morons who spend money frivolously. Before anyone points out; frivolous is relative I know.
Where did you see a mention of the Chevy being shitty. The Chevy's that I drive probably rival most hummers on the road. That is my guilty pleasure; not sex. I can get sex right in the next room from someone much younger and adventurous than most providers on this board.
OK blast away!!! LOL
No you do not see 1k ladies because IKWYA
1. You have no idea what I can afford. Or did you actually figure out that my ATM password is imbedded in my handle? Congrats, I give you permission to withdraw $1,001 - buy yourself a cherry slushy and a 1k blowjob. But you have to share the slushy with her.
2. How the fuck do you know that people who buy 1k blowjobs don't do it to brag? You have no fucking idea why they do it...or do you...Miss Cleo, is that you?
3. How does saying I am too practical and too frugal to blow 1k on a single blowjob constitute bragging? I'm pretty sure I just called myself something only slightly better than a cheap bastard. But if that's bragging to you, then you REALLY won't like it when I tell you about the mole on my ass.
4. You don't rationalize everything based on your belief? Then what...the...fuck...do you use to rationalize anything? Oh yeah, I forgot, you read minds...you just read them in a language you don't speak...
5. Call your fifth grade teacher for a refresher course on reading comprehention skills. Saying I choose not to do something is not an attack on someone who does. Saying something does not make sense to me is hardly the same as bashing their I.Q. On the other hand, I do seem to be bashing yours, don't I? Read my mind and tell me if that's true.
6. Envy is a bad thing. But I do not envy anyone who drops 1k on BJ. I think I made that abundantly clear in about a half dozen posts. quite the contrary. But I think perhaps you envy my ability to articulate a rational opinion not fueled by an emotional breakdown like the one you seem to be having. But I, sir, DO envy your psychic powers, so shame on me.
and they are not as snob as some might think ...they just choose to spend their time with a different kind of hobbysts...some of them started at low rates and were just fed up of the continuous haggling of rates and overall attitude that hobbyst who fish at the low rates engage.
Peace
To someone making $50,000 a month $1,000 is 2% of his pay, to someone makeing $300,000 a month it's .333% a rounding error in his budget. A lot of this stuff goes on expence reports. If a salesman is enteraning clients from Germany, England he not going to brag over breakfast, gee that escort cost $200 an hour, was she nice? The whole point is to entertain at a level the client would never dream of doing himself in his private life.
I once expenced $14,000 for a dinner for 4 in NY. Do you think the lamb chops and wine were any better at the Tavern on the Green than at the MGM. We were in the process of selling a Falcon Jet for 7.5M. the 14K was a rounding error on the expence report.
Where do I find them? Seriously?? Inquiring minds want to know??
