gentlemen-

1st timer here, I've been looking around and notice a lot of the girls want references. How do you start that process?

Thanks for your help.

I'm in the twin cities.

While many ladies will only see you if you can provide a verifiable reference from another provider, there are plenty of ladies who will accept other forms of verification. Some providers will see you if you are a member of such services as RS2K or Date-Check, other providers will accept work information (i.e. phone number) still others will agree to see you if you first meet them in public. No rules. The security verification process can be quite extensive or quite lax depending on the lady. Remember, all a provider cares about is her safety. She wants to make sure you are who you say you are, that you will show up on time, leave the donation at the start, and cause her no problems before, during or after the session. To that end you must accept whatever the lady chooses to use as a method of verifying her clients.

If it’s your first time and you have no references then you will have to find a lady who is willing to see you without a reference. If you do your research you will be able to find such a provider. Once you have seen a few ladies, you can now utilize them (with their permission of course) as references. Please understand that if you really want to see a lady but she will only see you if you have a reference, that you will simply have to move on to another provider. References are for the ladies' peace of mind.

Read the Newbie boards for more information and an overall discussion of the hobby and what to expect.

homely or plain!!!!!!  Get more selective Hardy!

Seriously though, Hardy's advice good, plus-

at the top of the FAQ for Newbies board there is a TER instruction manual link- read everything in it!

See only ladies with multiple reviews by reveiwers who have written multiple reviews (like Hardy!)

Be prepared to give your real name, employer, phone number for verification/screening - if you are seeing an experienced, well reviewed provider your info will be treated properly- after they verify you are who you say you are (with a driver license check on arrival) - you info will be gone in most cases.

agencies are also a consideration. Most are very discreet but you will have to provide info.

If there is a local TER board in your area ask about what agencies are available.

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