I have met a fair number of providers over the years I have been hobbying.  Some enjoy sex, and a lot of it.  Though I suspect thats not the prime motivator for them; making money is, but some great sex is a pretty nice side benefit to the work.  Some, go through the motions, and you can tell they arent really into the sex (maybe once in awhile or once upon a time, but not now).  These ladies are totally doing it for the money.  I wondered if anyone has come across a true nymphomaniac.  The dictionary defines it simply as "Excessive sexual desire in and behavior by a female.".  I think we all know it to be someone who is constantly aroused and looking to get sexually satisfied over and over again.  I wonder if the hobby would attract women of this kind...I mean you could fill up your dance card as often as you want and hey make a good buck at it too.  So for the providers on this board, along with the hobbyists....has anyone come across a bonefide nympho will hobbying and/or providing?

I guess it depends on what your definition of excessive is, but Naughty lil' Natalie comes the closest. Loves sex and gets turned on by getting paid for it.  Coming close are:
Christina Richards (a major subbie)
Samantha Good
Chloe Carter
Nikki Irish
Reagan Moore
No knock on any of the others I've seen, almost all of whom are hot, horny women, but the ladies above bring a level of gusto to their work that is mind-blowing.

From personal experiences only, I have encountered several woman that have described themselves as nympho's. To a guy this may sound like a great thing, and to be honest, all of them were incredibly passionate providers. But two admitted it is problematic for them.

They explained, both in their own way, that their "thirst" can never really be quenched. It is a mind fk for them, constantly interfering with their daily activities. One has even gone for professional help, so she said. Now there werent one off women but ladies I got to know over many encounters.

The money is secondary to these women, believe it or not. They would be having multiple weekly and sometimes daily sex partners anyway, so why not also cash in on it at the same time, so was their rationale. Who am I to arguw with that?

Providers - I've come across some who truely enjoy the experience and have a real physiologic reaction.  One in my home city almost passes out... but I have noted on her reviews, it alas is not my skill rather her being into the act and orgasm...  

Another well, we had a connection and she was into it.  I suspect that she may have her favorites and be into them as much as they are into her...

Strippers.... in this instance, I think I have found a number who anyone they can get into the champagne room - gets services!  In fact, I know they are nymphomanics cause they can make the same $$ without providing "the services!"

Some ladies will gladly proclaim "I'm a nymph! Lets fk!" But having a strong sex drive and someone really addicted to sex, is quite different.

I love my Miller Lite (I hope Curly doesnt report this as an ad) after work, but I dont ever feel "addicted" to having it. I've gone weeks without drinking and its no biggee. These women I am talking just dont NEED to get off 8, 9, 10 times a day. They HAVE to.

PM me and I'll send you their TER profile #. LOL.

I have but it was my sugar mamma, she is 17 years older than I am and could not get enough so the least I could do was oblige lol.

I have not seen her in about 10 years. How funny would that be if I saw her and got the money to pay for my SB?

MM

You can't be making "Real Men Of Genius" commercials and drinking Miller Lite!
I'm gong to report your post to Anheuser Busch!!


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.......insatiable when it comes to all things sensual.  One woman that I see regularly certainly enjoys the $$$, but the fact that P4P gives her a constant source of hard cocks to play with is very important to her and she has skills that would thrill any man with a pulse.  A perfect combination, hot looks, great skills, and a nympho!!

One of my regulars attacks me as soon as I get in the door.  Before you know it, we are naked and going at it in the foyer.  LOL.  Happens every time I see her.  It is nothing but wall to wall action the entire time.  It takes me at least a week to recover after seeing her.  

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no buzz in water....ROFLMAO

Fuck !!! I get bad reputation for following rules...

You fuckers...

Heck with the rules now...  Fuckers !!!

There are more than enough men willing to have sex w/ about anything, so if a woman is just desiring sex now b'c nothing else in life satisfies her and she must have it now and over again now...she can get it without spending time taking photos and posting ads. too time consuming just for a fuck

If a lady really wants to just fuck, that's what she'll do. Nymphos (unless unattractive) don't have to worry about that or become escorts to meet that need. So the moment they become escorts, money is the ultimate reason b/c if sex was really their goal (THEY JUST HAVE TO HAVE IT!!!!), they would just walk into any bar, locker room, and fuck all the men who cant wait to do it (there's lots of them btw).

What you've experienced is a smart business woman who happens to love sex, an nice aspect of the work she chose to make a living. I'm sure there are things about your work you enjoy, but the money is first and foremost.



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Amen!

Why is it not possible for you to imagine that there are women who love to fuck, need to fuck, and are smart enough to figure out they also don't have to give it away?  I know a few of them.  They actually do exist. In fact, part of the thrill for them is the act of getting paid.  And of living on the other side of the law. Please don't assume you know everything about everyone.

Very nice redhead about 12 years ago. She came to town with agency so she was not low volume. She used to have toys with her. I saw her several times, she loved daty a lot, and to fuck a lot. used to do 3-4 hr sessions that left me drained. She had this little vibrating thing she would put on her clit. She confided to me that she would masturbate constantly. Even if she had sex with several guys during the day she would masturbate at night. On her days off she would use  her vibrating thing for hours. Never knew any woman as oversexed as her.

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I don't know if I can stand the language around here anymore.

And come on, I don't even get an honorable mention as white knight? Golly I don't know what else I could do lol.

MM

sorry, it's just that!

I was a legitimate nympho at one point....but the ladies you're talking about are paid ones. I assure you that unless they pick clients who they're attracted to (and hopefully fit their pussies and satisfy them right), they don't want to fuck everyone who pays them nor do they enjoy it. What a REAL pleasure from a REAL nympho! Sorry but once it becomes a job, it's different. I'm sure even if you sucked in bed, she'd tell you she's a nympho and has to have you NOW!

As a nympho I only had sex w/ men I was attracted to. As an escort, that has not always been the case, b/c it's a job and I have to approach it as such...a business. It's one thing to do it on your terms and only with men you want it and need it from vs. men who pay you.

think what you want, but the moment money is mixed into anything, the genuine factor goes out the window.............

I love smart business women.

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I understand your story is legit for you.  But it's not the only way women work in this world.  Where your scenario fails is when you apply your own personal situation to everyone else, which was my point.  I have experience with some of these women and it is different than yours.  You need to be less judgmental and expand your horizons.  Your personal experience is valid for you.  Not for everyone else.  "There are 8 million stories in the naked city."

Not us, not you, unless you can read their minds. Please keep in mind that what you said is exactly what clients WANT to hear. I'm trying to count the amount of times I've heard that repeated to me by clients about other girls I've known, just can't even. There might be some truth to it, but there's way more to this than LOTS OF SEX!! ADVENTURE!! FREEDOM!! That's a face presented to you as a client. I don't care how well you think you know somebody, you'd have a different conversation if you could speak woman, lol.

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about what I know and what my relationships are.  The relationship goes beyond strictly P4P with several women.  I don't have to simply take anyone's word for what they do and why they do it.  You'll just have to take that on faith.  Not everyone fits into a cookie-cutter view of this world.  You can believe it or not.  I don't really care.

NEEDING it from you. She might just go back to knitting or maybe having sex with a man she really enjoys and is attracted to, which can't be the case for all of her clients unless she request photos of them (faces, bodies and penises) beforehand. NOTE: This isn't to say a lady can't meet some attractive and fitting (in the right way) clients that are more than enjoyable. One of my fav clients is the best sex I've ever had, but that's him, not all of them....

Just saying, do you think a nympho wants to have mediocre or bad sex with anyone? How many of her clients do you think are better than mediocre or bad? Do you think if she was really a nympho and wanted to make sure she enjoyed sex with every client (otherwise it would be a JOB right?) she would make sure she physically screened every new client properly to make sure she would actually enjoy the sex she needed to have?

Sorry but being a nympho does not mean having sex w/ any and everybody even if their sex is mediocre or bad, but for some women that's what it means when it's a job and they are PAID for sex....

When I was new, I told everyone I got laid off from my old job bc I masturbated all the time, and fucked a few ppl during work hours lolol. I thought I sounded ridiculous, but damn those guys ate it up!!! Later on, I dropped it, lol. But I've heard that line so many times...along with endless other variations.

I like sex as much as anyone, but sex isn't why I'm here. It's more like...if I'm at work and there's free donuts, I'll eat one..lol


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hate men when I say not all escorts really love their clients even if they share affectionate letters, etc.

ok.

And you're right, no one knows. I just know when I was a nympho totally about free sex and wanting to fuck all the time, it was only w/ people I found physically attracted. That is not always the case when it comes to meeting complete strangers (clients) for $$$$$$$$$$$$$$ (money changes everything, motivations, etc), but being a nympho is the perfect thing to tell clients and I do, b/c they love hearing about how much I have to have sex all the time. I think it makes them feel better than thinking they're having sex w/ someone who isn't totally interested or would rather be volunteering to help fight hunger issues or whatever strikes a lady's fancy.

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You are trying to force my experience and relationships into your own pre-conceived notion.  Too bad you can't imagine anything beyond your own limited experience.  And it's not just me.  I know of several others who have relationships with providers (several of them are married to them) where the provider needs to work outside the marriage because of her own particular needs.  In some cases the male is not happy with her needs but loves her despite this and supports her.  Sorry your view of the world is so limited.  I have no interest in trying to convince you that you just don't know everything on this subject.

I don't pay her.

I LOVE sex.  Think about it all the time, spend an enormous amount of time researching toys and positions, cannot wait for the next time I see my partner and afterward fantasize and masturbate to the memories.  Love penetration - teasing and slow or hard and fast, doesn't matter, just fuck me!!! COF, CIM, kissing, anal when I am really in a moment, bondage, ass slapping, biting, scratching, light choking...  Sex with me is full contact and I do not stop...

I have been called insatiable and I think that is probably true.  Because the more I have it, the more I want it.  Would love to have a large group session involving multiple men and women to see if I could get enough.  But...

Accepting money for having sex would be difficult for me.  I don't see anything wrong with women or men working as providers. I think P4P should be legalized. But it's not right for me.  I want sex as much as men and it would feel weird to me to charge them for it, because I appreciate all that men physically do for me and money would throw off the balance.  Honestly, there are times I have felt like I should pay the guy.  I know there are times when I have pushed a few guys to their physical limits.  When I have been told that their dick needs a "rest" from me.  

ANd with all that said... I can definitely see where a woman would get off on being paid.  I personally have a fantasy of acting as a provider and then walking out of the session, leaving the envelope.  Disable the phone and email the moment we are done.  Why?  I don't know, any more than we know the primary motivator for any fetish.  It just is.

That is all WOTW was trying to say. I was a total slut in high school and through undergrad, but that does not mean I would have ever dreamed of being a hooker then.  Why? Because half the guys we see are men we would NEVER fk for free, as in they are not good in bed, not attractive, etc. That's the cold, hard truth. If all I wanted was sex, I would not have to look far to get in in a daily basis, and from someone I actually LIKE fkin, not some "on demand" act, I am being paid for.

I don't buy anyone claiming to love sex with just anyone regardless of how disgusting they are..that's total bs. If they do, it's not even about the sex but about the attention they need because of psychological issues. Many women have to work as providers because of some traumatic experience they endured, where they were made powerless. Being a provider makes them feel they have that power back...nothing to do with sex, in many of these instances.

Inicky is saying that there are nymphos in P4P and I agree, but I also agree with WOTW when she says, even nymhos have freaking some kind of standards. Yes, there were drunken nights when I woke up with a guy thinking, "WTF...really? I just had sex with you?" That however, was a lack of judgment, not an act of being a nympho. I don't know any one, man or woman, who would literally just fk anything, and that is what P4P illustrates. Many women here will fk anything for money, because they need it, NOT because they actually want to fk said guy.



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She is an old, married woman wanting to fk a young, hot guy...that's just reality. If I were freaking 60, a 43 year old with a nice c*ck, nice body, big blue eyes, and mad skills, would appeal to me too, but that does not make me a nympho. It makes me a damn cougar. If she were out fkin EVERYONE, that would make her a nympho.

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I guess someone should ask if anybody has ever known one.

I actually saw one of the girls he is talking about.
(And I'm not sucking up to you nick, because of the other day)
There are girls out there who really do get a kick out of the whole bending the law thing.
Shit! I do too. Part of the excitement with P4P is the fact that it's bad.
I can't be the only person who gets that kind of thrill out of it.

I see your point, she wasn't out fucking the whole baseball team.

That's a damn good description of me too btw. You say if you were 60, would that same guy appeal to you if you were roughly half that age?

Can I use that in my reviews lol.

MM

I have never been confronted with a significantly obese man, one missing teeth, with hygiene issues or that is rude.  ALL things that would be a deal breaker for me.   And in those instances, yes, I would have to fake it through.  

and I think I know who you mean.  Honestly, I don't even know if she's an out-and-out nympho but she loves the whole lifestyle for sure.  I know several other guys who've seen her, all highly experienced mongers, and they agree.  In fact, I know two guys who partied with her and her friend in Vegas and the two girls attacked one of them after a party and had their way with him.  No money was involved.
Now, of course they don't do this all the time and not with everyone.  But they do love getting paid to fuck.
Are they nymphos?  I don't know.  Would they fuck just anyone for money?  I doubt it. But to reduce the subject to rigid categories is just silly.  That's where WOW and I part company.

Tell her that since you're the only one she booked for the day(she's low volume) that you'd be more than willing to extend your time together so that you can satisfy her insatiable needs. Then let her know that you didn't bring additional money but since she just has to have non-stop sex, that shouldn't matter, righy?

If she says no thx, shes not a nympho. Remember that she just has to have it, needs to have it non-stop!!!

Otherwise if she says yes to having non-stop sex with u for free, then she's a real nympho who needs and has to have sex non-stop!!!

Theres the ultimate test.

That wouldn't work for me. I'm no stud in the sack.

She would want me outta there!
Replace me with someone with skills.

I think it's more of a sexual appetite thing?
Nympho has two meanings really.
One is the figurative.

Then there is the actual sex addict.
The real Nymphomaniac is more like a drug addict.
I don't think that is what they mean.
Real nymphomaniacs don't go around telling people that..

On the other hand.
I have met girls here that were so sexually charged..
I had to say mercy, and cover my cock.
I have no idea if they actually had some define able condition..
Frankly that is none of my buisness.

Then I have met girls who were more civie.
Where massage, and cuddling are part of the date.
I guess it's sorta GFE vs PSE?
Neither is better than the other. Just different.

I go with the flow when I see an escort. I don't really make demands or anything like that.
I haven't had to. The lady usually takes the lead.
Because of my timid approach. I have gotten a chance to observe how different escorts handle a client like me.
Some are very hard core. Some are not..
I think that is the root of the point.

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A true Nymphomaniac does things they regret for sexual pleasure.
Like masturbating in places you shouldn't.
Or fucking the nearest person to you because you have to. Regardless of anything.

I have big doubt that you were an actual nympho.
You don't talk like the people I just read...
They were more like drug addicts.
It's way different.

Escorts who have sex with one or two men a day are not nymphomaniacs unless they are also seeking out other sexual partners for free in their "off time". It isn't likely that a nymphomaniac would seek out work as a prostitute unless she were working a busy street where she could have sex multiple times per day, or a busy agency where she could see ten clients a day (or more)

Women who become satisfied having a lot of sex are not nymphomaniacs, because nymphomaniacs are never satisfied. That is the nature of the addiction, they truly cannot get enough, and rarely get significant pleasure from the individual act, it is always about the next encounter, and the next. Like any addiction, it is not a happy place, and feeding the addiction (with another man, or another pipe, or another needle) only temporarily calms the beast and provides relief, not pleasure.

We call women who really enjoy sex "nymphos" because it is "natural" for man to want a lot of sex, but for women, it's kind of dirty and she MUST have some kind of psychological condition. Ladies, if you really enjoy sex, you are probably NOT a nympho. But if, while having sex with a desirable partner, you are always fantasizing about the NEXT encounter - and if, at the end of the day, you never feel satisfied or satiated, then you might be a nympho.