Im still a newbie but i was wondering how often you guys have a provider at your house? All of my 4 sessions have taken place at hotels or once at a providers home. Dont you have security concerns about bringing over a provider, maybe Im just be paranoid. But I have some very expensive electronics in my living room. Any insight would be helpful

If you're worried, you're seeing the wrong providers.

I don't think it's fair to lump all providers as low-lifes.  Like people in general, some providers are crooks and some are extremely trustworthy. If you're getting together with someone you think may steal from you, someone you think needs money for drugs or for her pimp, I would advise against seeing her regardless of the location.  

Kate

I love to see guys in their homes!  They get to show off their stuff (Hey babe, lemme show ya my gun collection!!) and they're on their own turf.  Of course, if they be married, there's another dimension.  I will NOT fuck in the conjugal bed!!! No way!  Take me to the guest room, the romper room or the back seat of that 58 Olds 88 you've been working on in the garage (preferably), but not there!  But other than that, it's just goofy and usually gives me a good chance to see what's in the fridge and to catch a photo of the Mrs.

As for the electronics...why don't we just sit down on the sofa in your living room, dim the lights, and you can put on Delirium so it fills the room and I'll put my head in your lap and you can put your hand on my hip, and we'll snuggle until something comes up....

Hey Hey Hey,  We are whores, not thieves.  We provide a service for pay.  If you are getting your pleasure providers off the street, do not bring them home!

But it's kinda harsh to assume we are all crooked!

"A"

There is nothing like the home field advantage.

I like to prepare a fancy meal and show off the place.  My favorites who have been over loved it too.  (It provides a wonderful excuse to spif up the place and wash to linen too!)  I also would only do this with someone that I have already met a few times and feel very comfortable with.

Of course, I would never do this unless I was divorced.  Fears of the the wife showing up unexpectedly do not make for a very sexy time.  Also, I make sure the kids are away or on an overnight.  

Some discetion is called for regarding the neighbors, but for all they know, this is your new girl friend.  Nevertheless, don't go advertising and pull down the shades.

All and all my home is my favorite venue.

I have a few times, but only if I know her well enough. I live in a fairly nice house that I built with my own two hands. I'm pretty proud of it, and like to show it off. Plus, it's a couple of miles out of town, on 10 acres, the closest neighbor is about a half a mile away. I find the session to be much more enjoyable at my own home, and the providers seem to be more at ease as well.

This is a repeat of things written before.  If you research your provider, see a history of good reviews and nothing to indicate a rip off then you are probably in a fairly safe situation.  These ladies are businesswomen (at least the ones who show up with good reviews over time) and don't want to alienate their customer base.
 I have done both where I lived before.  It was certainly nicer to not have to drive over 60 miles one way to spend time with someone.  For some reason sitting in a car for a long time does nothing for my love life.  Right up there with Italian Bicycle seats.

I do many outcalls to peoples places and the worst thing I would do..is maybe pay too much attention to their dog..LOL...NOT in THAT way..LOL

 You know, it just depends on the individual..I am sure you have some friends who shouldnt be left alone around your things..so I dont see why you should be sooo woried about having a provider over at your house...Check her eviews , find a nice one an dyou are all set.

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I have some expensive photographic equipment at my place, should I worry about the hobbyists I bring here ? then spring for a hotel each time. You must have a sterotypical view of all of us. Are we stealing electronics to buy crack ?

Aut

There *is* something about going to a gentleman's home for a meal, conversation and . . .  I love being cooked for -- it's very caring -- and I know you guys love to impress us with your culinary skills.  

I prefer seeing clients in their home after our initial meeting, if they have a reference on top of other screening or we have a comfortable and thorough email / phone exchange prior to meeting.  So, while the orgininal poster is worrying about his TV, the strange woman in his home is praying he doesn't have a dungeon in his basement.

Kate

in what, her hand bag?  Bwahahahah....  Think about it, most providers love ca$h.  they really could care less about your cheap ass electronics... they probably have better stuff than you've got anyway....  having been to a couple of provider's homes, I can honestly say, they live well.... it's your cash baby...

now if ya told me that you had some valuable stocks and bonds lying around.... well, that would be a bit different.

My thoughts on outcalls to private homes....
Posted by Tori Of Atlanta, 7/4/2006 2:52:33 PM  

I do not make outcalls to private residence. I
understand that there are providers who may consider it and ... I have been to a clients home on occasion. ~But that is the exception and not the rule.

First the considerations on your part... IF, you are ok with the possibility of the neighbors not noticing who is at your home -especially the woman down the road who is a friend of your wife!!..... then you are pass that.

Now, what type of vehicle will this provider be in? hmmmm, will she just opt to hire a car and have a Lincoln with a driver sitting in it outside your home for an hour or so.... will she borrow her roommate's '98 Gremlin and leave a huge oil stain on your drive?... hmmmm, will she drive up in a M3,Jag or 500SL and let it sit outside your home (*while your wife is gone*)

Now past the vehicle issue.... will the provider brush her hair in your bathroom and accidentally drop a hair on the floor (*or do you plan to vacuum when she leaves?*) will she wash her hands and dry them on your guest towels? hmmmm, might want to lay out towels for her use and then plan to wash them after she leaves.

What about the possibility of disposing of an item that might seem out of place in your home... ie:
condom, condom wrapper.. etc etc are you planning on placing those in a bag and taking them out with you the next day when you leave for work?

I'll stop here, I just hope I have made my point.

Keep it simple.... most men are doing good to pay
attention to the details of showering with the same soap they use at home... let alone trying to notice everything else that could be a tip off to your behavior.

Men generally have a concern for the materialist items in their home but in my opinion, the assets in his life: ~family, friends, job, etc.... are just as valuable and need to be protected as much or more than his material belongings.

My incall is safe, private and unbelievably discreet. I do make outcalls to limited, specific properties when I am in my hometown. Outside of that, I would have to have a tremendous amount of confidence in the gentleman to venture into his home! (*and he has to be totally single, that is no woman in his residence what so ever*)

I might think twice about a provider that is allowing herself to walk into a private residence where anything could be waiting behind the door and there is not the security of calling the front desk for assistance......  (*just my thoughts*)

Play safe, know your provider (*and her reputation*)   kisses ~Tori

Thanks to everyone who responded, some of these replies had me LOL, my situation is that I have 2 pets in the house and they would be slightly distracting if a provider and myself are trying to get comfortable. All the providers I have been with I have felt fine with, its been awkward on several occasions though when we 1st meet. It would save me money by having providers at my house than paying an extra 75-100 dollars for a hotel room.

If you do your research b4hand, you will not end up with somebody in your home who steals your F>73;N U-pod/

/learned it the hard way/

I agree. For some reason, I feel "safe" in my home with the right provider. In my opinion; If you do your homework, it is a much more comfortable and enjoyable experience. Plus I have everything I enjoy at my fingertips

I've had providers to my apartment several times. I've had some mediocre sessions, but never any security concerns. In retrospect, I may have been taking too much of a risk, however.

--b.

if I had it all to do over, I would invite an ex-GI gal over... and hopefully she would drive up in the humvee!  she would then proceed to shave her beautiful blond pussy and leave hairs everywhere... and bring her own unique bath gel  and use it till the bathroom reeks of it.  

next she would have her way with me - tying me to the bed that my ex insisted we buy when we did not need... and let me break the spindles off the headboard... (try 'splainin dat to da judge judy..) and leave a huge wet spot on her special bedsheets - with the 280 thread weave...

and as she leaves... knock over the frickin "special" non-functional mailbox that just had to be there....  

Why this?  cause one day as I was getting dressed, before my divorce.. I discovered a pair of "his" underware in my drawer.... I asked "prey tell dear, where did these come from?"  her reply, must be the cleaning ladies husbands drawers... you know that Susie, i let her use the washer and dryer for her things last week..."  yea.  right...

Vision, it is all about vision... can you see what happens behind your back.

I've had the same thoughts about hobbyists at my home. I've made a ton of money as a provider, and as a result, I've invested heavily in Old Masters (yes, I do have a small Tintoretto), antique silver, genuine Boulle furniture (hard to shove in one's pocket, but one never knows) and a collection of precious netsuke from the Edo era.

This, plus a home in one of the nicer parts of town, makes my home a veritable showplace. On the few occasions that hobbyists have been invited to my place, it's left them gaping and marveling. And it makes me feel funny, because sometimes I think I've got to hide some of the smaller pieces. I did have an idiot steal a tube of toothpaste out of the guest bathroom once. That freaked me out. Also, if they pull up in a slummy car and park it next to my Mercedes, it looks weird. So next time some of you hobbyists worry about us providers, remember that some of us make more money than you do, and that we're just as worried.

I was house sitting at my friends really cool beach house. I called her and told her I had a good place for a photo shoot.

Over a 2 week period we spent about 3 afternoons and evenings shooting at the beach and the house-it's a big house-She even brought a couple of her girl friends. I had lights set up everywhere and we definatlly took advantage of the huge kitchen and Spa.

On the last day all 3 girls helped me buff the place out and when my friends got home they took me out to dinner for taking such good care of the place...and the bunnies

...and secondly, the staff will ensure she leaves with nothing extra other than the envelope.

You need to hire some decent help my good man, so you can stop worrying about such things.