I'm not particularly fond of cooking my ATF on a grill though. I'm no cannibal.

I'd rather get a penny for every time MP67 uses the word fuck. lol

Does it include slipping under the table after the waiter finishes taking the order, hiding under the table cloth, and giving me a BBBJ? That's always been a fantasy of mine since seeing it in a movie. If no, then no thanks. I have no problem finding attractive women to take out to dinner.

That's worse then paying $300 an hour to watch them sleep.

but I don't fucking pay them for the privelege. lol As a matter of fact, there is one in particular that I have to fight for the check. I usually win, but that's besides the point.

I can't imagine paying for "time and companionship" I pay for NSA sex, pure and simple. I enjoy the company of women, and I too don't really like to dine alone, but I am with LP here, if I am paying a woman "for her company" I expect to be having her for dessert.

Paying for "companionship" might be enough for some guys, but I am a horndog and have no interest in paying to "not have sex", sheesh I could get married again if that's what I wanted. lol

but I would rather forego dinner than sex.

I guaratee you, I have have enough energy to share dinner with someone, I will have more than enough energy for sex.

Sorry but this "service" has no appeal to me whatsoever. I imagine there must be someone to whom this would seem like a great idea, but not me.

I guess you could call it the "FCDE" (first civvie date experience" where you not only get to pay for dinner, not get laid, but pay for "her time" as well. lol No Thank You.

Which I suspect was the real purpose of this thread to begin with.

Don't worry, you haven't broken any rules, but it is what it is.......

I've noticed on a few providers' sites that they offer a Dinner Date Only option. No-one I know offers this option and l like the idea of it - I think a lot of men would enjoy that too.

What do you think - is that an option used much, is it an option that would find favour?

Tamara G x

and majority of them (myself included) do so because it fits their business model and personalities.

Lina

Ha ha!

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I'm not particularly fond of cooking my ATF on a grill though. I'm no cannibal.

I'll bet if I said out loud that I will pay any woman to go to dinner with me (which I'm paying for) and nothing else will happen after that then I would have more women than the city has restaurants.

If someone wants a dinner date only then they must be awfully lonely or awfully stupid.

Low road my ass, you should have seen what I was going to post. rofl

Sorry I am not "high brow" enough to appreciate getting fucked without getting laid. This is a fuck board after all. This crap about paying for time and companionship is exactly that, CRAP!!!

Hey, if you find a couple of guys willing to shell out five hundred bucks to watch you stuff your face with something besides their dick, more power to you. Different strokes, and all that shit.........

they may simply have different needs than yourself, needs which aren't easily fulfilled by simply inviting some random woman out to dinner for the evening. i used to have a weekly dinner arrangement with a particular friend. we would go out for a meal/drinks/pool/live music, etc. however these outings were never one-on-one, we always spent the evening with a group of his friends, of which he had many. at the time he was in the midst of a legal separation but still having to share a home with a woman who made him miserable. my role on our dates was to be his attentive, adoring, engaging and intelligent "girl on the side" so that his friends would not view him as someone to be pitied. initially i questioned whether or not i should agree to such an arrangement, being a very shy person as well as a terrible actress. but i'm so glad i gave it a shot...his friends were warm and welcoming from the start, and i never had to "act" at all because i quickly grew to be very fond of this man. we continued the dinner-only arrangement for about 3 months, after that he made the decision to begin using me as nature intended.

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Even just $0.02 each, and I'd need a new tax guy.

When I see your pics, I just want to sink into your pussy. You will have time to eat after the deed is done.

Go ahead and run an ad on EROS for dinner dates only. See how far it gets you.

This is a really interesting thread (for me) because I was recently talking with a provider about hanging out and listening to music or watching a movie/concert on TV ... basically just a hang out session.   I agree with the sentiment that we all have different needs.  One of my fav things to do is have a quiet evening in ... make a simple dinner together, then watch a concert or something on TV or sit by the fire (and that's it, no services).

My problem is -- and I suspect this comment will be met with some criticism --  I can't see paying the typical rate for 2, 3, or more hours to do this.  In no way am I implying how a lady should run her business, or that her time isn't valuable, etc.   As someone who has done consulting (different area of course) I wouldn't typically give my clients a different rate if they wanted less than what I could offer.

So, I have never brought this up with anyone I see regularly (my atf especially) because it would come across as haggling, but, with one provider in particular, is that I know we've had availability during the same time as she is somewhat low volume, yet we don't meet up.  I know she's mentioned she'd welcome doing this kind of date, but feel it's inappropriate to bring up the rate.  

I know enough from my experiences and reading the boards to assume, always, that the standard rate applies regardless of activity.  Still, my situation can't be unique so would be curious if any ladies out there have special arrangements with some of their regular clients.

the last post?  Not so much.  But, hey, nobody bats 1.000! (I sure don't).
PS:  LP are you sure you're not being over-protective of that other drunken Asian you pal around with?

No, I'm from England - we tend to like the macabre!

Eating dinner alone does suck at times.  Even so, if I'm going to pay a stranger to eat with me, she had better be prepared to go back to the room when the meal is over and eat me for dessert.  I have no problem striking up a conversation with a total stranger in a restaurant or the line at customs.  Just having company doesn't provide me much value.

who's going to keep their hands off you, hottie...a little too tired, indeed.

Flattery will get you... ahem... a lot of places!

an escort friend on the west coast told me about a girl who gets paid just to provide company to an older gentleman. No, she's not paid like a nanny either, she gets paid as an 'arrangement'.

The only time I might consider a subsidized dinner date without the dessert is if I'm the one getting paid. LOL    

In fact, technically, it has happened many times. lol Plenty of business related dinner with ladies some who are very good looking and many times it's the girl paying for it a(usually her company, but sometimes her).. and for several hours of her time. Some of them have become friends and still KIT. Of course, the girl or the girls' employers are always after something I got but that's a different story.

Point is, if there's no flintstone "bed rock" action afterwords, what difference does it make?

she has no real interest in exploring the "reduced fees" part of the deal.  Your idea is solid, and for a guy who is interested in spending time outside the bedroom this is something I would think would be a winner.  Where it is not good for a lady (as my gal indirectly suggested) is that there could be opportunities that are lost for her higher rates (and I am assuming you, or any gal on a dinner date wouldn't be replying to emails/texts/phone calls for a session).

But if you are seeking a longer term arrangement with a guy (or as in my case, looking for that long term arrangement with a lady), I would strongly advocate that ladies consider what you are suggesting (at least I would advocate for this type of a relationship).  Unfortunately, I think there is a very small minority who can see and understand the value of this type of relationship.

I was just paying for dinner.  Dinner and her time? No way.  If you really enjoy the companionship part of the equation, then take her out to dinner first, and then back to the room to fuck.  Easy.

There is business in the Dinner Date Only side of the market, but you have to be aware that this is a completely different market then the gentlemen who choose to book BCD dates.  

The gentlemen who book Dinner Dates often feel there is a difference in class structure between ladies with dinner only and ladies who offer hourly (even two hour) appointments.   Now this class difference is mostly imagined, but whether real or not, what matters is the common patrons of these ladies BELIEVE IT SO. Understanding that is an important element in marketing in ANY business.

They want to see less nudity on the website. They want the nudity they do see to be artistic in nature.

They are also far more likely to book overnights, multiple days and vacations extending up to a week.  

They are generally men actively looking for a woman they want to see regularly.

They are NOT reviewers. If you go to the dinner date market, don't count on getting reviews. Most of them find discussion boards to volatile and rude for their tastes and will never participate.

They want to see discounts for longer times.  If you charge $400 an hour for a dinner date of 4 hours, then a date of 6 hours should be charge at maybe $300 an hour etc...  That tells them you appreciate them, and it tells them you PREFER longer dates, not just economically but because of the quality of the time you spend together.

On the high capacity range you're likely to get 3 dates a week. On the low capacity you're likely to get 2-4 dates a month.

Hope that will help.

I always thought that the "Dinner Date" was basically an extended appointment, with all the usual amenities, along with dinner sometime w/in that timeframe....  but w/the "only" throw in there, I guess that may change exactly what happens. And I agree, there are certain gentlemen who are only interested in a companion to escort them to events, or who travel and do not like to dine alone, but aren't interested in the sexual aspect of things. Different strokes for different folks... that's the beauty of this... there's someone for everyone!

But as you so succinctly put it, there are ladies who look to provide this type of service, and I believe it is a relatively small percentage of the gals who advertise in total.  And it takes a lady who is looking (as you put it) for that long term patron who is interested in much more than BCD with a lady.

OK not for you, but I think it's relevant to a lot of people. Personally for me sleep comes first, food second - ecstasy third. I'm definitely not talking about drugs here.

as long as it's OTC.  I really do enjoy their companionship but can't see paying not to have sex.  Same thing for sleep-overs.  I mean, you're not even conscious then!  I do get it; some guys are lonely and need that kind of companionship.  It's just not for me, maybe because I've been married twice and am working on my second divorce.  In fact, what I've learned about relationships is that you need to spend a lot of time apart in order to make it work.  As they say, "familiarity breeds contempt."  And I would never want to feel contempt for you lovely babes!  Still, I really enjoyed dinner out with one great girl a couple of weeks ago.
PS:  BUT !  If I could figure out a reasonable deal to have a couple of you visit me on my remote island -- and you know who you are -- I would do it in a heartbeat.  Call me!

But not a $350-400 hour. That's ludicrous.

My reasons for booking such a service may be uncommon amongst clients, I wouldn't know. But here's why: I'm interested in the personality of a woman I spend time with. I have met providers for whom I have no 'interest in' after meeting, wbut the session has already begun. I hate that. Additionally, my interests in a more intimate exchange do not run along the standard lines. (I'm not talking freaky here! LOL!)

For me, such a "date" would give me the opportunity to see if a provider is a correct fit, before I waste both of our time and my money in a more conventionsl session.


HH

Ha ha! That's a first! That I heard of. But experienced? Have to think about that but off the top of my head would say it's probably more.

Tamara G x

about what the review categories would be for dinner dates only?
Masticated her food properly? ___yes ____no.
Belched or farted at table?     ____yes____no.
Ordered the most expensive food and wine?  ___yes ___no.
Groped the wait staff?  ____ yes  ____no.
Picked teeth/nose at table? ____yes ____no.
Came back from rest room with coke in nostrils? ___yes ___no.
Got drunk and vomited at table/at curbside?  ____yes ___no.
Pronounced escargots/endive/souffle correctly? ___yes ___no.
You get the idea.

But it does take a lady who has decided to build her model to incorporate this type of "date".  Many ladies put on their site their extended hours donations and, in many cases, its not the type of dates they are really seeking.  Hence, the irregular pricing as I interpret that the lady is not looking for "clock free" dates, rather the higher profit one hour date (or at least they believe it is a higher profit date).

Knowing you, that road isn't that low.  I expected far worse, and frankly I believe that the criticism is kinda warranted.  It may not have been her primary motivation, but I'm guessing it was on her list of reasons.

Do understand some men would not walk into restaurant to eat. Many of the colleges I know get room service. If I am traveling alone, I have no problem with going to any restaurant by myself. In most cases, I have met many people going by myself, sitting at the bar waiting for a table.

Some men won't go to a party by themselves either, I do, isn't it great place to meet women. Really, no one pays any attention whether you are eating at restaurant by yourself or 10 other. All matter of self confidence.

Any legitimate response would be so over your head. Don't bother going there with a pun (if you had that much education....).

I didn't think my attempt at humor was a dig at anyone, you in particular.  It just gave me an amusing idea.  If you don't find it funny, fine, but why the snide response?  Perhaps gambler's gotten you in a bad mood.  Too bad.  Enjoy your evening.  Take a happy pill or something.
PS:  And if you think this is bad, please, never, ever go on the P&R Board.

'I really don't consider this site a good source of good clients' mean you're just slumming it? I mean, you seem to have spent most of the day 'lowering' yourself to hang out and talk with us that are undeserving of your company and wit.

Is this another instance of your British humour? You find the macabre amusing, as well as wasting your time with us lowly pondscum?

You know, if I remember correctly, I think I went off on you and your shitty attitude a while back on the NM board. Posting your ad, talking up how much you missed the guys there, blah, blah, blah.

But recently, you posted again, and I told you were hot. I tend to let most things lie. But just now, you exhibited the reason why I felt then what I feel now.

You're a stuck-up bitch. Just cuz you're British? Bitch, please! You're a fucking hooker. The only difference is, you spent more money to get here than the ones that actually live here.

That, and most of the ladies here don't feel the need to make the 'gents' think they've been blessed with their presence, unlike yourself.

Your body's hot. But your attitude sucks ass. As long as you kept your mouth shut unless it involved sucking a dick, I'm sure you are a wonderful provider.

I'm not willing to find out, though....

Tamara,

I do think there is a market for a dinner-only dates albeit a very small one, but I would have to agree that I wouldn't pay the standard rate to simply meet you for dinner.

I would consider offering to buy you dinner as a token of my gratitude AFTER our meeting and OTC, but I would feel like such a loser if I paid simply to watch you scarf down a meal.

Only possible reasons to do this I can see are:

1.  Make another woman jealous.
2.  Impress a co-worker or client
3.  Perform a meet and greet to make sure things are safe to escalate to a "spicier menu".

my .02

but I can't disagree with a single point you made. lol

Actually I find it amusing to find a woman coming on a fuck board hoping to find a way to get paid for NOT FUCKING!!!

Am I the only one who thinks that maybe she just doesn't like to fuck and is looking for a way to still make the big bucks without putting out? Maybe she should just become a stripper? They don't have to put out either, but she would probably consider that "beneath her" Where the fuck is Hirogen when you need him?

As someone has already suggested, we all have different needs at different times.  I am a bit of a foodie and really enjoy fine dining.  The cherry on top is sharing that experience with a lovely lady and the engaging conversation she brings.  

The value of my donation is determined by how I enjoyed the experience, not by checking physical activities off of a list.  

Ultimately, it's my money and our time. We can spend each as we choose.

If I ever booked a provider, it was because she impressed me as a complete person.

One thing I asked myself was if I would be willing to pay her *anything* just to join me for dinner, and if the answer was no -- I wouldn't book her at all, not even for sex.

The thing is, shit can come up. My schedule sucks out loud, and all of the prep before and after a date that includes sex is not always something I could squeeze in easily; so on a couple of occasions I've seen ladies just for lunch/dinner because I simply couldn't squeeze in all the showering, ass-shaving, yada yada that is part of good hobby prep and aftermath.

I would encourage providers to offer this option generally; and instead of phrasing it as a "no-sex" date, phrase it as a "public date."

I'm a foodie too and feel that great food in great company is one of the better pleasures of life.

It's sad that you feel like that, and that you can get away with talking to a woman like that on this board.

I don't know what set you off but here's the facts - no, I don't meet most of my clients from this board. That said, I do know some great guys who visit this board and even consider them friends. Yes, a couple are in NM and I really do miss travelling to NM and seeing the people I know.

Those facts are totally innocuous, why you would take them any other way is beyond me.

A woman raising any question at all on this board can be construed as advertising. Should that mean that ladies should refrain from raising any issues at all to suit you?

You don't like women much, so I guess that's what you'd like. I can't imagine it would be good for the board though.

I love women! Some of my best friends are women. My moms a woman, lol!

You're just here for the publicity and stir up shit.

Wish I had a dollar for every post you did in the last couple days. Gambler and I would get totally fucked up!

Awesome!  If 3 dates a week are too much for you, you'll do well in the dinner date market.

Lets put it this way: If you get 3 legitimate requests a week that seem like they'll actually book, and that's too much, time to raise your rates.